Connected1:

Nawa

zedegit:


It seems you are even the man.
Go ahead quoting everyone instead of sleeping.

Siblings betray each other talkless of different people coming for marriage. If he needs money from her to setup his business after marriage that's another thing but let that money he's requesting not affect her own business.


But joint account, is cancelled. I said so.

AdelekeToyin

zedegit:


If that's the true motive, then a joint account is not necessary. Let him be remitting a certain percentage of his money into her account for say 10 years before stopping work.

It seems Dude want to put in #500 000 and claim #3 million for his own business. MMM pattern.

Iretii0511:



Wait, what’s bad with having a joint account in marriage?

Why are you guys so sensitive with money? I mean, we are supposed to own everything together innit? If I can’t trust you with my money or vice versa, why am I getting married to you?

Iretii0511:



Wait, what’s bad with having a joint account in marriage?

Why are you guys so sensitive with money? I mean, we are supposed to own everything together innit? If I can’t trust you with my money or vice versa, why am I getting married to you?

zedegit:


Simp. Your breakfast will be sweet. Wait for it.

Nellsworld:

Nothing is bad abt it, but not in business, if it was personal joint account where the two wil be remitting their income, but for business, that is no cos the business is her sweat, if any wrong move or investment, or unnecessary spending from any parties will bring down the business

MALIGNANTGuest:
You are not his WIFE.
So let him know.
U Guys should learn to distinguish Bedmates from Husband & Wife. Top
Until he marries you then you Guys can step up!
At this level, ur name is still written with a temporary marker. He can delist you or vice versa. U may wake up one morning & decide to delist him.

kapelvej:
well it may be tight. However most times when we have imbroglio like this, the best way to solve it is to reverse the situation back to ourselves and see how it feels.
I met a man who said marrying two wives is very ok. I asked him to pray that his only daughter becomes a second wife or marry into polygamy,
and dude went berserk.

atobs4real:
that's too harsh

Iretii0511:



Did you read the OP? Let me give it a recap.

1. Dude works and make his own money.
2. Propose to support the woman’s business when they get married.
3. Propose to have a joint account or family account with the wife.
4. Said he has plans of leaving his current job to have his business and will be depending on the wife’s business pending when he kicks his business up. (This is after investing in the business)


You could deduce that the family account (joint account if you will) is not mutual exclusive of his support for the wife’s business. Only wants the wife’s business to be big enough to carry the family pending when he gets comfy with his business.

This OP is just being a typical woman, self centred and selfish, I’m sure if the guy earns way higher, she would rather see that as a Blessing rather than this complaining.

MrBrownJay1:


what do you mean? do you believe that the minute they get married, she should allow her husband to dictate how she should run her own business?! she succeessfuly ran a biz before she met the dude, and she certainly doesnt need her future husband to now jump on the bandwagon and use that same biz as leverage for him to quit his job. the whole issue is fishy to begin with...

imagine if the future husband had a successful biz and suddenly future wifey says:" i am gonna quit my job and now will be going to your biz and make it our biz and i will take decisions about this biz with you?!