candidbabe:

They brought the hardship upon themselves
Why getting married when you know that, you are not capable of taking care of your wife and kids .
Or is it because of the free sex?

gbammmm

SAMBARRY:
lmao dey deceive yourself.

Understanding woman indeed.do you know the amount of married women Doing runs?


Go and work in a hotel for one month and see how all kinds of men (both single and married) dey carry married women.you go hate the Nigerian idea of marriage

don't come here to paint women generally as same. There are good and bad women. There are good and bad men

Those men sleeping with married or single women are probably married cheating on their wives. They are bad men. There are men that do not cheat on their wives, vice versa.

Goalnaldo:
You are not alone brother, we're the same age and I found love last month. Amazing thing is that I didn't even ask the babe out 🤣

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How did you go about it

Wodu89:



Why don't you find small remote jobs you can do. Like virtual assistant that can pay like 20k monthly ?

can you help with this?

Sirchiboy:
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How did you go about it

well I had her number when I was using a small itel phone, when I bought smartphone, she was super excited cause the place where she was working was next to mine. She asked me on WhatsApp if I love her and I said yes. I asked her too and she said yes. Na so relationship start oo she jokingly told me that I will have to toast her so she can blush

Wodu89:



Why don't you find small remote jobs you can do. Like virtual assistant that can pay like 20k monthly ?

I have a laptop, what platform are the VA jobs on? Thanks in advance sir!

Andolive47:


I earn about N150,000 per month, I realize I can't marry with this salary

You stay in Lagos?

jackmrandy:




side boy friend.. and of course give him the pot hole too to ride.. terrible generation. you are not even ashamed to come talk such here.

Why should I be ashamed....

There's nothing new under the sun uncle.....

UnfairLife7:
don't come here to paint women generally as same. There are good and bad women. There are good and bad men

Those men sleeping with married or single women are probably married cheating on their wives. They are bad men. There are men that do not cheat on their wives, vice versa.

yinmu

It’s not easy Na by GOD grace
GOD has Been so wundaful
I gv GOD all the glory

Boldtrust:


your sister is cheating to "help with home responsibilities". Now I see why her husband has lost inspiration to make any effort to progress. We live in a strange generation where people justify promiscuity with flimsiness excuses.

Alright sir..
Because God bless u, on pe PADI e lole.....

I hear

Seunomobo:
My elder sister is married to a man with a very low source of income with three children.....

The thing is the man is not ready to do extra to make extra income for the family.

My sister has been doing odd jobs to ensuring the kids won't suffer...

Now my sister cant help but have a side boyfriend to help with the upkeep of the family, since the husband is utterly useless.....

This is rampant now

Andolive47:


I earn about N150,000 per month, I realize I can't marry with this salary

Why?

abba190:
with 3 children and currently unemployed i am thinking of endin it all. life feels bored and meaningless to me.

it's not over until it's over. My uncle wanted to run and leave his family of 2 . It was my mom that took a loan and he got a bus today he has his printing company and a side business

Britishcoins:
Reason it is not good to marry too early, especially when u are not doing financially well. That is how my younger brother (18yearsy) said he want to marry because he managed to save 500k and I let him marry... Today they have been disturbing me with complain not because of finance but due to woman wahala, minor issue they will have issue because they are not yet matured emotionally..

Early marriage has it pros and cons

SAMBARRY:
yinmu

I'm glad your mother is not a man, neither your sister.

tym92:
Unmarried fellows gat to think well before delving into the matter now oo...

Think am well because it ain't funny bread I bought yesterday 200, today it 250

Why did the man release when he knows he cannot handle another mouth

Seunomobo:


I agree with you, when she had her third child I was really mad at her but there's nothing I could do.

I also pray for her that she won't be used as minced meat as well, but even if that happens life goes on......

I can't advice her to stay clear of her boyfriend, cos I can't aid her financially, the money she earns is also not enof to care for three children, so either way she chooses , life must go on....

Sirchiboy:
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How much is gratuity for state secondary school teacher?

That man pension is 10million o, they gave him 5m and the rest 5m spread for some years.


Ur gratuity is determined my the number of years of service and amount u contributed for those years.

BItt:

I lost my job some weeks ago. It felt like hell and I am fvcking broke. No money in my account to even transport round and apply for jobs.
I felt like killing myself because I don't even know what else to do.

In the midst of all these thinking, I realized I am not the only one going through hard times and suicide wasn't worth it.

Don't end it all. Things will change, even if not totally better, but I believe things will change and situations will pass

We stup low to corner, grab any job now because my company is shedding staff like say tomorrow no dey

Wodu89:


Buy.one. Easy buy loan to the rescue

I'm a student,not working.

Fiscus105:



That man pension is 10million o, they gave him 5m and the rest 5m spread for some years.


Ur gratuity is determined my the number of years of service and amount u contributed for those years.

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Na retire teacher?

BigBlackPreek:
At 31 years of age, I've lost interest in women let alone approaching them for friendship

It is like an herculean task for me

I've never had a girlfriend before and many may it difficult to believe...

please is something wrong with me or am I the only one in this kinda situation?

There is nothing wrong with you.

This is a Prove that you are a SANE Human Being.

Any SANE Person from a Poor/Average Background who have set standard and want to be an achiever in life will probably tow the Path you are towing.

Believe me if the country was okay and you are well endowed. I'm very sure you will be dating at least Three Ladies right now.

When Life gets too Hard. You will hardly think of any form of Pleasure.

I press laptop from time to time.

Maga must pay so I can pay my bills and feed my family.

Where my G-Boys at?

It aren't easy at all. But we are gently coping and setting out things.

This year people no marry reach three 3

Thus, doing coded olosho

DenreleDave:


Are you married with kids?



Now your sister is cheating and no longer faithful to her marital vows

Minjim:
I usually wake feeling wave of apprehension and a fear.
The worry is just too much especially when you have a baby to feed. That one doesn't send.

I've sold all the iron condemned around me already.
And I only survive on hope from reading the Bible

I thought I was the only one.
Omo I couldn't sleep well nor eat well for the past few weeks and I have mouths to feed.
I sold everything finish I no get wetin to come sell again.
Palmcredit loan expired and they were all calling me and disturbing me.
Omo life no easy

Evolutionlove:
We are Coping absolutely fine.

Infact I just gave my Wife N500,000 to go to Market and stock up the house with everything we will need for consumption till December.

I have Paid my children school tuition fees for 2024 season.

I just Deposited N5,000,000 into my Children Trust Fund Account.

This Regime is the best and i keep on praying it will continue to favor me and my family.

dey play

Seunomobo:
My elder sister is married to a man with a very low source of income with three children.....

The thing is the man is not ready to do extra to make extra income for the family.

My sister has been doing odd jobs to ensuring the kids won't suffer...

Now my sister cant help but have a side boyfriend to help with the upkeep of the family, since the husband is utterly useless.....

That's too bad.


Life challenges sha.

Minjim:
I usually wake feeling wave of apprehension and a fear.
The worry is just too much especially when you have a baby to feed. That one doesn't send.

I've sold all the iron condemned around me already.
And I only survive on hope from reading the Bible

You can go around building site and pick metals like nails and sell