DenreleDave:



It feels normal to be broken after such insults...... People hate the truth.....

Normally if I were to be your husband, I would nt have said anything....

I have studied people and realized that they hate anytin truth....


Encourage your husband next time not to interfere in such matter... Don't worry God will raise you up and your family will build one soon by God grace

Mumben:

Amen to your prayer and thanks for ur kind words

VeryWickedMan:



Wotowoto ooo

sisisioge:
Hmmmm

Better not to pay her any attention but it's ok to think of what she said if it bothers you.....would you like to change it or continue to roll within that circle? You are obviously a better person than her but disadvantaged. Better get your hands busier to ease your predicament. You will laugh last.

I used to be incredibly skinny and hated when people pointed it out. In fact, it got to a point that I was spending all my allowance on protein milkshakes and other foods to add weight. This might sound trivial but it was my biggest bother then and I took care of it. Again, if your state bothers you, take care of it while pretending that madam mockery is just giving you a feedback from her perceptive. Good luck darling....we need a e-hug emogen.

MufasaLion:


Seems you're no more incredibly skinny. So are you still skinny or chubby now?

sisisioge:


Omoh! I no skinny nor chubby o, I'm inbetween and giving my former critics something to wish for

DenreleDave:


U too watch nollywood.... Chai

Must sumtin like death always happen whne two people go physical.. Must someone always slump?

You didn't even raise the concern that what if she herself slumped... God forbid....

Nollywood don make una bliv say the one attacked always slump

Ok12345:
The day lapo people drag me for clothes reach their office, na that day I stop to collect loan,it was a life changing decision.

Sorry madam ehn

Ok12345:


It wasn't funny ooo
I don't take loans anymore oo,it is better I die of hunger than collect from loan sharks

udeh3:


Taking loans without clear vision and project tied to that loan with atmost discipline is like reporting oneself to the devil

Loan is good, but to what purpose and interest?

DenreleDave:


How come your deity can't take your out of your militant life? Is it so dumb to only welcome mocking or embarrassment case but wunt better your life

Mumben:

Reporting to a deity is not an option for me.

Klass99:


How can the husband mind his business when what is happening affects him too? He did nothing wrong by confirming a truth to their landlord during the meeting.

It is as if you have never jammed co-tenants who are just troublesome without cause or justification. The ones that will push your clothes from your own rope/line to spread their clothes, rope that you bought with your money and put outside.

Or is it the saboteurs who will never contribute fuel money to pump water, but will deliberately leave their bathroom taps on and go out to spite others for calling them out, so all the water you are pumping is wasting away and the water tank is not filling up because of them.

Please free that man he did not do anything wrong, that woman is just vile. What stops her from fixing the tap head to save everyone (including herself) the water loss?

If I was the landlord she will not last long in my property, because the tap head is an indication of her careless and negligent attitude. I shudder to think of what the rest of her flat looks like now or what it will look like, when she moves out.

sisisioge:


Omoh! I no skinny nor chubby o, I'm inbetween and giving my former critics something to wish for

sisisioge:


Omoh! I no skinny nor chubby o, I'm inbetween and giving my former critics something to wish for

Klass99:


How can the husband mind his business when what is happening affects him too? He did nothing wrong by confirming a truth to their landlord during the meeting.

It is as if you have never jammed co-tenants who are just troublesome without cause or justification. The ones that will push your clothes from your own rope/line to spread their clothes, rope that you bought with your money and put outside.

Or is it the saboteurs who will never contribute fuel money to pump water, but will deliberately leave their bathroom taps on and go out to spite others for calling them out, so all the water you are pumping is wasting away and the water tank is not filling up because of them.

Please free that man he did not do anything wrong, that woman is just vile. What stops her from fixing the tap head to save everyone (including herself) the water loss?

If I was the landlord she will not last long in my property, because the tap head is an indication of her careless and negligent attitude. I shudder to think of what the rest of her flat looks like now or what it will look like, when she moves out.

Mumben:


You understand d situation very well, the truth is other co_tenants are afraid to call her out cos she is very troublesome. Even her husband is scared of her. She is d only tenant in that compound that openly insults her husband. Infact, if she is insulting her husband from their flat, d whole neighborhood will be aware cos she will be shouting at the top of her voice. Truth is, d man is a very quiet gentleman. I honestly don't know how he's been coping with his wife's attitude.

