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Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by AfroKnight: 2:29pm On Aug 13, 2022
Mercury12:


Gbam! cheesy
grin

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Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by SeriouslySense(m): 2:30pm On Aug 13, 2022
She is certainly manipulative you should be careful, its time to distance yourself.

If she cannot keep her word, then don't take her serious next time.

deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Musa2018(m): 2:39pm On Aug 13, 2022
The husband is very much awared , if not she would have sent him another account number instead of her husband's Acc/no. Definitely d husband must knew that it's from his friend.So you have did a ryt thing guy but be mindful of yr steps mk una relationship no tire in d future
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by supereagle(m): 2:48pm On Aug 13, 2022
My wife is fond of calling my friends to send money to her.

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Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by rickleye: 2:56pm On Aug 13, 2022
deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

She's trying to be the wise wife " Abigail" - who saved her husband from certain death. Who's knowledge of what she did eventually killed him.
The man get pride small - he could have returned the money if he wasn't in need.
I would call the wife and say Oga has thanked me for the assistance but what happened you told me not to let him know.

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Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by KaptainAfrika: 3:01pm On Aug 13, 2022
She get big nyash ?

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Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by deavicky(m): 3:05pm On Aug 13, 2022
Tegabadguy:
guy you know wise...this one na plan work grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
I really don't mind if he play me cause growing I use play him wella.
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Tegabadguy(m): 3:23pm On Aug 13, 2022
deavicky:
I really don't mind if he play me cause growing I use play him wella.
haaaa i see grin grin grin grin
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by deavicky(m): 3:25pm On Aug 13, 2022
SmartyPants:


I dont understand.

You sent the money to his account...why are you surprised that he knows his wife asked?

Clearly he and his wife discussed asking you. He overruled her and then suddenly you sent money.

Dont you think a mature man can put two together and realise it was his wife that still asked?
this is exactly what another a friend told me. But i never thought of it in that direction. My concern at that moment was the involvement of the baby food and also I used to send him money sometime, that didn't make think straight.
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by nams77: 3:34pm On Aug 13, 2022
deavicky:
I don't want to believe it's a plan because I don't see any reason why he would want to plan that considering our closeness.
It's not a plan. I have seen such before
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Goldbw122: 3:40pm On Aug 13, 2022
melody91:
wetin concern u, na ur 20k ? undecided I hate it when ppl like u try to implant evil in people's mind....
I'm not implanting any evil in anybody's mind, am just trying to say to be kind sometimes makes you weak, so it is good sometimes to say know then you will see that the outcome will favour you. Just try it sometimes and you will see.
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by newoffer: 3:45pm On Aug 13, 2022
One of my friend is under dis kind of spell. I dey watch the movie from afar..
ahnie:
She planned it with her husband issa colabo thingy.



No modified...I still insist that it's a colabo remix because,the husband was too ashamed to asked you directly for help(men ego)
So he bowed to pressure from his wife and asked her to call you herself.
So simply put,the husby was in the know that the wife called you for help.
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Dcdigitals: 3:48pm On Aug 13, 2022
deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

Bro, you have done so well.
Don't be disturbed in anyway, you've applied wisdom already.

And, it's not a planned work. I will make it simple.....

Your friend knows you quiet well and of course knows his wife.....

Now, the wife had suggested calling you but ur friend refused, right?

Now, you and ur friend haven't talked about any money so, ur friend would have easily concluded that his wife had done what he asked her not to do.That's one.

Two, he may have heard her while speaking with you on phone.

But believe me, it's not a planned work except you see ur friend as one.

Keep doing good.
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by melody91: 3:58pm On Aug 13, 2022
Goldbw122:

I'm not implanting any evil in anybody's mind, am just trying to say to be kind sometimes makes you weak, so it is good sometimes to say know then you will see that the outcome will favour you. Just try it sometimes and you will see.
been kind makes u weak, and saying no makes u a macho human being... Crap undecided

Anyways, whether you are kind or not to ppl , bad or good ppl go still act dia ways ... It's just best to do your own whenever u can and don't expect anything in return..
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Goldbw122: 4:01pm On Aug 13, 2022
melody91:
been kind makes u weak, and saying no makes u a macho human being....lol

Anyways, whether you are kind or not to ppl , bad or good ppl go still act dia ways ... It's just best u to do your own whenever u can and don't expect anything in return
Ok ooo I agree ooo, I rest my case. You are right.
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by VirileNelly2420: 4:04pm On Aug 13, 2022
CuteEmma:
Doh. No need to worry since your friend is aware. Maybe his ego wouldn’t let him beg directly so decided to go thru the wife.. times are hard.

Maybe not ego...
Men can easily give excuse to their fellow men wen it comes to money, but wen it has to do with ladies, dey feel obliged.

