They can be friends if one of them is stupid

Come on chrisd, thats one of the lamest comments I've ever seen you make on this forum . What do you mean stupid?

Perhaps because I'm Italian.

What has that got to do with anything ? Please I'd really like to know why you said that. So youre Italian hugh ?

I can only understand it when both get the best from their spouse or honey. Any other way, it's fishy.

We are made that way. Lot of men are afraid they ruin things so they try using friendship. So many women are scared of me, actually they all smile a bit, I usually see that smile.

I mean we Italians flirt like other men breathe -- regularly and naturally. A recent survey of more than 1,000 Italian men, 68 percent reported carrying a book to the beach to encourage conversation with women. About 80 percent of those men toted The Bible or Dante's Divine Comedy -- hardly lightweight reading material. No doubt that their pick-up lines are more poetic! The lesson for other men reading this is that to be truly successful with women, you have to use all of your natural resources. All of them.

Your experience wit ladies is not authoritative enough to be taken as a standard.
I have on the other hand had sweet relationships (friendship) with ladies over the years. I still do.

I had sweet relationships when I was four and remember the first sweet kiss

At four?!!! chrisd youre really something else . Well, I still think youre wrong. A guy and a gal can have a healthy friendship without the kissing and sex part. I met my husband through such a friend.

Kiss on the cheek for holding her book ok. Nothing to worry about. I have woman who I go along with, they are not friends but is ok.

You never, I mean NEVER find your husband through a friend in my country.

@alheri
Thanx for bringin it home.

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I'll agree wit u only if u give me a credible reason why a guy and a girl can't be good friends if they want to.

They can be friends without any other thing. If they really want to. It's not a matter of stupidity or hot bloodedness... It's a matter of agreement and self control.
@ calabarman, correct story. you try well well.

so this my thread is still alive...hmmm..

Of course!! Most of my good friends are guys. My second best friend is a guy. He's like a brother to me. Not all guys have polluted minds you know..

friendship is the pre-cursor to love, attraction is likewise to sex.
i have a couple of guy friends, but i can date any of them if we'r both single and searching... HOWEVER, once the curiousity has passed-ie once you've acted on your attraction and all that, a true friendship can develop. without that, there'l always be the possibility of being more than friends. but it IS possible 2be jus friends

friendship is the pre-cursor to love, attraction is likewise to sex.
i have a couple of guy friends, but i can date any of them if we'r both single and searching... HOWEVER, once the curiousity has passed-ie once you've acted on your attraction and all that, a true friendship can develop. without that, there'l always be the possibility of being more than friends. but it IS possible 2be jus friends

a Boy and a Girl can Just Be Friends but mostly the guys tend to propose to the girl

Especially if she bends over

you again

yep, me again

Yes, definately, but the temptation is just soooooo,

chrisd:

yes, me again

Why Cant they be.
Just as far as they know were their boundries lies.
Unless the guy or chick been Know wetin them been want from eachother.
Cos Its defo possible.

I once tried to be close friends with a girl & I ended up falling in deep love with her

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I do not wanna say more on this topic because I always keep thinking

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But , as hot-angel said, e get BIG comma

Anything happens o

Any freaking thing

PS: No gal would think of giving me that blue balls @ calabar man

Smooch me & stop



Well , I know where to start and stop ma thing ,

Am a changed man now

Calabar man , I like your story o , It makes a lot of sense

Such a thing totally does not exist!!!!

I keep telling my friends its not possible. even when you set boundries, who decides when the boundry will or will not be crossed.

If you start falling in love with each other, who will stop that from taking place.

I think anyone that feels this is possible is just living a lie.

it's very hard be it can happend

they can to me

YES!!

they most certainly can

long as that d**k don't get HARD

n that pu**y dont get WET!!!!!

(nna forgive the brutality of my bluntness but couldn't put accross any clearer)

Olorididan:

YES!!

they most certainly can

long as that d**k don't get HARD

n that pu**y don't get WET!!!!!

(nna forgive the brutality of my bluntness but couldn't put accross any clearer)

well u are right,but it's rude to say that
dont u have another way to explain it?
only in this way :owell whatever it's ya choice

yes i am fellin him on that too, go on dude, spell it out, lol