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Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by guobe: 6:45pm On Oct 20, 2022
I got chatting with a corper girl today and from the conversation I could denote that her schooling abroad has messed her psyche up.Its a norm to be a lesbian or gay abroad and so kids that are not God fearing may fall into that trap when they go abroad.Parents should endeavour to always train their wards properly and educate them from some foreign vices if they are taking their kids abroad.The girls parents are currently trying to change her by bringing her back to Nigeria but I feel it may be very difficult for her to change.

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by Jennylove21(f): 6:50pm On Oct 20, 2022
That's true

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by guobe: 6:53pm On Oct 20, 2022
Jennylove21:
That's true
Her parents are currently battling hard to make her change her perception but it seems its a lost case.

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by oluwaseyi0: 7:11pm On Oct 20, 2022
Nigerian parents are not ready

They will see a young lady with a guy they will start yelling now their girl don follow girl as per say mama don warn her from following boys

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by guobe: 7:14pm On Oct 20, 2022
oluwaseyi0:
Nigerian parents are not ready

They will see a young lady with a guy they will start yelling now their girl don follow girl as per say mama don warn her from following boys
lol oluwaseyi you get point there lol

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by oluwaseyi0: 7:16pm On Oct 20, 2022
guobe:
Her parents are currently battling hard to make her change her perception but it seems its a lost case.

Check deeply her parents may be the one kicking and warning her against boys, I have a case in my area where the girl is practically made to become anti-boys by making her thinking boys are bad for her career

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by SocialJustice: 7:18pm On Oct 20, 2022
guobe:
I got chatting with a corper girl today and from the conversation I could denote that her schooling abroad has messed her psyche up.Its a norm to be a lesbien or gay abroad and so kids that are not God fearing may fall into that trap when they go abroad.Parents should endeavour to always train their wards properly and educate them from some foreign vices if they are taking their kids abroad.The girls parents are currently trying to change her by bringing her back to Nigeria but I feel it may be very difficult for her to change.
You are very ignorant to think lesbians and gays is a sin or carries a moral obligation. People like you end up having gay children so you can see they were born like that. The reason they express themselves abroad is because there is no discrimination unlike in Nigeria where pastors see it as demonic possession.

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by guobe: 7:19pm On Oct 20, 2022
oluwaseyi0:


Check deeply her parents may be the one kicking and warning her against boys, I have a case in my area where the girl is practically made to become anti-boys by making her thinking boys are bad for are career
you have a very strong point there.Now her parents are telling her to get married and she said never.

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by guobe: 7:22pm On Oct 20, 2022
SocialJustice:
You are very ignorant to think lesbians and gays is a sin or carries a moral obligation. People like you end up having gay children so you can see they were born like that. The reason they express themselves abroad is because there is no discrimination unlike in Nigeria where pastors see it as demonic possession.
please where did I mention it is a sin.Our culture in Nigeria is different from the white man's culture.I only advised parents who want their kids to stick to our culture .

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by SocialJustice: 7:24pm On Oct 20, 2022
guobe:
please where did I mention it is a sin.Our culture in Nigeria is different from the white man's culture.I only advised parents who want their kids to stick to our culture .
What do people who are not God fearing engage in? You can't tell when you are implying something?

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by guobe: 7:26pm On Oct 20, 2022
SocialJustice:
What do people who are not God fearing engage in? You can't tell when you are implying something?
It's unbiblical to be a lesbian or gay.we were not trained like that.

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by MufasaLion: 7:31pm On Oct 20, 2022
guobe:
It's unbiblical to be a lesbian or gay.we were not trained like that.

And according to you religious folks, unbiblical things are sins. Stop trying to be on the fence.

Homosexuals are humans and nobody cares if it's biblical or not! Let them be, they have the right to their sexuality. Y'all religious crackheads are very intolerant!

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by guobe: 7:36pm On Oct 20, 2022
MufasaLion:


And according to you religious folks, unbiblical things are sins. Stop trying to be on the fence.

Homosexuals are humans and nobody cares if it's biblical or not! Let them be, they have the right to their sexuality. Y'all religious crackheads are very intolerant!you can encourage your kids to be gay and lesbians abroad but here in Africa no parent will take it from their kids.we were not brought up that way.The whitening mentality is gradually creeping in to our culture and it will be heavily resisted.

Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by SocialJustice: 7:37pm On Oct 20, 2022
guobe:
It's unbiblical to be a lesbian or gay.we were not trained like that.
You know, we hold the Bible in too much high esteem even when it is obvious it is quite out of tune sometimes.

You need to go beyond religion and ask important questions like if God does not like same sex, why are some men created and placed in a female body and why are some women placed in a male body.

