Nicenancy:
I lost my job last year. Before this, I was providing for my husband and child. About a month ago, I was added onto my secondary School Whatsapp platform . Two weeks ago, my husband saw I had made a paltery 1,300 naira contribution towards an old school welfare project via the Whatsapp platform and hell has broken lose in the house . Saying, we are in hard times and that I should have informed him bla bla bla. Now he has exited me from the page without my authorization and warned me to never rejoin that page. I feel so disrespected. Please advise me

I think you have to be careful with him

Most frustrated husband's vent their angers on their wife, yours is not going to be an exemption

Hence forth, every thing you want to do that may trigger quarrel between you guys she be kept secret

Start something doing so that you dibt ask him for money, even if it means going into teaching

For him to deliberately remove you from a school whatsapp

He may deal with you in a ruthless way

Where una dey see these kain men sef. These same goats will come to Nairaland to say women bring nothing to the table yet they're chooking nose in their wives money. Shameless hypocritical animals

Divay2:
Just imagine

Women should learn how to respect their husbands

Your Husband has Authority over you.
To pay bride price, traditional marriage, wedding is too difficult nowadays

Women should respect Men's Authority as the head of the Family for once

Whatever your Husband ask you to do, do it diligently without complaining

Nicenancy:
I lost my job last year. Before this, I was providing for my husband and child. About a month ago, I was added onto my secondary School Whatsapp platform . Two weeks ago, my husband saw I had made a paltery 1,300 naira contribution towards an old school welfare project via the Whatsapp platform and hell has broken lose in the house . Saying, we are in hard times and that I should have informed him bla bla bla. Now he has exited me from the page without my authorization and warned me to never rejoin that page. I feel so disrespected. Please advise me

Sure, it's disrespectful but don't lose it because of that. Forgive and let go. However, you must be very careful with him. I'm sensing he can grab on a little thing and ask yo to leave the house.

He's not happy that he's not having enough but his approach isn't it. Talk him to calm down that things would be fine. Both of you should share ideas and work together.

Lastly, close your legs until things get better. It's time to build and not spend.