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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Justbehave(m): 12:30pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman:Hope say you don commot for that house until Sunday? |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by HRMK: 12:40pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Maynman: |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Justbehave(m): 12:49pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
[quote author=HRMK post=117168051][/quote]Ode. Keep fucking around in the guise of taking care of your children. Carry them go give their different different papa. 1 Like |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Maynman: 12:54pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
[quote author=HRMK post=117168051][/quote] Son of olosho, defend your mama work. 1 Like |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by HRMK: 1:06pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
[quote author=Maynman post=117163433]You started the abuse, slave, by bringing my parents in, why playing victim, ooh i forgot you are a worthless slave, you are always a victim. [b]Listen, son of a worthless olosho, Your mom is an imbecil.e, no education and has no value that’s why out of all the work in the world, selling her laxity body was her option to “sustain” you, and see how you yourself turned out, a worthless slave with no value, married to a smelly prostitute that brings her customers home. Look at your mentality, menial jobs are what you know and can do, why won’t you support your ITS A PITY,A SLAVE WILL ALWAYS THINK OTHERS ARE LIKE HIM!WHAT ARE PEOPLE FROM YOUR REGION FIGHTING FOR IF NOT THAT YOU HAVE BN ENSLAVED?WHEN THE YOUNG INSULTS YOU.ITS NORMAL TO SEND HIM TO YOUR MATES AT HOME!NOW THAT YOUR MUM DID NOT GET INTO MENIAL JOBS TO TRAIN YOU AFTER YOUR DRUGADDICTED DAD ABSCONDED,WHICH OR WHAT OFFICE DUTY WAS SHE IN TO FEED AND TRAIN YOU ALL?WE,I MEAN,ME AND MY FRIENDS WANT TO KNOW |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Maynman: 1:11pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
[quote author=HRMK post=117168796][/quote] Son of olosho, you are back to wasting your time, hin pain am bwahahahah 1 Like |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by wirinet(m): 1:18pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
HRMK: I am trying to understand your arguments. Are you saying that once a man abandons or divorces a wife/lover, the next thing is to go into prostitution to support herself and her children? Are you saying that single mothers must enter prostitution to be able to take care of their children? Do you know the share number of single mothers doing legitimate hussles to cater for their children? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by HRMK: 1:21pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Maynman:ITS YOUR DAYS YOU AV OLOSHOS NOT IN MY DAYS!YOU GET REPLIES WHEN NECESSARY!! |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by HRMK: 1:25pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
wirinet:YOU NEED TO FIRST THE REAL MEANING OF THE WORD!THEN TELL ME HOW IT APPLIES TO THIS CASE!! |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Maynman: 1:30pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
HRMK: Son of a worthless olosho,you are back to wasting your time? 1 Like |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by maasoap(m): 1:55pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
CalmElder: That's not just about sex, that separation was about many things, more like about everything. A man has many responsibilities to his wife and kids, not just sex for the wife and food for the kids. He bailed! |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Maynman: 1:56pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
maasoap: Who initiated the “Separation”?, why did she come back begging after getting pregnant, if she didn’t she’ll still be enjoying the side di.ck. What’s a married woman responsibility? Bringing Bastards home? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Justbehave(m): 2:02pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
maasoap:So why didn't the woman bring in better thing back with her to let the husband know that he failed but no she brought in a bastard which only implies that she was never a good wife.May your wife bring in another man's pregnancy into your matrimonial home in Jesus name. men. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 2:34pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman: Please do this today. Do not delay oh. Leave the house today. Tell her you are going out for something. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by baralatie(m): 2:39pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
maasoap:That is why I said a miscalculation has lead to more miscalculations and when they both tried to solve their problem.they ended up with a bigger problem. There are other issues that I wanted to bring to his notice so that he can avoid another miscalculation. But the best is to pray for all involved to come out successzful |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Justbehave(m): 2:44pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
baralatie:And the right calculation was for her to come back with a bastard? |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by maasoap(m): 2:55pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
baralatie: I'm glad that you saw what I'm talking about. My own perspective is that he should take time before responding to this new discovery. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by maasoap(m): 2:57pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Justbehave: You this insane kid, I have stopped responding to you when I realised that you were attacking everyone with different opinions to yours, you should have noticed that now. When you finally grow some decency, you can come back to quote me. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by wirinet(m): 2:59pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
maasoap: I am yet to understand how this is a justification for cheating or prostitution. Did she thing the new lover will take in her and her 3 kids? What then happens if the husband becomes incapacitated - accident or stroke. She will be fucking other men to cater for her self and her kids? I am not exonorating the buy for leaving his family, particularly the children, but that's in no way justifies creating. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Justbehave(m): 3:00pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
maasoap:Shut up. Old man without brains. May your wife bring in another person pregnancy into your home in Jesus name. Oya answer amen nah. Ode. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Justbehave(m): 3:03pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
