Munzy14:

No cap!
Most married women can't.

Fact!
If your woman can do wonders in the kitchen, hardly will you eat outside..When you know a sumptuous meal is waiting for you at home...

Kollins11:




I no like to dey brag for social media. Come and see my real doings by yourself in reality.

However, I will continue to see Nigerians girls as sex slaves and sex objects till I die. Nothing good can come out from a Nigerian liability dirty hoes.

That gender are all 4th class citizens while animals are 2nd class citizens.. Spits!

Munzy14:

I am still an upcoming husband, but I totally understand.

Instead of making a wife who can't cook well insecure, you just locate good place outside and eat to save your life if you can't cook as well.

Truvelisback:
Most men are very busy labouring endlessly to make ends meet and they may not have that chance to do the cooking.

shantti:


Funny, cool
U hardly throw banters

bukatyne:


And the women are not labouring too?

Or the insane work hours men have, women don't have too?

mariahAngel:


Men of this generation ehn!
I don been talk am; o wu ha mebishiga uwa a anyi no ugbu a.
ihe ntakiri, ha a gbapula eshi!
Anya n'ukwu ghala nu ha n'ama, even after they're married.
Gini ka nwoke lurula nwaanyi choga n'eshi?
M gide k'owu ehn!

In the days of our grandfathers, not all grandmothers could cook very well, but never would the grandfathers think of going out of his compound to eat.
It was a thing of shame.
(Especially in Igbo culture.)
Even our fathers never did that.
(Even if they wanted to eat something different once in a while, they will bring it home and eat it with their wives.)
Not with men of nowadays!
They will boldly eat out to their fill, then bring their belly-filled self home.
What does a wife do with such a husband?
If the case was that she doesn't cook, that would be different.

A good husband would continue to encourage his wife, until she learns how to cook well. (After all, he chose her and all that she's about.)
How would he encourage her? By eating the food she cooked and appreciating her effort, then letting her know where she needs to improve on.
Any woman who loves her husband would be eager to please him.

Making it a habit of eating out will just ruin everything, including the marriage.

mariahAngel:


Married or not, if someone cannot cook, they simply cannot cook.
One does not automatically become a good cook because they got married (Unless they learn).
Men who their wives cannot cook, knew that before they married them.

bukatyne:


And the women are not labouring too?

Or the insane work hours men have, women don't have too?

mariahAngel:


Excuses!

Why would your mum accept money to cook for you?
For how long is that going to continue?
(Why should you even live close to your mother, when you're married?)

My mum would say onye muru nwa e to-eto?
Meaning who bears a child that never grows up? [/I]

Even if it's [i]potty your wife knows how to cook, you must learn to love/endure it, till she learns to do better. That's right!
(Or you do the cooking if you can do better.)

Nobody's eating out!

mariahAngel:


Excuses!

Why would your mum accept money to cook for you?
For how long is that going to continue?
(Why should you even live close to your mother, when you're married?)

My mum would say onye muru nwa e to-eto?
Meaning who bears a child that never grows up? [/I]

Even if it's [i]potty your wife knows how to cook, you must learn to love/endure it, till she learns to do better. That's right!
(Or you do the cooking if you can do better.)

Nobody's eating out!

Munzy14:

Unless they learn, but unfortunately most aren't willing to.

Yes, any man who married a wife who can't cook, knew very well, but went ahead..Maybe because her bedroom game is compensating..

But, they forgot, with time the sex fades away, Then food is a must till last day one dies.
Even the kids stomach must be secured with healthy meal as well.

And one must eat, to get strength to pump..

In all, one shouldn't misplace priority.

Truvelisback:
The dey the husband go mistakenly jam Calabar girl wey sabi cook and nack well, her own don done.

Munzy14:


Tradition lost.

Why will a married man run to his mom to cook when his wife is there This thing can cause a divorce.

Some mothers be breaking homes on code..

Truvelisback:
The dey the husband go mistakenly jam Calabar girl wey sabi cook and nack well, her own don done.

Truvelisback:
The dey the husband go mistakenly jam Calabar girl wey sabi cook and nack well, her own don done.