Back den, I remember how my supposed friend/brother, we were just toiling to put ends together. He usually came around to eat at my place, I was happy helping a brother.
I was shocked wen my cousin sis told me my friend wants to repair her phone screen for her..., he asked her to enquire wot it will cost nd tell him and he would give her d money (provided it doesn't pass 15k) ...also, she should not let me know, instead, tell me it was one of our uncle da fixed d phone. Do u know say da same day, dis my friend/bros cried of not having a dime on him...?

We cry dat people don't appreciate our kind deed towards dem wen in actual sense we caused our own plight. We betray ourselves wen we point accusing fingers on others.
So tell me, how would my cousin sis call him a good friend having seen his real attitude? How can my sis trust him when he betrayed her bros/his friend?

Some men ehh, wen dey see woman dey kill fish. But their fellow Gee, dey will pretend dey've been smoking garri for d past one week.
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Desusi: 4:21pm On Aug 13, 2022
Nothing to worry about. Nevertheless, take caution from that woman.women are master planners in life, as its said, the hands that rock cradle rule the world. Fear them and in your dealing be careful,don't take things for granted.
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Mamaafrik1(m): 4:26pm On Aug 13, 2022
deavicky:
I don't want to believe it's a plan because I don't see any reason why he would want to plan that considering our closeness.
See we have some men who may not be having and prefer to die in silence and we have some whose wife are the ones providing the daily need while the man just see and look.
You guy no get money he Kon get ego to ask you,the Wife was not shameful to ask you because the kids are probably involved she must have been pushed to brick wall.
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Niceguyfirm: 4:35pm On Aug 13, 2022
It is not a setup. Times are hard. The husband may or may not be aware but she feels that you are close enough to her husband also based on what the hubby tells her about you. It may also be ego thing by the husband or that her call will get you to comply for the shame of saying you don't have which you could have told the husband as a friend. The woman's call nailed it quicker especially when the child's feeding was brought to it. Even the most stingy man will melt at that point.
Telling you to send to the hubby account shows she has no skeleton in her cupboard. Some women no get shame and so next time, call the husband before sending anything. It has happened to me. See it that you just helped a friend and let it not bother you..
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Trueprophet91: 4:51pm On Aug 13, 2022
DonBenny77:
She had to explain why he recieved the money. Not really a collaboration thing.
Some women no sabi respect their husband they beg every tom, dick and harry for money. Even on Facebook.
Next time tell her to ask her husband to ask for money instead. It's her husband that is your friend not her.

They keep begging every tom,dick and harry until the 'dick' among them decides to do his thing angry angry

Now we start calling the devil cheesy
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by FireUpNow(m): 5:07pm On Aug 13, 2022
Please when next she calls tell her to tell her husband who is your friend to call you
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Contagious100d(m): 5:12pm On Aug 13, 2022
ojun50:
No body planned any tin, just that men have ego problem

You have don well, just forget and move on and be watchful
.

Baba na old formate, I don use am before.
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Berankis: 5:25pm On Aug 13, 2022
Just stay out of their no sense plot. Even your friend no get sense... a friend that cannot ask his friend for help but can warn him even after being helped.
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by etimocity(m): 6:17pm On Aug 13, 2022
you are already play your part so skip your mine off from there.
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Qwi1: 6:44pm On Aug 13, 2022
Really
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by bigman001(m): 6:47pm On Aug 13, 2022
CuteEmma:
Doh. No need to worry since your friend is aware. Maybe his ego wouldn’t let him beg directly so decided to go thru the wife.. times are hard.
I think you are very right. times are hard these days
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by SPAMBOX7: 7:40pm On Aug 13, 2022
deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?
They did collabo on u bro grin
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by culf: 7:49pm On Aug 13, 2022
deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?


after your friend defused to call you, the wife went behind him to call you so immediately he saw the alert, he know the wife have told you against his wish.

you're a good friend, God bless you more
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Morenzy15: 8:26pm On Aug 13, 2022
Next time just place a call to your friend to know about his welfare. Don't discuss that to him that his wife called you. So during your conversation with your friend, knowingly or unknowingly, he will tell you his state of finance, from them, you can now give your assistance.
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Ay04z(m): 8:50pm On Aug 13, 2022
No womb period.. Get another virgin asap... Or. A tight one... Not kanyamanta own oo... grin.... Some women could be very deceiving
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Fantazy(m): 8:56pm On Aug 13, 2022
ahnie:
She planned it with her husband issa colabo thingy.



No modified...I still insist that it's a colabo remix because,the husband was too ashamed to asked you directly for help(men ego)
So he bowed to pressure from his wife and asked her to call you herself.
So simply put,the husby was in the know that the wife called you for help.

This is exactly what it is!
Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by meobizy(f): 8:57pm On Aug 13, 2022
You’ve done your part. Go and sin no more.

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