Persephone1:
I wonder why guys are loosing their cool over this thread though, A mature guy with worth will definitely not be comfortable with the idea of picking up a lady to date on a bike. Both of them would rather meet at the venue. Unless Op struck nerves I see no reason for the reactions here.!

OnlineArchitect:
I know of ladies that goes on dates with their own cars.

What's stopping you from getting urs since its a big deal to u?

OnlineArchitect:


Quite funny. It's a faceless forum, it's expected as every Tom dick and Harry would tell you all sorts of trash

FYI I bought my first car at 24

I don't do borrow pose from parents

Persephone1:
One of the numerous lies to make yourselves feel better! Nigerian Ladies are cheaper than indomie yet you lots rape, assault,blackmail,kidnap them.You engage in all sort of atrocities to impress these cheaper than indomie Nigerian Ladies.Is this not a sign of insanity?

Ximenez:

It's losing, not "loosing"

It's not cool for two mature peeps to be running after each other with bikes, talk more of sharing one. I personally don't use bike unless it's an emergency, mainly because of security reasons. You don't expect me to be clad in suit and be flying bike under the sun.

But some girls are greedy, myopic and simple minded. The thing is Drs are clumsy when it comes to dating, romance and lifestyle in general and they don't give certain things some thoughts in that regard.

Why didn't she welcome him and suggest they take an uber instead of putting up an act. He might just be new in practice and doesn't have enough money yet to get a car. He might have even shelved the idea of getting a car while saving money for exams like plab/usmle to travel out, those exams are costly.

I blame my guy for stooping so low to even consider going out with someone like her, from her posts, one can easily deduce that she's not smart/intelligent, she also doesn't have good characters. She's clearly not even gainfully employed, talkless of her having a car or any tangible asset. She claims she goes out with her mum's car, but i won't be surprised if she doesn't know how to drive and if there's no single car in their compound.

If a small yahoo boy/ritualist should pull up now in a common Camry or Toyota, she'd gladly hop in, that's how they will take her away, drug her and possibly harvest her organs.

Vinnie2000:
Ogbeni, don't say what you don't know!
Once u invite a lady to ur crib and cook her a nice meal.
Once the meal is delicious, u have broken her defense walls!
Just tickle her and she will give you the pussy on a platter!

Persephone1:
This does not still answer the question: "why do men kill, rape, blackmail, assault and engage in all form of atrocities to impress these cheaper than indomie Nigerian Ladies?" Answer this and stop the hanky panky.

Persephone1:
I get that, will edit later. Thanks
Good thing you know that, it is strange that most comments appears to be in support of going to dates on bikes. So after spending hours on make up, hair, with my sexy clothes and heels looking like a fairytale princess,I end it all up on a bike? Arrrggghh! So ewwwwwish if you ask me. I'd rather bring the date home, order Uber or cancel. I believe this is op's view too. If you can't go on bike with your perfect gentleman suit then a lady has the right to disapprove of such as well.

Putting up a show might not be the best but I believe she has her reasons for it. Allowing the poor doctor leave may not be right too, however you have to note we deal with issues differently. I believe she applied some diplomacy as well, some brats would have told him outrightly. Yes Doctors can be clumsy, very clumsy, however there should be a level of self worth and awareness. Are doctors that poor? He should have arranged they meet up at the venue individually, that's logic!

I don't know Op, I don't engage in things I'm not sure of, But she has the right to have standards. She has the right to air her standard too.

Lol, even the broke ones harvest organs to become rich. Stop being dramatic!

Demigod22:
When going on a date, I prefer we meet at the venue.

OP, when you make your own money, it will save you from unnecessary bashing, unnecessary sex, unnecessary entitlement mentality. You are even driving your mom's car, that's if you are not even lying and you are here trying to pressurize hustling guys over vagina that exhaust someone after 30 minutes?

After Buhari, you are the second problem we have in this country.

Vinnie2000:
What statistics can u show to prove ur Baseless point dat Men assault, kill, rape, blackmail,etc to impress ladies
Even Yahoo boys do dier stuff for Personal and family gains, NEVER for babes!

Ximenez:

It's not about being poor, uber is not private jet. He might even have parked his car somewhere for one reason or another. I'm just saying it might not have occurred to him, she could have just suggested the uber or bolt thing.

Would you have dealt with the situation the way she did? My guess is no.
I don't think it's about class, it's evident she doesn't have one. What does she do and how much does he earn per month?
It's more about greed and short sightedness.

No matter what i say, i can't change much. Men will continue to sell themselves short, sleeping with goats, cows, raping toddlers and going on a date with someone like her.
Crazy things

Persephone1:
The best thing to do.

