SKIBiNSKI:
Control freak, especially wen dem don old and desparate.

odinga1of:


Bro which sites you met? Cos I met one or two on Facebook, but keep tellin me I ain't in Yankee.

sprints1:
you dey find babe for abroad.

sprints1:
yeah is over 30 but am older than her.

optimusprime2:


When I see you name Tidjane Thiam (Who is even an old man), then I already know you lack that prime confidence (which is the essential thing in the art of gaming).

I stand at 6'2 and I am confident the gbola that I carry cannot be replicated in any race . I have lived in 11 different countries (Including the America's) and sir, the ladies have always, I repeat "A-L-W-A-Y-S" rushed me... different types, I even had a menu, if I wanted blondes, brunettes, red heads, skinny, mini, thick, you name them. Infact when I was in Turkey (that women are more conservative) I still ran extreme game.

The good thing I love about the dating scene outside Nigeria is the fact that, you don't need as much money or riches to run game, just the essentials are ok, but you need to have your confidence in tonnes and you need to know how to use the "black" clout to your advantage, if you don't, then you'd probably endup writing about white privilege in picking up women yada yada yada... Oga I did point N kill, top specifications, location and language was not a barrier.

Infact in Japan, running game was the easiest because the ladies are naturally timid and reserved so your confidence and kindness goes a super long way until when you shift pant. Infact I was like a celebrity that time, because they barely saw black people in Japan.

In Europe I let them know the stereotype about African gbola is true, From France to Czech Republic to Scandinavian regions, I was a legend, I shifted wombs for free during winters due to popular demand.

In the US sir chai... mheeeeen Infact lemme stop here because although I have hung my boots, I never barb my dada.

So oga, I don't know what you are talking about. If you are the calm one, just say it, Don't generalise all brothers sir, because some of us have conquered.

spiritedtete:


Your write up makes me laugh.. Nigerian men have higher chances of dating anyone in the world be it poor, rich, illiterate and educated... I have witnessed many in different countries in Europe. Just bring honesty to the table that's all. Nigerian men rank higher after black Americans. This is a fact.

Oyindamolah:
The Naija man's options are multiple especially when they are outside the country SADLY; the white man's options are 'double multiple'. If he doesn't want his like, he'll consider Latin America, Asia, indians, etc Even in Africa, Nigerian women are at the bottom of the perking order, thanks to Nairaland men.

The bills and taxes over there would make you to chose loneliness over relationship.

spiritedtete:


Your write up makes me laugh.. Nigerian men have higher chances of dating anyone in the world be it poor, rich, illiterate and educated... I have witnessed many in different countries in Europe. Just bring honesty to the table that's all. Nigerian men rank higher after black Americans. This is a fact.

sukkot:
Truth of the matter is that UK has brainwashed everybody living there as you wAtch their TV . Standard of beauty in the UK is white woman first, next is exotics like Indian , next is mixed race, next is Jamaican women and last is African women. Like to date a black woman in the UK is like considered scraping the bottom of the barrel. Everybody goes to clubs chasing white women and half caste. And so that's why African women there no dey get action. And the only people who should naturally give African women action are in the UK to hustle for money aka African men and they don't have time and the ones that have time are chasing white women. There is no action for African women in the UK. They are looked at as the dregs of society

On a side note let me add that the cold weather and British food does not make our women look good over there. It's when I came to Nigeria that I actually started appreciating the beauty of black women. When that sun hits that melanin it shines and starts popping. A black woman is very beautiful in the African sun but her skin looks dull and ashy in foggy cold British weather. Our women don't look their full potential living in the UK. I have seen more pepper sellers in Nigeria who look better than almost all the Nigerian girls in the UK. It's that good organic diet and the African sun making thAt melanin pop

JastSiryin:
Dude! You lost me at "most Nigerian men are ugly". Are you serious? What would you now say about South African men? And I'm talking native ones, not the mixed. We're not Greek gods by any stretch, but we're good looking in a more rounded way. Dude speak for yourself!

Magnoliaa:


You're beautiful, if that's really you @ your pfp. ❤

Zane2point4:

You were making sense until you confused me with the african sun statements!

You mean the same harsh uv light wey deh gv ppl sun burn and make u appear toasted??

