RoyalBlu:
I'm still stunned!

Saw this a few ago minutes on FB.

This marriage thing...

Can't help but wonder what could have gone wrong in their camp.

It's well o.

livinbygrace:


I just got married less than four months ago,and i am almost 44yr old ,but with what i have seen so far,its better to remain single,and embrace the baby daddy syndrome.Its like getting married to a stranger despite dating for many years.Our religious institutions needs more work to do instead of focusing on tithe and offerings.

CivilEngineer90:
I knew I was only a matter of time. Women are only loyal to money. Don't fool yourself thinking a woman will stay with you without money. It's been pretty rough for BM lately, he's not as hot as he used to.

AgroDoctor:
Take it or leave it...

If you marry in the wil of God, I mean you marry the man/woman that God has chosen for you, you both will not divorce no matter the challenge.

People go into marriages leaving God aside. They run after fame, money, physical appearances, status and the likes. After some years, reality will set in and water will find its level.

There are 2 types of life partners.

1. The one God has chosen for you through His will. You get this by praying, fasting, and seeking His face. Here you don't bring any material thing forward. God comes first here. He knows you need the good things of life and because you put Him first, He will then give you the things you didnt ask for to make your marriage enjoyable until death separates you both.

2. The second type of life partner is the one you chose for yourself. Many people do this and later want God to make the person better when they see the true color of the person. But God doesn't work that way. It will fail. Na divorce go end am.

Elidrisy20:
These ppl just dey copy oyinbo lifestyle

busomma:
It looks like to be a complete celebrity in Nigeria, u hv to be divorced.

AchichaMmuo:
Marriage shouldn't be do or die.

Evolutionlove:


Ogbeni comot for road make I see front.

I have always known many among you guys are not to be taken serious mtcheeeew.

Evolutionlove:


Okay you wouldn't still mind even If It takes place on your matrimonial bed and you caught them In the Act.

Answer this first, Then I will believe you truly don't really mind and also hail you as a strong man

ibkayee:
Men leave their wives all the time

Leave their kids for another woman
Leave their wives when they’re ill
Bring another wife into the home and force ‘polygamy’ onto them

So what exactly are you saying?

ibkayee:
What’s the point of staying in a marriage if you aren’t happy

DonroxyII:
Welcome to Globalisation and CopyCopy is allowed !

Enough of Incarceration of Woman anywhere in the world anyway ... Man needs to go extra miles nowadays to Man their Woman because Day has Break for Everybody ...

The Era of White lies to Women is Gone ... Everyone Don tear eyes now ... Man needs to set the space again if not ... Man go become Woman in no time

StreetFight:


I have been married for over 11 years, I have to tell you that you are 100% correct.

MrAdam:
what's with this married people and crashed marriages?

Most people with broken marriages are a result of broke homes..
Just like being in love with an only child and you expect that much love in return. Infact theses ones have no emotions cos they have no siblings..

As a man.. even after marriage, make sure you have your wives weak spot.. disregard the shame and let her emotionally/psychologically
know youve beat her hand down..

Note: no physical violence, she'll do worse if she's in your shoes..

Heterodox:
Making sense until you drag God into it.

DaveHarry:
So basket mouth wey funny and still get money no fit keep him wife too.......obobs be like e hard to reach 200 level 4 dis marriage institution o. Make I no kuku bother buy dis utme form sef.


Anyways wonder why most naija gospel singers sing gospel songs as if it rhythm and blues.

MrBanner:
Marriage in this our generation is not well understood. A few days ago, I watched Michelle Obama talk about how she hated her husband for almost 10 years of their marriage. She could've left, but she didn't. She stayed and weathered the storm for 10 years. Today she has never been happier and more fulfilled having served as FLOTUS for 8 years, and as an inspiration to many women and young ladies out there. This generation simply believes that once their union isn't like a fairytale, it has to end. Which is wrong on all accounts.

miqos02:


Very hard to get submissive wife in this generation because of education. Education opens your eyes and makes you ask questions. What we need is for couples to understand themselves. Submissiveness is not possible again.

TheGiftedOne:
Has divorce become the latest fashion to trend? Why are marriages crumbling? The most beautiful union in nature is lately under a great threat. I pity the kids more cos they are the biggest casualties in all of this devilish trend.

Westernization has a lot to do with it Dear

chiefolododo:
I no understand ,pls explain

CivilEngineer90:
I knew I was only a matter of time. Women are only loyal to money. Don't fool yourself thinking a woman will stay with you without money. It's been pretty rough for BM lately, he's not as hot as he used to.

highchief1:
we real resemble.the only thg that saved our moms from this general divorces herr and there is absence of social media.nobody knows anything about me.another thg I refuse to join is old students group.my life is forking private and it’s saving me head ache.even my family WhatsApp group I’m not in it.we are 9 I’m not d only one not in that group.if I have anything to tell u I’ll call u personally.social media is dangerous

DonroxyII:
Social Media is not Dangerous But Inability to Develop Maturities Over the Social Media is the Danger:

You can't be comparing your life with the life or fake life of others and be mentally Upright:

highchief1:
social media is like that normal saying”see no evil”I no Dey do

descarado:

So many.

I read here yul edochie's first wife has relocated to London. They keep on stretching these ladies to their boundaries thinking it will be like their parents era.

Goodluck to them

tunapawizzy:

What's the point of getting married if you are not ready to make the sacrifices that keep marriages. Marriage is 60% sacrifice, 30% discipline and 10% love.

Amumaigwe:


In short ,they also kill their. Women are only victims. We agree.

DonroxyII:
Lol ... I'm not the type that run away from something Challenging ... I build myself over it so I won't be befallen by it !

Social Media has Many Advantages than Disadvantages especially Education/Civilisations Fuelled By Instant Information at One's Finger No Stress Except You no get Data or Network abi Phone no dey

Social Media to Me is also God's Vision for Unifying the entire Humanities into One Single Race Verily all the Cultural Shocks and Values Clashes shall settles and Peace shall be Sustained till then ....

Make we dey enjoy the Wahala dey go ...

I'm much more educated by Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter and Nairaland, Quora, Reddit, Tiktok than what my Family Gimme