B2B23:


So the deceased don't have family?

Well, nothing wey Musa nor go see for gate.

I believe with time they would call family meeting for both sides, sit and discuss how it will be, going forward. I believe the late husband also have family.

What I mean sending them just as they came is not that easy

eastgates1:
are you married?

Go and sit... Na mumu advise u gave

Fiscus105:




Go and married, the issue being discussed is more than what small boy like you can comprehend.

it's obasanjo i blame for giving gsm to underage fools like you. I'm a self employed landlord hustling pre-dawn till morrow. I don't have time for simps like you waiting for your mamathankiu.

jmichael259:


it's obasanjo i blame for giving gsm to underage fools like you. I'm a self employed landlord hustling pre-dawn till morrow. I don't have time for simps like you waiting for your mamathankiu.

Take to my advice please. U are not supposed to contribute to this issues.

The last time I checked, you said u still buying "bread and akara" for breakfast that normally cost u 2k 500 daily.

I will advise you to work hard so that you too can be able to be "man of the house", by then, you will be able to contribute meaningfully to this kind of discussion.

For now, with no single experience, ur opinion is going out of way.....too senseless.

Fiscus105:




Take to my advice please. U are not supposed to contribute to this issues.

The last time I checked, you said u still buying "bread and akara" for breakfast that normally cost u 2k 500 daily.

I will advise you to work hard so that you too can be able to be "man of the house", by then, you will be able to contribute meaningfully to this kind of discussion.

For now, with no single experience, ur opinion is going out of way.....too senseless.

oga, i dey road dey go work. It's not my fault most nigerians are too dumb to comprehend write ups. I was pointing the price inflation in the country. A satchet of milk is 80-100naira. Two satchets of beverage+bread+akara per person. No matter how u manage, it will still cost u around 500-700 to feed one person breakfast. Multiply that by 11 and three times daily.
OH Yes, i proudly feed myself cos i'm not at home. Next time go man-shame ur papa. Na for nairaland u wan get sense. Pity is your name.

izuch:


Your daddy mumu

Your mama mumu.

wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.

I am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too.

The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that, both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something.

For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.

My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian.

If you continue doing it, they would feel relaxed, and the twin sister would stay in your house with her kids for more than one year and counting.

Tell your wife that only you can't do it, that both of them should find something doing, even if its selling fries in the night, two of them can do it.

Man I feel your pain, if you can't do this, do something on time.

wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.

I am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too.

The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that, both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something.

For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.

My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian.

Come 2023, Vote the right candidate who is healthy, competent, and capable of doing the job. Take tribal sentiments off the list, and don't recycle those thieves that kept your family in this situation - else, you may end up homeless since you have moved to your shop.

Thermodynamics:

Your mama mumu.

Big full

izuch:


Big full

Mumu when nor fit spell, you are a big fool. Illiterate.

StrafordSTONES:





Hello, I read that you are looking for budget phone to get, check out the thread below.

https://www.nairaland.com/7392213/redmi-8a-sale

Yeah. Checked out the thread and also the opinions about that phone.

First, it stopped using googleplay app.

And 2ndly, its laggy nature.

These two things, am afraid, are turn offs for me.

holysaint1:


Yeah. Checked out the thread and also the opinions about that phone.

First, it stopped using googleplay app.

And 2ndly, its laggy nature.

These two things, am afraid, are turn offs for me.

Hahaha… your research findings are wrong pardon me. This is the phone I use, I use the google play, would screenshot and show you and it doesn’t lag for a 2gb ram phone.

I’m even having double mind selling it but I don’t wana be walking with two phones

StrafordSTONES:





Hahaha… your research findings are wrong pardon me. This is the phone I use, I use the google play, would screenshot and show you and it doesn’t lag for a 2gb ram phone.

I’m even having double mind selling it but I don’t wana be walking with two phones

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StrafordSTONES:





Hahaha… your research findings are wrong pardon me. This is the phone I use, I use the google play, would screenshot and show you and it doesn’t lag for a 2gb ram phone.

I’m even having double mind selling it but I don’t wana be walking with two phones

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Flame77:


It's easier said than done. Discharge a widow with her fatherless children and the widow is a twin sister to your wife?

I'll suggest the raise money to rent one apartment for the widow and help her get a job to be doing even if it's menial. Other family members can also come in to help financially till the women gets a meaningful source of income m

I know a relative that discharged his brother and wife and child by renting an apartment for them, carry them for some time and link his brother up...

holysaint1:

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Playstore

ebexofficial:

I know a relative that discharged his brother and wife and child by renting an apartment for them, carry them for some time and link his brother up...

If that is the meaning of discharge, then it makes sense lol.

@OP. I believe you are still trying to get your lives together so u are not stable financially yet, it is ma-d-ness when you start feeding extra 5 mouths alongside your family in this country's current situation. 16k per day on meals only approx 480,000 to feed in a month without the support of either women cos they are jobless? U will wound soon except of course if u are a th.ief.

Infact that is even enough for some to buy land in some areas before they start a building project little by little. Assuming u are a close friend or brother, i would have known what to say to you.


grab your balls, sit your wife down and talk to her like a real man, know what her dreams/imagination for you, herself and your children are..

I am so sure u both lack communication in your marriage, otherwise there should have been a mutual understanding of her sis coming to stay with your own family in a room an parlour. The fact that she just showed up without your knowledge tells a lot about you and your marriage.

If u keep living your life this way while your wife shows nonchalant attitude towards your pocket, finance and your general livelihood/convenience , then i am afraid for you, u might find it hard to leave the same life position u are after all the years.

Do the best you can for your wife's sister and children, but remember you v got your own family and home to build. Don't be a mu.mu man.

U want to go far in life? Then be a GOOD man, not a NICE man.

No offense please. It is the reality

Your wife's twin is literally the duplicate of your wife and the chances are they see themselves as one .
If you chase the sister away, your wife may never forgive you. So the best is speak to your wife and find out where her mind real is with the whole situation.

Twins have a special bond and if you force her to choose between you and her twin, your marriage may come under threat. Just my opinion though.

wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.

I am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too.

The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that, both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something.

For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.

My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian.

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