occfx:


No try am ooo, anything less than $500 per month is shiiit

zoeymikey:

Abeg Find me 2k make i use go buy food chop.
Thank u

OboOlora:
Na God de help horse wey nor get tail pursue housefly.

Then men:

6am resume at newspaper joint and argue about premiership and state of the nation

8am: Storm paraga joint and take shekpe at Iya Kamilu joint till 12pm

12pm: go home to eat or abuse and beat the wife if she doesn’t provide a meal even though the man didn’t drop 1naira

2pm: Take a nap to go and cause kasala in town later

5pm: resume at beer parlour hoping one taxi driver or a frustrated access bank staff will come after work (avoiding traffic or going home early to his nagging wife) and buy him free shayo

10pm: Get back home to nack his wife and sleep (belle don full from awoof peppered ponmo and 33 at the beer parlour)

Next day: Repeat again.

Wodu89:



If you can do farm work and be a part of a growing youth team, let me know. There's a lot to do. I have to build a team of twelve men I'll transform into super men !

Toktee:
Have a godly home and an understanding woman who loves you dearly and not all this olosho/parasites that are all over naira land.


Then you have peace.


Be focus on achieving your goals.


That's all.

DenreleDave:


Are you married with kids?



Now your sister is cheating and no longer faithful to her marital vows

BigBlackPreek:
At 31 years of age, I've lost interest in women let alone approaching them for friendship

It is like an herculean task for me

I've never had a girlfriend before and many may it difficult to believe...


please is something wrong with me or am I the only one in this kinda situation?

tym92:
Unmarried fellows gat to think well before delving into the matter now oo...

We are on shege pro-max now oo...

Wodu89:



Why don't you find small remote jobs you can do. Like virtual assistant that can pay like 20k monthly ?

Seunomobo:
My elder sister is married to a man with a very low source of income with three children.....

The thing is the man is not ready to do extra to make extra income for the family.

My sister has been doing odd jobs to ensuring the kids won't suffer...

Now my sister cant help but have a side boyfriend to help with the upkeep of the family, since the husband is utterly useless.....

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

Are you married with no (or a very poor paying) job? If yes, then having a godly and understanding wife in such a situation is an oxymoron. Bro, such women exist only in fairy tales.

00FFT00:


Most are definitely struggling under the heavy weight of "see finish" induced insults from their wives and even children.

That's what you get when you live in a society where core family and moral values have evaporated and what's left is extreme greed and moral decadence.

Yet, there are level-headed, hard-working women out there who stand by their struggling spouses and give them reason to believe and the will to succeed. My respect goes to these ladies.

DenreleDave:
To all the men out there that are married and blessed with kids..... How are you coping?

How are you surviving with no job?

How are you surviving with low source of income?

How is your home? How do u keep going despite the hardness?

My experience today seeing a family man is not good ....

I feel so bad that I am so helpless to help forever......

Your sadness will be over... Every difficult thing in your life will be solved... You and ur family will smile......

God bless all struggling married men with responsibilities....

Toktee:
My wife gives me peace, kpekus, joy, happiness, kids etc.
I can show you to where you can find one.... Not on Nairaland though.

Wodu89:



If you can do farm work and be a part of a growing youth team, let me know. There's a lot to do. I have to build a team of twelve men I'll transform into super men !

Evolutionlove:
We are Coping absolutely fine.

Infact I just gave my Wife N500,000 to go to Market and stock up the house with everything we will need for consumption till December.

I have Paid my children school tuition fees for 2024 season.

I just Deposited N5,000,000 into my Children Trust Fund Account.

This Regime is the best and i keep on praying it will continue to favor me and my family.

Ade1177:

I just broke up with my girlfriend

And adviced her to find a rich guy

She's already of marriageable age

I am not even half ready

A man can wait till whenever
A lady can't

Don't be wicked man

Let her go for a better man to marry

Marriage has zero advantage for a struggling man

Stay single and enjoy your life till you're financially free

These people will advice you otherwise and allow you learn the hard way

LadyRosa:


To the ones who voted Buhari and Tinubu and your are finding it difficult to feed your family, MAKE THUNDERCLAPS FIR3 YOU THERE!

Chummynoni:
A supportive woman is all you need to avoid depression in this trying times. I am married with a kid. Biz is being shitty, but my woman keeps assuring me that the storm would be over soon .

Andolive47:


I earn about N150,000 per month, I realize I can't marry with this salary

Britishcoins:
Reason it is not good to marry too early, especially when u are not doing financially well. That is how my younger brother (18yearsy) said he want to marry because he managed to save 500k and I let him marry... Today they have been disturbing me with complain not because of finance but due to woman wahala, minor issue they will have issue because they are not yet matured emotionally..

Toktee:
Have a godly home and an understanding woman who loves you dearly and not all this olosho/parasites that are all over naira land.


Then you have peace.


Be focus on achieving your goals.


That's all.

TUTU147:
You sister is a disgrace to womanhood,must she have a boyfriend in other to survive.

occfx:


Tell her to divorce the man and marry a capable man if that's where her hope is.

UnfairLife7:
it is not easy o bro. But bible said a man who couldn't provide for his family is an infidel.

Seunomobo:
My elder sister is married to a man with a very low source of income with three children.....

The thing is the man is not ready to do extra to make extra income for the family.

My sister has been doing odd jobs to ensuring the kids won't suffer...

Now my sister cant help but have a side boyfriend to help with the upkeep of the family, since the husband is utterly useless.....

00FFT00:


Manner also fell from heaven in the bible. Look, some of us men are simply not fit, mentally and emotionally, to mention marriage with their mouths, but this Nigeria is daily making infidels of even worthy men.

TUTU147:
You sister is a disgrace to womanhood,must she have a boyfriend in other to survive.

candidbabe:

They brought the hardship upon themselves
Why getting married when you know that, you are not capable of taking care of your wife and kids .
Or is it because of the free sex?