Born2winnx:
Hello all
My girlfriend wants me to wear same native attire to her niece wedding on Friday. I thought she was joking when she suggested it last week, because I don't even plan on going due to my busy schedule. But to my surprise she's just came to my house with some yards of the material she bought with her money.

Though I appreciate her good gestures, but I don't think it's right.. We are not married. What will her people say when dey see me with her like that because her father, mother, brothers and sisters will be there, not talking about her extended families.

I had to confide with a friend and he told me blantly that it is a set up, I should abort. That he had witness a similar case in a party when a guy was behaving as if he had paid his girlfriend bride price...what happened was the guy didn't leave the way he came. I won't want that to happen to me but before I decide I like to hear from you all.

relationship is 3months
I don't know her family house, talkless to know who born her.. not yet ready to.

Zonefree:
Don't fall for that cheap manipulation from her. Na over familiarity dey cause all this nonsense!

You can decide to go for the wedding if you're less busy but don't wear same attire with her. She's just a girlfriend...don't let your girlfriend stops you from finding the love of your life. The love of your life might be in that wedding. Be wise!

Mariangeles:


Bia! Gini wu nsogbu gi? Ihe I na chughari'm, e nwee ugwo m ji gi?
E nwere ihe jikoro mu na gi?
Lekwe k'obi na a kpogbu gi n'okwu gbasara umu nwaanyi n'elu nairaland!

A kpasukwala'm iwe!

Slynation:
Asin ehh... wahala dey O

emmanuelbrown26:

Gender that Jah regretted creating

emmanuelbrown26:

Empty ranting, mak u cum do your worst mak i see

MALIGNANTGuest:

Abeg forward ur Account for Cold Beer.
I know say person like you already get money but still forward ur stuff for very chilled Origin!
.... na MAN u be..
U carry head enter this WORLD..

Mariangeles:


I nwekwara ako n'uche?
O wu ihe Chukwu gwara gi?
E kwekwala ka Chineke kpoo gi oku!

Born2winnx:
Hello all
My girlfriend wants me to wear same native attire to her niece wedding on Friday. I thought she was joking when she suggested it last week, because I don't even plan on going due to my busy schedule. But to my surprise she's just came to my house with some yards of the material she bought with her money.

Though I appreciate her good gestures, but I don't think it's right.. We are not married. What will her people say when dey see me with her like that because her father, mother, brothers and sisters will be there, not talking about her extended families.

I had to confide with a friend and he told me blantly that it is a set up, I should abort. That he had witness a similar case in a party when a guy was behaving as if he had paid his girlfriend bride price...what happened was the guy didn't leave the way he came. I won't want that to happen to me but before I decide I like to hear from you all.

relationship is 3months
I don't know her family house, talkless to know who born her.. not yet ready to.

Zonefree:
Don't fall for that cheap manipulation from her. Na over familiarity dey cause all this nonsense!

You can decide to go for the wedding if you're less busy but don't wear same attire with her. She's just a girlfriend...don't let your girlfriend stops you from finding the love of your life. The love of your life might be in that wedding. Be wise!

casualobserver:


You women sef are your own problems. This is how you put pressure on men and drive men away. How can you ask a man to wear aso ebi with you after 3 months…..kilode!!!!!

Invite him to the wedding, if he doesn’t want to come, you know he has no plans for you because he doesn’t want to meet your family. But when you ask him to wear aso ebi, you are the one creating issues by trying to force the issue which will often backfire on you.

It is one thing to meet your family, it’s another to participate in a family event as a family member in waiting after just 3 months!!!!

Born2winnx:
Hello all
My girlfriend wants me to wear same native attire to her niece wedding on Friday. I thought she was joking when she suggested it last week, because I don't even plan on going due to my busy schedule. But to my surprise she's just came to my house with some yards of the material she bought with her money.

Though I appreciate her good gestures, but I don't think it's right.. We are not married. What will her people say when dey see me with her like that because her father, mother, brothers and sisters will be there, not talking about her extended families.

I had to confide with a friend and he told me blantly that it is a set up, I should abort. That he had witness a similar case in a party when a guy was behaving as if he had paid his girlfriend bride price...what happened was the guy didn't leave the way he came. I won't want that to happen to me but before I decide I like to hear from you all.

relationship is 3months
I don't know her family house, talkless to know who born her.. not yet ready to.

Sirmee:
How old is your girlfriend wey she don dey get niece wey ripe for marriage?

Mariangeles:


Sisi ehn...

I took note of that, just in case shaa.✍️

MrMcJay:
She is trying to mark her territory.

That girl is marking her territory, staking ownership on the guy and showing off her prize before her family members. The guy will now get there, her family members will be telling the guy to do quick and pick date.

Pick which date? Guy wey just pay for IELTS.

Zelenskyy:
A sign of no True love...

This OP is asking this question because he has no plans to marry her. If he is convinced that she is the one for him, he would not think twice about this matter.

3 months is enough time to know whether you truly love someone and want to continue this relationship down to the Altar...

You’ve never known everything about a person, i

I see someone that came to EAT AND RUN

And most men behave like this when they see the lady as not adding anything to their life...

One question for the OP...

If na Dangote , Otedola or Governor's daughter that you love ask you to wear the same Asho ebi, would you come to Nairaland to ask for public opinion ... ?

Would you not jump at the offer.... ?

Answer Truthfully and don't deceive yourself.

Like I said, No True Love here.

She sees you as Husband material but you are still wearing your EAT AND RUN cap. If not you will not be here asking this question

That your girlfriend is not getting any younger. That is why she is doing what she is doing.

So let her know as soon as possible your intentions for the relationship. There is no Crime telling her that you don't intend to marry her. So that she can prepare her heart for her missing ribs..


But you may not tell her that because your plan is to EAT, EAT, EAT AND RUN and possibly delay her marital Destiny

sisisioge:


Abi nau....simple solutions o. Tailors are different kind of ogas

brandsoncharlie:

You’ve never known everything about a person,
Even while dating any lady they will always say 40 percent is for you the rest is their privacy, Same everyone.
Don’t assume you’ve known your girlfriend all , that’s why you hear of ladies cheating on their boyfriends or suddenly dumb him or her.
Pastors wife even divorce and cheat after long years of friendship, marriage even with kids.

Mariangeles:


Okay, 3 months is still quite recent.
Tell her you're not comfortable with that arrangement, that it might send the wrong message, and you wouldn't want that.

MrMcJay:
She is trying to mark her territory.

That girl is marking her territory, staking ownership on the guy and showing off her prize before her family members. The guy will now get there, her family members will be telling the guy to do quick and pick date.

Pick which date? Guy wey just pay for IELTS.

Zelenskyy:


I repeat

3 months is enough time to know whether you love someone and want to marry her...


The lady has seen a husband material in that guy and the guy is not seeing likewise probably because he has an ulterior motive...

If he thinks the lady is trying to lead him to where he is not ready to go yet, simply tell her to back off...

But guyman would not do that because he wants to keep Fuking the lady all in the name of "we are still dating and trying to know ourselves..."

That is Hogwash....

You can never truly Know your Spouse or Girlfriend

There are couples married for 20 years and are still getting to know and understand themselves...

Marriage is a school where you don't graduate...


3 months is enough time to know if the relationship would result in marriage...