Truvelisback:
What if the wife is that lazy type, unwilling to learn or can't cook a nice meal? It's her duty and she must do the kitchen duty. Some women are just lazy in cooking. My younger sis was like that, she was lazy in cooking and can't cook a nice me. Na after i yab her, she come change. My mum started giving her the opportunity to cook. Anytime she cooks, she will plead with me to taste it. I will be the one to score the taste. Now, she can cook and her husband enjoys her meal. The last time i visited her, she gave me beans she prepared to eat. She later asked me how the taste was. I told her it was good.

mariahAngel:


There was the problem.
Some mothers no dey gree comot hand.

mariahAngel:


The agaracha husband no been see where Calabar girls dey before im marry im wife?
"Calabar girls! Calabar girls! Person no go hear word!
As if e pass edikang-ikong, afang, and knack!
When e reach to cheat, na that time una dey remember Calabar girls.

(Na only to think of ways to spite una sabi, forgetting say two can play una game!)

Mindlog:


Have you ever thought of when a married woman go mistakenly jam another man whey get better money and far better in bed, shebi you know how far?

They are always things that can distract a man or a woman, away from their marriage.

Truvelisback:
E dey hard for man to get better money and sabi knack well, well for bed at the same time. E dey hard. Him must get one quality. E dey very rare. Rich or people wey get money well, well no dey knack like that.

Jeon:

Men love delicious meal and all restaurant owners would have been married.
Men love sex and all sex workers would have been married to their customers.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do most married men eat in the canteen or restaurant? Is it that their wives can't cook nice meals? I'm a bachelor and i do eat in the canteen but surprisingly, i do see married men eat there. Although, the owner of the canteen is a good cook.

GboyegaD:


I read through your comments on your question and all I can say is I wish you the very best whenever you choose to get married. A wife is a helpmate and not some domestic staff.

Truvelisback:
Domestic activities are part of the helpmate. The kitchen is major meant women but laziness and inbility to prepare nice meals has forced some men to go into the kitchen.

Truvelisback:
Domestic activities are part of the helpmate. The kitchen is major meant women but laziness and inbility to prepare nice meals has forced some men to go into the kitchen.

mariahAngel:


O wu ihe ome n'ala Igbo Jiri di mma.



I hukwara a hu! And they're even proud to say it, and see nothing wrong in it.
The other one was even asking if I was possessive.
Besides, what man wouldn't want to be possessed by his wife?

Mindlog:


I used to be a neighbous to a Nigerian couple with a 2 year old daughter......that mindset up there, was one of the key causes of conflict in their marriage.

Oga carry im Nigerian way come UK refusing to unlearn some things and relearn, insisting cooking and other domestic chores must be done by only the wife alongside much of the childcare.....madam change am for am, how can she do 12 hrs shift at work just to come home to chores, without the husband lifting a finger. Madam decided go off work for a month, to stay back home and be full-time housewife which made Oga to look for extra 20hrs job per week to add to the main 40hrs per week he was already doing...by third week he called his wife to reconsider resuming work and they worked out how chores would not burden just one spouse.

Truvelisback:
A man can sometimes assist in house chores but that shouldn't stop her from doing the needful.

Mindlog:


When you hear "can your marriage survive, abroad? , e get why?

Living abroad especially in the West, there is nothing like " can sometimes" . You see house chores and childcare, the man is involved 100%!

I live near a primary school and I have observed that about 7 out of every 10 black immigrant parents bringing their children to school in the morning are men and most of their stories is that they did night shift at work, come home around 7a.m when the wives are about leaving for work for the day shift. Oga, oversees the children' breakfast then take them to school at past 8, comes back home to sleep for some hours, do some chores, go back to school to pick the children and get them to have lunch and do their homework, while he start preparing for work, madam returns, Oga leaves for work.

Truvelisback:
We have abandon our culture and embrace their SIMP culture that makes our men to lose their senses. Their culture makes women enslave men or turn men to mumu. E.g Kneeling down to prose a woman.

Mindlog:


It is no SIMP culture, both have to go out to earn. So what do you suggest men do, in order not to lose their senses in such settings?