There are answers for everything beyond the Bible but you have refused to empathise with these people that know very well they are in a wrong body and doing their best to adapt, instead, it is easy to dismiss them as unbiblical. You think it is by choice that they are like that?

Copycats exist too but here I'm talking about real gay people that as early as 8 years old, they already knew they were in the body of the opposite sex.

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by guobe: 7:41pm On Oct 20, 2022
SocialJustice:
You know, we hold the Bible in too much high esteem even when it is obvious it is quite out of tune sometimes.

You need to go beyond religion and ask important questions like if God does not like same sex, why are some men created and placed in a female body and why are some women placed in a male body.

There are answers for everything beyond the Bible but you have refused to empathise with these people that know very well they are in a wrong body and doing their best to adapt, instead, it is easy to dismiss them as unbiblical. You think it is by choice that they are like that?

Copycats exist too but here I'm talking about real gay people that as early as 8 years old, they already knew they were in the body of the opposite sex.
8 years old gay?this abroad has really spoilt alot of us.It is the white people that are painting that picture of 8 years old gay.Nothing like 8 years old gay in Nigeria.White people are so funny at times.

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by SocialJustice: 7:51pm On Oct 20, 2022
guobe:
8 years old gay?this abroad has really spoilt alot of us.It is the white people that are painting that picture of 8 years old gay.Nothing like 8 years old gay in Nigeria.White people are so funny at times.
Lol, says who? Who told you kids don't realise it even in Nigeria? The difference between here and abroad is that they are suppressed and forced to conform with their sex even when they know they are more inclined towards aligning with the opposite sex.

Let me tell you, the energy that resides in you has no sex, it has both male and female inside. You are not your body or your mind. Female and male only came about to allow reproduction and continuation of human species.

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by Nobody: 7:53pm On Oct 20, 2022
guobe:
8 years old gay?this abroad has really spoilt alot of us.It is the white people that are painting that picture of 8 years old gay. Nothing like 8 years old gay in Nigeria. White people are so funny at times.
Lmaooooo grin grin
Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by blinking001(m): 7:53pm On Oct 20, 2022
guobe:
I got chatting with a corper girl today and from the conversation I could denote that her schooling abroad has messed her psyche up.Its a norm to be a lesbien or gay abroad and so kids that are not God fearing may fall into that trap when they go abroad.Parents should endeavour to always train their wards properly and educate them from some foreign vices if they are taking their kids abroad.The girls parents are currently trying to change her by bringing her back to Nigeria but I feel it may be very difficult for her to change.
The world is in total chaos today thanks to women and their propensity towards stupidity, materialism and egocentrism.
Civilisation as we call it is crumbling before our eyes today because men decided to give women a listening ear.

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by guobe: 7:55pm On Oct 20, 2022
SocialJustice:
Lol, says who? Who told you kids don't realise it even in Nigeria? The difference between here and abroad is that they are suppressed and forced to conform with their sex even when they know they are more inclined towards aligning with the opposite sex.

Let me tell you, the energy that resides in you has no sex, it has both male and female inside. You are not your body or your mind. Female and male only came about to allow reproduction and continuation of human species.Bad Government has finished us and that is why people are going abroad and having a white man's mentality .The white man's brainwash has finished you guys over there.Instead of imposing your African lineage on them but no you are sounding British.well it can be practiced abroad but not in Nigeria.

Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by SocialJustice: 8:05pm On Oct 20, 2022
[quote author=guobe post=117734177][/quote]Oga, I am in Nigeria. My passport has never seen visa stamp before and my knowledge is not from the white man. Western education is mostly rubbish and full of lies. Western education is not the only available way to know, there are more advanced educational systems than the west.
Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by guobe: 8:07pm On Oct 20, 2022
SocialJustice:
Oga, I am in Nigeria. My passport has never seen visa stamp before and my knowledge is not from the white man. Western education is mostly rubbish and full of lies. Western education is not the only available way to know, there are more advanced educational systems than the west.
will you train your kids to be gays and lesbian in Nigeria

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by SocialJustice: 8:14pm On Oct 20, 2022
guobe:
will you train your kids to be gays and lesbian in Nigeria
You don't train kids to be gay or lesbian, they are born like that. By 8 years, children can already think independently and a boy in a girl's body will know. If you have such a child, you can only suppress it for a while but it will still show.

As for me, my duty to my children is to nurture them to be the best versions of themselves. If their sexual orientation is gay, there is nothing I can do about it.

Also children are not yours, they belong to the universe and you are just a part of the gateway through which they can experience earth. You do not own them.

