Born2winnx:
she's the last Born, her niece is older than her

Born2winnx:
Hello all
My girlfriend wants me to wear same native attire to her niece wedding on Friday. I thought she was joking when she suggested it last week, because I don't even plan on going due to my busy schedule. But to my surprise she's just came to my house with some yards of the material she bought with her money.

Though I appreciate her good gestures, but I don't think it's right.. We are not married. What will her people say when dey see me with her like that because her father, mother, brothers and sisters will be there, not talking about her extended families.

I had to confide with a friend and he told me blantly that it is a set up, I should abort. That he had witness a similar case in a party when a guy was behaving as if he had paid his girlfriend bride price...what happened was the guy didn't leave the way he came. I won't want that to happen to me but before I decide I like to hear from you all.

relationship is 3months
I don't know her family house, talkless to know who born her.. not yet ready to.

Divay22:

The relationship is still early na..
Just 3 months
Op go las las do husband duty for there

Born2winnx:
Hello all
My girlfriend wants me to wear same native attire to her niece wedding on Friday. I thought she was joking when she suggested it last week, because I don't even plan on going due to my busy schedule. But to my surprise she's just came to my house with some yards of the material she bought with her money.

Though I appreciate her good gestures, but I don't think it's right.. We are not married. What will her people say when dey see me with her like that because her father, mother, brothers and sisters will be there, not talking about her extended families.

I had to confide with a friend and he told me blantly that it is a set up, I should abort. That he had witness a similar case in a party when a guy was behaving as if he had paid his girlfriend bride price...what happened was the guy didn't leave the way he came. I won't want that to happen to me but before I decide I like to hear from you all.

relationship is 3months
I don't know her family house, talkless to know who born her.. not yet ready to.

Born2winnx:
Hello all
My girlfriend wants me to wear same native attire to her niece wedding on Friday. I thought she was joking when she suggested it last week, because I don't even plan on going due to my busy schedule. But to my surprise she's just came to my house with some yards of the material she bought with her money.

Though I appreciate her good gestures, but I don't think it's right.. We are not married. What will her people say when dey see me with her like that because her father, mother, brothers and sisters will be there, not talking about her extended families.

I had to confide with a friend and he told me blantly that it is a set up, I should abort. That he had witness a similar case in a party when a guy was behaving as if he had paid his girlfriend bride price...what happened was the guy didn't leave the way he came. I won't want that to happen to me but before I decide I like to hear from you all.

relationship is 3months
I don't know her family house, talkless to know who born her.. not yet ready to.

Kingsean:



I don't really see any issue here. the only thing I see is that you don't love her as much as she loves you. your guys tell you to abort and you sef abort. funny thing is that your friend might be eyeing your babe. be careful with friends. It's not everything about your relationship you should be telling them.you can go with her. don't allow negative energy kill your relationship. she is proud to show you off to her people. she wants you to marry her. you can let her know you're not comfortable with it and I believe she should understand

Kingozymandias:


It is men like you the late Prophet and Godfather of blessed memory his royal Highness Kevin Samuels tried to save with his gospel...

Comrade what is wrong with you ? You already know it's everything wrong to show up there with her firstly, secondly to show up there and identify as her significant other, thirdly to show up there to identify as her SO and wear the same material? Bros what is wrong with you ? Except you know you are going to marry her otherwise, my guy dodge it immediately!!

Or else all family events in your family she will want to accompany you dressed in his and her clothing .

Brother be wise now... Eat your share and move along...

See go and purge your mind of SIMPlicitic ways of thinking and find the late Prophet Kevin Samuels teachings and thank me later .

Wait hold up!! Did you say neice's traditional wedding?
How old is this your GF? Na old layer be that o!! Bros how old are you ?

Is she in her thirties ? Your wording even shows you might likely be younger than she is? Please if she is the one feeding and clothing you, then jejely respect yourself and wear whatever uniform she has ordered for you. For her neice to be getting married she isn't a young girl, likely in her mid thirties , no man in his late thirties or fourties calls a woman he is dating GF, so likely you are younger in your late twenties .. you are likely her toy boy... So better bend down and take it up the anus like a toy you are. You have been eating her money now you don't want to identify with her because you are afraid people will laugh at your for dating your mother's age mate? The path we choose has its rules

TheMostComplex1:


For your info some of my colleagues nieces are older than her, one of them is an academic Dr. While my young colleague graduated like two years ago, so stop this your assumptions

Mariangeles:


Okay, 3 months is still quite recent.
Tell her you're not comfortable with that arrangement, that it might send the wrong message, and you wouldn't want that.

babyfaceafrica:


Even marriage of 10 years doesn't guarantee you will know anything about a woman, life is deep

enonche85:


Some niece dey senior their aunty o...