Mehnnn cut me some slack gee!

sukkot:
you go in and out of it but its always there. you dont sit in it for hours

ednut1:
There are many babes willing to give you nacks without date or after first date. But our 9ja babes go wan stress you. The 9ja babes also like feminism, they rarely cook. But don’t wanna share bills like oyinbo and other blacks. After a while men just go to where he easy.

GUNITGuy:
My aunt in the Uk same thing she should going to her mid 50s .....Here on the island dey just dey find who to give them belle wether rich or not.......

rickleye:


That’s a lie that Nigerian men rang higher after African Americans. Unless your list comprises of just 2 groups !

G00DHardDick:


Are you a lesbian? Too many lesbians, homo and transgenders this days on nairaland.

I can't believe another girl will rush to look at the DP on her fellow gender and was even complimenting her, except you're a lesbian.

Hamachi:

sprints1:
E be like one naija babe wey we worry me. Na big time doctor she be for California hey. She dey find husband even her family dey worry my old parent but as dem see I no dey look their daughter side dem discharge. Number 1 she no too fine and secondly not my type. I get my own personal lingering financial problem wey I dey beg baba God to solve. I never ready to do houseboy for obodoyinbo. Make I dey my dey. She go use american culture take finish my life. She is career oriented. I need a badass chick not a control freak.

Gerrard59:


That depends on the kind of woman o. In ranking order, the white man is revered worldwide and is higher than his black counterpart (thanks to their great-grandparents who dominated the world). To get the top class women in developed countries as a black African male migrant takes a whole lot - education, mannerisms, spoken language, career etc. Add the fact that most Nigerian men are ugly (myself included), some due to the suffer-head conditions they faced in Nigeria, and it gets worse. One literally has to be a Tidjane Thiam to stand a chance. It might be better in the US and other countries with a substantial black population, but in places where the black population is very minute, e get as e be. So, when they say "Nigerian men are loved in the abroad", certain questions should be asked.

- What calibre of women "love" Nigerian men?
- Which countries do they come from?
- What are the profiles of these women (height, facial looks, educational attainment, career etc)?

Zane2point4:


You mentioned pepper seller na,she will be in hot sun for long’

On the contrary,if I’m inside ac for long,ppl wil be admiring my skin,buh same can not be said when on is out on the sun for long’

Rubyjade:
A friend that went to Japan shared his experience on this.

Most of the young fellas think marriage is like a bondage wound up with a lot of responsibility. You see that responsibility is what most of them are not ready for.

Our culture here is helping in this regard.

LordAdam16:


So you comfortably clear the Three Sixes, with some leeway, and you think that makes you representative of all black guys?

That's like Daniel Henney bragging about his exploits and making that seem like every Korean dude will have the same batting average.

Come back down to earth.

The thread touches on challenges for the average black in the diaspora. You're an outlier.

-Lord

hadjipapiey:
Indeed! No one and nothing is indispensable!

A post since 2022 pulled through to coming on the FP today 28th April.

Hamachi:
Which island? Oga easy with the lies

Gerrard59:


That depends on the kind of woman o. In ranking order, the white man is revered worldwide and is higher than his black counterpart (thanks to their great-grandparents who dominated the world). To get the top class women in developed countries as a black African male migrant takes a whole lot - education, mannerisms, spoken language, career etc. Add the fact that most Nigerian men are ugly (myself included), some due to the suffer-head conditions they faced in Nigeria, and it gets worse. One literally has to be a Tidjane Thiam to stand a chance. It might be better in the US and other countries with a substantial black population, but in places where the black population is very minute, e get as e be. So, when they say "Nigerian men are loved in the abroad", certain questions should be asked.

- What calibre of women "love" Nigerian men?
- Which countries do they come from?
- What are the profiles of these women (height, facial looks, educational attainment, career etc)?

lavylilly:
The pressure to meet up with bills, taxes and other stuff to survive with back to back shifts go humble any Nigeria Person. Even many married people are lonely...talking from my sisters experience.

She said nothing but the fact.
Have experienced this issue.
Ko easy. Do shakara for naija but not for obodo Oyinbo

Beautiful thing ;
1. You can’t use money, catfish &pepper soup to get a girlfriend.
2. Bills are split even on first date
3. You don’t pay anyones transport
4. Dating doesn’t mean relationship
5. Relationship doesn’t mean marriage
6. You must ask if she is into men/women

GUNITGuy:

Carribean Island 🏝️🏝️..... Dominica