wirinet:Abeg no mind the senseless old fool. He has been trying to justify the woman's act since. But he has refused to say amen to my prayers for him Lol |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by maasoap(m): 3:03pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Maynman: Never said that she did right for having sex or lying to her husband about the pregnancy that's not his. Just letting the husband whose side of the story we saw here realise that he's not entirely blameless. Remember, the only story we saw here is that of the husband. So, we will be naturally subconsciously sympathise with him. We didn't know how the woman coped with everything for those seven months period: food, kids, cloths, books, school fees, sex life, companionship and all that. My point: Op should do some introspection before taking final decision. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by baralatie(m): 3:07pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Justbehave:First of all .you have to respect the life of a child .the child did not come to this world by his own choice .The child deserves to be catered for ,clothed,loved,trained,nutured and what have you. Second if az at when a couple (together) are already having financial stress .then you don't expect a perfect result when the main responsibility carrier virtually leaves the whole problems on a woman with kids to solve . It literally means the woman and the kids are blown wide open for manipulation and exploitation by other men who having looking for that excuse . The right calculatoion in this case who have been that support group(mother,sisters,aunt etc) who have been supporting the woman [b] till she is strong enough to cater for her home. But unfortunately there is a problem with that and another miscalculation that ensued is thinking that a man who you are not married to will support her financially while having kids for another man .it is not that there are no good men.it will take a miracle for women in problem to even find one talk less of having one as a friend So the issue is that while people can forgive themselves about cheating.it becomes a totally different problem.if the woman gets pregnant and delivered the child! So it is a miscalculation to another miscalculation to another miscalculation and here we have a problem. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by maasoap(m): 3:11pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
wirinet: The country is hard enough for many single people living alone and not having to cater for anyone not to talk of a woman having to cater for three kids and herself. Op should think hard and deep, ultimate decision is still his and the life will continue for both irrespective of his decision. Men should stop exposing their wives to hard life and difficult choices just because we find it easier to abandon our kids to our wives at the simplest excuse. And yet, we claim to have more right over these kids than the mothers do. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by wirinet(m): 3:12pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
maasoap: It's will be almost impossible for the family to have peace after the revelation of the new baby not being a part of the family. It will be treated like a foreigner by the other siblings. If not now, certainly when sibling rivalry sets in. I have seen it numerous times when a half siblings comes into an already set family structure. It never works out. Then the man would have suppressed anger and aggression towards the child and by extension towards the wife. The stress on the relationship henceforth would be great. This is the kind of stress that shortens your lifespan. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Justbehave(m): 3:14pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
baralatie:What a beautiful nonsense. Let the father of the child take care of her. It's not the op's responsibility. She has a father let him take the responsibility. His work is not only to sleep with another man's wife and getting her pregnant. He should also take care of his baby.Like I use to tell you all supporting her,May your own wife bring in another man's pregnancy to your home. In Jesus name. Answer amen then I will take you serious. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by wirinet(m): 3:15pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
maasoap: I don't understand why you are patronising the wayward wife. What would have happened to the wife and her kids if the guy refused reconciliation and finally abandoned the wife and the children? Would she have commited suicide or go and start standing on Allen avenue at night? She should not have driven the man away because of a temporary financial setback. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by baralatie(m): 3:16pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
maasoap:Seriously he must be having all kinds of thoughts! And if he already can bail at the slightest problem God help him on this one. Only girlfriend jilting boys and the whole of romance land will not rest then talk about a baby that is not yours! I don't think the op is the type that can take time.i am afraid for both of them and the kids! That is why someone advised to strengthen himself financially first so as to be able to cater for the kids and then just unclog his mind.the reason being that let not see devil hand she starts a quarrel because of baby cereals and we have all kinds of tantrums flying all over the place. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by baralatie(m): 3:17pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
wirinet:I don't understand why you are patronizing the husband that bailed on his family.that family is what he signed for and to die for |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Maynman: 3:17pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
maasoap: She is not the only one “coping” during those 7 months, and men are more Hot than women because of testosterone so your excuse are baseless, and why did she stop “coping” after getting pregnant? The only reason she got back BEGGING is because she got pregnant, she was totally fine with the “coping” Why didn’t she beg the 2nd month? What introspection does a man with self worth got to do again? |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Justbehave(m): 3:18pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
maasoap:No sense at all. So because the country is hard that is why she started prostituting herself to take care of the kids. But you will be the first to start beating and mobbing a guy that went into armed robbery or kidnapping just to fend for his family. Common sense is never common with weak men like you. Spits. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by baralatie(m): 3:20pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Justbehave:Already we have it on record that the father,husband bailed >on his responsibilities he swore to do |
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