When she makes her own money which may be happening already,she would have more standard. One of which she's airing now. She's not pressuring anyone, you choose to see it that way. Whoever is old enough to date should be old enough to bear some cost. Uber is cheap nah.

Favaman:
I don't know if you know a place called agbor in delta state.

Na okada be our uber.

BigRocky:
Mk una ask her if she too dey forbid to buy car

Abi Dem dey forbid car for their family :

Vaginarians and entitlement mentalities

Ximenez:

It's losing, not "loosing"

It's not cool for two mature peeps to be running after each other with bikes, talk more of sharing one. I personally don't use bike unless it's an emergency, mainly because of security reasons. You don't expect me to be clad in suit and be flying bike under the sun.

But some girls are greedy, myopic and simple minded. The thing is Drs are clumsy when it comes to dating, romance and lifestyle in general and they don't give certain things some thoughts in that regard.

Why didn't she welcome him and suggest they take an uber instead of putting up an act. He might just be new in practice and doesn't have enough money yet to get a car. He might have even shelved the idea of getting a car while saving money for exams like plab/usmle to travel out, those exams are costly.

I blame my guy for stooping so low to even consider going out with someone like her, from her posts, one can easily deduce that she's not smart/intelligent, she also doesn't have good characters. She's clearly not even gainfully employed, talkless of her having a car or any tangible asset. She claims she goes out with her mum's car, but i won't be surprised if she doesn't know how to drive and if there's no single car in their compound.

If a small yahoo boy/ritualist should pull up now in a common Camry or Toyota, she'd gladly hop in, that's how they will take her away, drug her and possibly harvest her organs.

Jennyclay:

If I wanna take myself out, I drive my mom's car okay!
Go and buy your car!! Stop jumping okada and bus with your girlfriend!!

Onariii:

Hmmmm oga this ur signature abeg pray make we no see ur news for nairaland were "some sect of people" turn u to barbecue

Onariii:

Wetin be dis naaa see as u don spoil my afternoon indomie

Demigod22:


Nairaland guys are not the medical doctor that came with bike to take her out, Nairaland guys' girlfriend is not complaining, the proper thing to do is to send her write up to the guy, she brought it here to know the guy's opinion then she is not happy with the opinion she is getting.

Since the guy brought bike and she didn't like it, instead of lying and running away, if she is that mature, she would have use her own money to order an Uber.

Persephone1:
I wonder why guys are losing their cool over this thread though, A mature guy with worth will definitely not be comfortable with the idea of picking up a lady to date on a bike. Both of them would rather meet at the venue. Unless Op struck nerves I see no reason for the reactions here.!

Height2:
Imagine, Ik say then don bash you well but na you make guys dey reason women anyhow. She no even get money to spend on a date oh. Tueeehhhhh

satandeterrible:

You be mumu. Big mumu.
A mature man man who knows his worth will not be ashamed of ordering a bike and will not also be ashamed of entering a bike with his girlfriend.

Moreover, a truly mature man will only date a sensible, mature girl who is not an entitled, materialistic, empty dumb bitch.

A mature man lives within his means and will not go out of his reach to impress an entitled idiot.
Thank you.

Persephone1:
And I ask again, why do men kill, assault, rape and engage in all sort of atrocities to impress these cheaper than indomie Nigerian Ladies? Untill you have an answer to this, refrain from mentioning me.

Jennyclay:
Personally, I can't go out on a date with a guy using okada as means of transport.

It looks so awkward to me. You don't expect me to dress well and start jumping okada up and down with you under the sun or rain... It's wrong abeg!

If you don't have a car, atleast order Uber when going out on a date with a girl. Uber is also cheap to move around than using an okada. Abeg!

Yesterday, after I closed from work, a friend of mine who is a medical doctor wanted to take me out just for dinner. So while I was waiting for him at my work place... minutes later he arrived, I was expecting him to come with Uber ride because he doesn't have a car.. only for me to see okada, he even told the Okadaman to wait for him.

The moment I sighted him through the gate, I started pretending like I'm having stomach ache.. I just told him I've been stooling since morning that I need to go home.

Men I have a question... Will you fall sick if you order Uber to take a lady out on a date?? Stop using okada abeg! It's a special date!

Some ladies can jump okada with you but personally I can't ooo.. Biko!!

Jennyclay:
You're not thinking straight!!

You wanna take me on a date and you expect me to pay??

Sorry Sir!!

Aaaaarghmed:
Lol,maybe he feels you deserve an okada.looool