Iamnotfearyou:
There's always a room for another better relationship,so don't drown yourself trying to save a relationship that can not be saved

bro best of the shared experiences, you nailed it absolutely

emmaodet:


Gbam!!!

Baba your head dey there.
E dey cast person well well
If you want to do anything outside, a pickup girl like in the pool or club is better.
One time thing.
Also, have a regular girl for Norma relationship is far costly and don’t worth it for married folks.
You pay her house rent, buy fridges or tv etc at the end of the day, na one small boy go come dey knack her for there

That one don elevate to mistress na. Not just a mere girlfriend.

ave4:

Hmmmm,I learnt that men will say anything to chop breakfast. God saved me from a man that did everything for me financially and emotionally, he told me that he loved me from the moon and back but got angry that I couldn't make it from my base as planned to spend some days with him. He ended up exposing himself by blurting out the truth. Fear men!

A man did everything for you emotionally and most importantly financially
Yet you guys planned on meeting then you still bailed out


Lmao
I won't call you names ma

Seakay:

They always have a selfish and evil agenda.

Lol. Okay.

Don't date when you aren't ready for marriage. Relationship is serious business and not for emotionally unavailable and bankrupt people. Mind you, this isn't my experience. Just advising generally.

I learnt not to be in the relationship because of love alone, for love alone is not enough.
Also, not to ignore any red flag.

it drains blood and energy plus emotional,psychological and physical truma.

virginprincess:
I learnt never to trust and give all your love to a nigeria man.

dat is a lie

Isaiah 60 vs 22 go answer ur question..

Any girl with a male bestie is One for the Road...

Spain007:


That one with 1 dozen wives... Wetin he need girlfriend for again, abeg no gain for fish head.

ya fada

McOluOmo:
ya fada

you're a BIG FOOL

yo ba furo baba e.

Sarhyd:


You think men from other countries are better ? Lol. Just say men. Come date UK men and you will appreciate nigeria men.

How are Nigerian men different from UK men?

Stephen2324:
What did you learn from your last relationship?

That not all men are senseless , there are actually some who love being men , I was lucky in my last relationship , understood ,listened to , provided for, praised ,showed off , adored , I was his comedian and he was my therapist , he picked my calls and we would talk for hours into midnight , and he called every chance he got even though he was a busy man , we were friends and we could tell each other everything , but not all relationshipss lead to marriage, he actually never told me no when I asked for anything , I only asked when I really needed something and I always got it , he was active in my life ,my school , my family,he knew what was happening and what I planned to do and he guided me

I am afraid I can never find another who cherished me like he did , he earned the respect that I never gave anyone besides Dad , the problem now is once your standard is raised you never want to settle for less

GreatVocalist:

Mehn, I've had a bout of discouragement going through this thread. A person in a relationship will struggle to remain the same after reading through the comments on this thread.

I tell you bruh

girls are scammers

Stephen2324:
What did you learn from your last relationship?

i ran away from nairaland for months because of this negative energies. I'm back now and boom this topic.
Now my head is on autopilot again ..

GreatVocalist:


What could have happened, after all the blissful experience? I'm curious.

Something very personal , it wasn't a bad breakup , we just had different plans and neither one was willing to compromise , which is for the better
The only ex I still talk to and the only one who doesn't think I'm crazy , now he just feels like a sibling

Avoid broke minded ladies with high test!!






God bless you.

LadyD22:


That not all men are senseless , there are actually some who love being men , I was lucky in my last relationship , understood ,listened to , provided for, praised ,showed off , adored , I was his comedian and he was my therapist , he picked my calls and we would talk for hours into midnight , and he called every chance he got even though he was a busy man , we were friends and we could tell each other everything , but not all relationshipss lead to marriage, he actually never told me no when I asked for anything , I only asked when I really needed something and I always got it , he was active in my life ,my school , my family,he knew what was happening and what I planned to do and he guided me

I am afraid I can never find another who cherished me like he did , he earned the respect that I never gave anyone besides Dad , the problem now is once your standard is raised you never want to settle for less

Please complete this..
What actually happened to you both?

SimeonOTC:


Please complete this..
What actually happened to you both?

Omo it wasn't a bad breakup , one person wanted to settle down the other was just starting life , i didn't think he was serious I just saw him like everyone else that makes promises to get what they want, somethings are like that ,

if anything ,I was the jerk in that relationship , I was always expecting the worse from him coz of my past experiences, I wanted to go back and he would've welcomed me but I know it's just going to be the same thing , it's what I get for liking men old enough to settle

LadyD22:


Something very personal , it wasn't a bad breakup , we just had different plans and neither one was willing to compromise , which is for the better
The only ex I still talk to and the only one who doesn't think I'm crazy , now he just feels like a sibling

I feel like you are discussing my experience.
Like how could something so beautiful come to an end?
Like you, we had a different path that neither of us was willing to compromise. Compromise would probably make us hate each other in the future.
The breakup was mutual but still very painful to me. I was too hurt to be friends even though he wanted us to be. The pain got intense when I learnt he had gotten married a year after.
I doubt if one completely recovers from such emotional wound.
The downside is, one becomes determined not to settle for less.