Sweetplum:

There's a different cases for a child to v able parenting or a child should just be badly influenced after getting proper home training.
However the formula to raise a child is to give him/her proper parenting from mom n dad living together.

miqos02:
I have been married for 11 years. What has marital status got to do with this topic ?

PARADIZEPRIEST:
FIRST OF ALL THIS THREAD IS TOTALLY WORTHLESS AND USELESS.
IF YOU ARE YOU NOT A PRODUCT OF MARRIAGE,TOO BAD. MARRIAGE IS THE SWEETEST THINGS TO DESIRE ON EARTH.
MARRIAGE IS NOT WORTHLESS.MARRIAGE WILL NEVER BE WORTHLESS!

Tunagee:


Babymama take you to court in this naija, if so, everyman go don dey jail

hotwax:


No reason worth it with the way women are handling it..it does not just worth it

oghenecares:


That's not true at the bolded. He never mention you in his post. Here's the fact, @op made you feel uncomfortable. Are you married?, If no I will not take you serious. Continue watching your Telemundo series.

oghenecares:


You always sound as if any child raise by both parent can't go wrong . Leave influence matter out of this, there's good baby mama.

Sweetplum:

I just gave you a realistic food for thought.
It's better that four eyes should care for a child than two eyes. If you want babymama, no wahala. You ll see plenty. As long as there's poverty, your chances are high.

oghenecares:


Some successful ladies love to be baby mama. Rihanna is an example. We in era of baby , infact, nothing can change it . Must a child be raise by four eyes, what about if one of the child parent die early?. What about if the child lost both parent the same day?. I beg think about that

Juanmike:
Can I bang you already?

Sweetplum:

If one the parent die early, it's different. But it's a waste of training if you the father or mother alive aren't training the kid together. Marriage works. If you don't like it, stay out.

oghenecares:


Marriage doesn't work. Most married people wish they were not married. Marriage don kill many people as well. Most are in bondage, pretending all is well.

Cousin9999:
Anyone who thinks this probably wasn't raised properly by loving, married parents.

And marriage is a huge part of the foundation of society. Basically, if you want to live well in a progressive place, believe in marriage. If you want a ghetto life, don't.

Sweetplum:
Same way single hood & babymama don kill many.
See Mr man, font get married. Just be sampling

GOFRONT:
Na wao........And a Gym instructor with six packs was also caught in the act with a Married woman and sure this woman is not his only sextoy...

As a married woman, how can you step out of the boundaries of your marriage to sleep with your Gym instructor??

Marriage is now a shadow of itself. Only DNA can restore the lost sanity in marriage, and when DNA comes, so many marriages will evaporate.


Tunde Thomas and FCMB's Adam Nuhu saga comes to mind...

hotwax:
Based on what I saw last week, I concluded that marriage is over hyped. It does not worth the stress for men.

Men should just get baby Mamas. Get someone to impregnate so they can have their own kids.

Or do not legalize any relationship with a woman. You both can stay together but never legalize it.

It was found out that a school bus driver of a school opposite my house has been sleeping with 4 parents. These are married women who are in their husband houses.

He was exposed by his girlfriend who came to attack one parent with screaming match. She even exposed the woman that the pregnancy the woman is carrying belong to his boyfriend and not her husband.

The woman quickly drove away from that embarrassment. The lady revealed alot. She said they have been engaged for years but he refused to marry her. He will beat her up whenever he sees her with another guy.

She has warned him so many times against sleeping with parents of school where he collect salary. It will hurt his employer, he didn't listen.

I have been very weak since I heard the news. Marriage is wahala jare. I could not just get it out of my head. Although I have one oga who has slept with nearly all married women in my office. But this one is the height of it all.

A school bus driver and parents...chaii

Chynx:
Based on this context, I think I can reason with the OP.

Marriage is fast becoming a laughable enterprise.

uthlaw:
The thing is just that,females of this generation are just too cheap and worthless!

DonroxyII:





I once dated someone(Engineer per Excellence) who traveled into another state and slept in a guy's house, she lied to me she sleeps in a hotel while the dude only helped to convey her luggage:

I didn't Fret because an adult can do to herself what she wants while I have decision to make in Mitigating the spillover of the Consequences towards me:

On another day when every was every, I told her I knew she sleeps in the guy's house then she said yes: Then why did you now lie, she said she thought I was gonna go crazy if I knew: Why would I go crazy over an adult... Shey una fvck gist me the sexcapades na .... I turned everything into a laughing galore... she was more relaxed to tell me some more ... and we all laugh over it ... she's gonna introduce me to the guy who is a programming Guru on a Milli per Month!

Oh Boy, I'm on Earth to enjoy Myself .......
Another Human no go fit cause me Wahala wey no be me create am!

zakkxx:
When I was in Bells university ota I realised married women cheat like men; they shamelessly date each other! Coming from the north is very rear! No be say e no de happen but e scarce! For Yoruba land u go see friends they sleep with each other wife on a low key! No be juju be that? Lord have mercy!!!

Jman06:
It's either you live in denial or you're deliberately lying.


Men benefit nothing from marriage!

Cousin9999:


^ These people are part of an industry of misogyny. There's money to be made peddling nonsense and stroking the egos of lazy, immature men.

However, some of this is the result of decay in society and tensions built over generations. Basically, there's been a breakdown in society and some people have become nihilists, or ruthless. But people need to get over themselves and stop throwing tantrums.

Jman06:
You've just deviated from the issue being argued and delved into shaming and being emotional. I expected you to come up with some tangible reasons why marriage is so important to a man, but alas, you've got no points other than throwing tantrums!