Friends with benefits is a better option for me

Datboredberri:
Simple fix... Don't spend money on girls to impress and get them...

Relationships are about feelings not money... Stop making your relationships transactional... It's only gets you cheap women who see you as an ATM...

And if she ditches you for someone richer... Then she wasn't worth it...

And if there's a problem it's understandable if she leaves...

I have been enjoying your response but not until when u made this response.........see majority of our ladies have made relationship so bad in this country that you wont think twice but to go hookup....... I have met with guys (and my own personal experience as well ) who said if you meet a lady today and show interest in her tell her then a day or two days later she will tell u her birthday is coming up in two days ( billing)
In my own then I was In benin, a lady I met just a week I Invited her over to my place and while we were discussing she told me before any can see her laps he must get her a phone.

I can categorically tell you that the few ones you mentioned re the majority , but you know what these few majority make relationship in Nigeria sucks. The good ladies can only be met abroad. I met the lady I presently with now ( an African American girl) at the former place I work . She was in Nigeria for tourism with her mom and other American, but you know something this lady comes to visit me every 4month since she agreed to marry me without getting tired for ones
So but I must tell you that it is so hard to get to meet any lady that wont attach conditions when dating u.... they view relationships or dating as means of survival, not otherwise.

After my last break up towards the end of 2019, i have managed to sneak into some relationships i term as FWB and i don't know what they think of it but it is obvious i am in for the couchie, it is very bland, uninteresting.

While i have had so many hook up girls come over for bleeping, the issue is they then to start troubling you for money and data afterwards.
This happens whenever you just decided not to block her number since you feel she hasn't done anything to warrant it.

I have one that begs for urgent 2k every week.

Datboredberri:
Men who patronize prostitutes irritate me...

The diseases... Money wasted... The horrible sex... Etc...

but those prostitutes are more trusted in terms of virus and STD, because the hotel owners they normally check them every month, girlfriend that Bleep around, pls I prefer prostitute till I get married, and again I won't have anything to bother me in terms of billing