Born2winnx:
Hello all
My girlfriend wants me to wear same native attire to her niece wedding on Friday. I thought she was joking when she suggested it last week, because I don't even plan on going due to my busy schedule. But to my surprise she's just came to my house with some yards of the material she bought with her money.

Though I appreciate her good gestures, but I don't think it's right.. We are not married. What will her people say when dey see me with her like that because her father, mother, brothers and sisters will be there, not talking about her extended families.

I had to confide with a friend and he told me blantly that it is a set up, I should abort. That he had witness a similar case in a party when a guy was behaving as if he had paid his girlfriend bride price...what happened was the guy didn't leave the way he came. I won't want that to happen to me but before I decide I like to hear from you all.

relationship is 3months
I don't know her family house, talkless to know who born her.. not yet ready to.

Zelenskyy:
A sign of no True love...

This OP is asking this question because he has no plans to marry her. If he is convinced that she is the one for him, he would not think twice about this matter.

3 months is enough time to know whether you truly love someone and want to continue this relationship down to the Altar...


I see someone that came to EAT AND RUN

And most men behave like this when they see the lady as not adding anything to their life...

One question for the OP...

If na Dangote , Otedola or Governor's daughter that you love ask you to wear the same Asho ebi, would you come to Nairaland to ask for public opinion ... ?

Would you not jump at the offer.... ?

Answer Truthfully and don't deceive yourself.

Like I said, No True Love here.

She sees you as Husband material but you are still wearing your EAT AND RUN cap. If not you will not be here asking this question

That your girlfriend is not getting any younger. That is why she is doing what she is doing.

So let her know as soon as possible your intentions for the relationship. There is no Crime telling her that you don't intend to marry her. So that she can prepare her heart for her missing ribs..


But you may not tell her that because your plan is to EAT, EAT, EAT AND RUN and possibly delay her marital Destiny

Born2winnx:
Hello all
My girlfriend wants me to wear same native attire to her niece wedding on Friday. I thought she was joking when she suggested it last week, because I don't even plan on going due to my busy schedule. But to my surprise she's just came to my house with some yards of the material she bought with her money.

Though I appreciate her good gestures, but I don't think it's right.. We are not married. What will her people say when dey see me with her like that because her father, mother, brothers and sisters will be there, not talking about her extended families.

I had to confide with a friend and he told me blantly that it is a set up, I should abort. That he had witness a similar case in a party when a guy was behaving as if he had paid his girlfriend bride price...what happened was the guy didn't leave the way he came. I won't want that to happen to me but before I decide I like to hear from you all.

relationship is 3months
I don't know her family house, talkless to know who born her.. not yet ready to.

Mariangeles:


Are you into men?
As in, do you prefer men sexually? Answer honestly, so that we can all understand where your hate is coming from.

TheMostComplex1:


For your info some of my colleagues nieces are older than her, one of them is an academic Dr. While my young colleague graduated like two years ago, so stop this your assumptions

Munzy14:



I am imagining listening to this comment said verbally than written..

Gi na Emma..smh

nighter:


If he isn't comfortable wearing the same attire with her, he should Bleep off. Wearing matching outfits is a big deal. You shouldn't be fckingg who you don't want to marry.

Mariangeles:


Hehehehehehe

The thing is, if you're from or based in the SW, you'd understand that aso ebi is no big deal at events.
Almost, if not all, the guests will be wearing them.

emmanuelbrown26:

Says According to the book of @nighter chapter 1 vs 2
Una go dey cum on nairaland dey yab rubbish, did bros force her to hv sex with him?

Munzy14:



I am imagining listening to this comment said verbally than written..

Gi na Emma..smh

Mariangeles:


All that constant hate can never be ordinary.
It stems from a deep place.

Mariangeles:


Once they talk about ladies not having sex with whom they're not married to, most of you men become perturbed, then start with the reverse psychology tactics.

If only ladies know the power they possess before ever giving it up, then they would never give it up, except at the right time and with the right person.

Mariangeles:


Once they talk about ladies not having sex with whom they're not married to, most of you men become perturbed, then start with the reverse psychology tactics.

If only ladies know the power they possess before ever giving it up, then they would never give it up, except at the right time and with the right person.

emmanuelbrown26:

They can only do that shit with simps and lover boys, real men don't beg for sex. Rather na women dey beg sex from real men. By d way, what's so special about this shit sex women always talk about as if sex is something that nourishes d body and soul?

Ximenez:

Unfortunately, most ladies have no choice and it's not up to them.