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by Sweetvie: 8:17pm On Oct 20, 2022
Hmm
Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by dhardline(m): 8:18pm On Oct 20, 2022
Homosexuality is a sin. Irrespective of how many want to paint it, to make wrong seem right. The same way stealing is a sin and yet many people still go ahead to steal. Same way fornication is a sin and yet many still go ahead to fornicate same with every other Sin that man engages himself in. It's the reason the word of God states clearly that the heart of man is desperately wicked. Let me give you an analogy for those of you who say 'let people love who they want because it affects no one'.

Let's assume I have a deep desire to kill, a hunger that can't be quenched and then I go ahead to kill another person, you will definitely say I have taken a life and that's a crime because that person I killed didn't want to die right! Now let's assume I have that same desire to kill and I find someone who is so depressed about life and wants to end it all them I go ahead and kill that person, does it make my action right knowing we both got what we wanted? Now do you know how many people get depressed, feel like dying but eventually come out of that situation and thank God they didn't take their life?!

Exactly, the thought that homosexuality is normal is wrong because the day the sincerely person decides to change, he will. Let's stop swallowing hook line and sinker every narrative being pushed to destroy the family structure because all they want is destruction of the souls of men.

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by Nobody: 8:19pm On Oct 20, 2022
SocialJustice:
You don't train kids to be gay or lesbian, they are born like that. By 8 years, children can already think independently and a boy in a girl's body will know. If you have such a child, you can only suppress it for a while but it will still show.

As for me, my duty to my children is to nurture them to be the best versions of themselves. If their sexual orientation is gay, there is nothing I can do about it.

Also children are not yours, they belong to the universe and you are just a part of the gateway through which they can experience earth. You do not own them.
You deserve a million likes!!! smiley

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by guobe: 8:20pm On Oct 20, 2022
SocialJustice:
You don't train kids to be gay or lesbian, they are born like that. By 8 years, children can already think independently and a boy in a girl's body will know. If you have such a child, you can only suppress it for a while but it will still show.

As for me, my duty to my children is to nurture them to be the best versions of themselves. If their sexual orientation is gay, there is nothing I can do about it.

Also children are not yours, they belong to the universe and you are just a part of the gateway through which they can experience earth. You do not own them.
you have really watched alot of oyibo movies. Keep watching them.For me If my kid deer mention g before he say a or y I have broken his head.so I keep to that and you can keep to your own orientation.goodluck.

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by Samueltemi337(m): 8:22pm On Oct 20, 2022
guobe:
you have really watched alot of oyibo movies. Keep watching them.For me If my kid deer mention g before he say a or y I have broken his head.so I keep to that and you can keep to your own orientation.goodluck.
And what if your child was born intersex
you go kill am Abi?

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by guobe: 8:27pm On Oct 20, 2022
dhardline:
Homosexuality is a sin. Irrespective of how many want to paint it, to make wrong seem right. The same way stealing is a sin and yet many people still go ahead to steal. Same way fornication is a sin and yet many still go ahead to fornicate same with every other Sin that man engages himself in. It's the reason the word of God states clearly that the heart of man is desperately wicked. Let me give you an analogy for those of you who say 'let people love who they want because it affects no one'.

Let's assume I have a deep desire to kill, a hunger that can't be quenched and then I go ahead to kill another person, you will definitely say I have taken a life and that's a crime because that person I killed didn't want to die right! Now let's assume I have that same desire to kill and I find someone who is so depressed about life and wants to end it all them I go ahead and kill that person, does it make my action right knowing we both got what we wanted? Now do you know how many people get depressed, feel like dying but eventually come out of that situation and thank God they didn't take their life?!

Exactly, the thought that homosexuality is normal is wrong because the day the sincerely person decides to change, he will. Let's stop swallowing hook line and sinker every narrative being pushed to destroy the family structure because all they want is destruction of the souls of men.
well said.bravo

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by Wallade(m): 8:38pm On Oct 20, 2022
MufasaLion:


And according to you religious folks, unbiblical things are sins. Stop trying to be on the fence.

Homosexuals are humans and nobody cares if it's biblical or not! Let them be, they have the right to their sexuality. Y'all religious crackheads are very intolerant!


Are you homosexual

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by Wallade(m): 8:39pm On Oct 20, 2022
Samueltemi337:
And what if your child was born intersex
you go kill am Abi?

I will cast the madness out of his or her mind

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Re: Schooling Abroad Has Messed The Psyche Of Some Girls by guobe: 8:45pm On Oct 20, 2022
Samueltemi337:
And what if your child was born intersex
you go kill am Abi?
A lion can't give birth to a cat.Never.

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