Acidosis:


I think we all agree that the woman is vile and maybe senseless but what can he do in this instance? Embrace violence with a razz woman?

I've learnt never to engage such people. If you want to waste water, I will help you waste it after securing an alternative for my household.

Mumben:

Well, ur approach isn't that good cos it will amount to turning a blind eye to what you know deep down is bad. For God's sake this is somebody's property we re talking about, how can a pumping machine be running through out nonstop anytime there is light even if d light stays for 12 hours. The efficiency of the machine has even reduced due to overlabour and mind you this is the second sumo in 4 years. Now what if you are d landlord in this case, will u be happy to keep replacing sumo every now and then?

For the records, my husband did not engage her, it was another neighbor who reported her and my husband only affirmed what the neighbor said. She is obviously angry cos my husband didn't cover up for her cos we r of d same tribe but when it comes to doing the right thing, tribal sentiments shouldn't come into play.

Acidosis:


Like I mentioned earlier, we all know the problematic tenant in the compound. My approach is not that good but it's the most practical approach to avoid insults. Your husband affirming what a neighbor said in her presence tells me that you guys must have called her attention to the leaking tap long before the landlord intervened.

A better approach would be to sound a note of warning in the meeting that if the borehole ever gets bad due to frequent use, leakages, etc. you guys won't be contributing a dime. This may attract more side talks but that's how to deal with such people.

My kind of person would ignore after that warning and wait till the borehole gets bad. I'm a plan B, C, D, and even F kind of person. Na when borehole spoil we go know the most powerful.

Klass99:


How can the husband mind his business when what is happening affects him too? He did nothing wrong by confirming a truth to their landlord during the meeting.

It is as if you have never jammed co-tenants who are just troublesome without cause or justification. The ones that will push your clothes from your own rope/line to spread their clothes, rope that you bought with your money and put outside.

Or is it the saboteurs who will never contribute fuel money to pump water, but will deliberately leave their bathroom taps on and go out to spite others for calling them out, so all the water you are pumping is wasting away and the water tank is not filling up because of them.

Please free that man he did not do anything wrong, that woman is just vile. What stops her from fixing the tap head to save everyone (including herself) the water loss?

If I was the landlord she will not last long in my property, because the tap head is an indication of her careless and negligent attitude. I shudder to think of what the rest of her flat looks like now or what it will look like, when she moves out.

Acidosis:


Like I mentioned earlier, we all know the problematic tenant in the compound. My approach is not that good but it's the most practical approach to avoid insults. Your husband affirming what a neighbor said in her presence tells me that you guys must have called her attention to the leaking tap long before the landlord intervened.

A better approach would be to sound a note of warning in the meeting that if the borehole ever gets bad due to frequent use, leakages, etc. you guys won't be contributing a dime. This may attract more side talks but that's how to deal with such people.

My kind of person would ignore after that warning and wait till the borehole gets bad. I'm a plan B, C, D, and even F kind of person. Na when borehole spoil we go know the most powerful.

Klass99:

In our case we called her out and ganged up against her on a Saturday morning for the attitude and water sabotage I described. The gang up was not even planned, it just happened in the heat of the moment when she refused to contribute her share for fuel, again.

We almost beat her and her fiance, who often visited and slept over at her place. Shortly after that Saturday she moved out, na for midnight around 12am/1am she pack her things, by 5am before sunrise, she and her fiance drove out of the compound.

GloriousGbola:


This sounds like a Nigerian solution.

The reason why we are in so much shit. This cannot work.

We have a clown in our neighbourhood who has not paid dues for the last 10 years. So maybe we should all stop paying dues, get rid of security, leave gate open and wait for the night of a terrible robbery incident so that one ediat will get sense?

Rather than force a 5k solution, allow the situation to degenerate to a 150k solution (that's how much you may pay for the pump). And as for the inconvenience of no running water.

This is Cutting off your nose to spite the face of the neighbourhood ediat.

No talk like this my guy.

Klass99:


Lol common go and sit down jare, na you sabi.

Have you lived in one place and in one accommodation all your life? You no dey migrate?

That was my first flat/accommodation on my own and by myself. It was an interesting and educating life experience walahi.