Iamfrank:
The issue is getting married to the right person... I think people change when they get married that is causing the increase in divorce

People change everyday!

So people should expect changes in their marriages!

The only problem is that once love evaporates, so does the marriage.

creatorsverse:
Once women start to make money, dey no longer endure

What do you want them to endure?

highchief1:
my life sha I don’t like ppl knowing stuffs about me or my wherr about.none of my class mates are far relatives can claim to know much about me.if I’m in Mexico my location will be showing Uk.anonymous life is just cool for me.that’s why u see fb ig and all that I no Dey do but faceless places like nairaland Twitter etc I can spend my whole day here.

That shows You are Matured Over the Social Media ....

Even Churches and Mosques has been abused by Fanatics, Extremists and Holier than Jesus, Mary and Mohammed Combined...

Abuse is part of Human... Nevertheless, Depressions has turned many to social media rats because that's the only means by which some people are sustaining life if not dem go die Other than those who utilize social media for income !

DonroxyII:
That shows You are Matured Over the Social Media ....

Even Churches and Mosques has been abused by Fanatics, Extremists and Holier than Jesus, Mary and Mohammed Combined...

Abuse is part of Human... Nevertheless, Depressions has turned many to social media rats because that's the only means by which some people are sustaining life if not dem go die Other than those who utilize social media for income !

yea bro it is what it is for u.

Wow, this is shocking. I wonder what happened

DonroxyII:
if you Worth Submissions You would be submitted unto !

But how many man actually have the charisma to be submitted unto without forcing the Submissions ... !

it's not about being worth or not, today's educated women can do well without marriage apart from child bearing. So submissiveness is a scarce commodity today.

ibkayee:

Are you actually privy to the ‘sacrifices’ that were made in their relationship or you’re just another stranger on the internet making assumptions on what did or didn’t happen?

60% sacrifice? 10% love? Where did you draw your stats from?

What’s with all the marriage suffer porn some people want to engage in lol

No I am not trying to make assumption and I am not privy to what went on in the relationship. We all are strangers on the internet talking about a matter brought to the public.
My point is that marriage requires much more sacrifice than love and its not by force to marry if one isn't ready. This is for both gender. Your views may be different so it's okay to disagree. Everyday people keep proving love is never going to be enough and that there's something much more important.
Marriage requires a lot of sacrifice doesn't mean people will suffer, it becomes suffering if it's one-side, making sacrifices is sweet if the energy is similar. Making sacrifices can be fulfilling if its appreciated and reciprocated.

tunapawizzy:

No I am not trying to make assumption and I am not privy to what went on in the relationship. We all are strangers on the internet talking about a matter brought to the public.
My point is that marriage requires much more sacrifice than love and its not by force to marry if one isn't ready. This is for both gender. Your views may be different so it's okay to disagree. Everyday people keep proving love is never going to be enough and that there's something much more important.
Marriage requires a lot of sacrifice doesn't mean people will suffer, it becomes suffering if it's one-side, making sacrifices is sweet if the energy is similar. Making sacrifices can be fulfilling if its appreciated and reciprocated.

Fair enough

My niggar wan enjoy fresh pussy.

miqos02:
it's not about being worth or not, today's educated women can do well without marriage apart from child bearing. So submissiveness is a scarce commodity today.

Bro we men need to change our IQ ...
You don't demand for submission, You Earn It!

Submission still dey available but many men who are supposed to use their productive years to Conquer this Harsh Economy and Earn their Respects and Submissiveness from their Women are busy simping up and down:

Most Men are even using their Small Earns from Big Hustles to Pursue Women only to be crying foul later ....

100 Women would fight dirty over One Economic viable Man while Other economic unviable men would be crying and Simping ...

Women are meant to be taken care of and Women from Impoverished Nation like Nigeria would scan your life finish before Saying Yes to You and Change you immediately once Better Offer Pops ....

Poverty is not a friend of Anybody especially Woman ....

... if you no get money and Sense ... No near Women until You Make am, Use your little money to build yourself ....

If you no get money, then get Scope and Lamba if not ... I don't like men crying ....

Submissiveness my Black Nyansh ... Women still dey Submissiveness till tomorrow ... And Yes, for Your Money and Other Specs that make a Full Man if not she fit drop You ....

Welcome to Generation Z and 21st Century New World Order ... Step Up to It !

MrAdam:


You an only child or know one? If not, you won't understand only if you're in the above position.. single kids don't have some emotions cos they believe they should have everything to themselves cos they didn't have siblings to share or compete with.. so no love/pain/person to share their emotions with except they have a true love or true friend.. they're mostly introverts to the core and smart ones are highly coded

You are right is most of it, had a younger relative, single child and not very emphatic about others, more like only analytical, but doesn't like being treated that way by others. Yeah I think is the absence of siblings kind of cause them to see the world about only themselves

CivilEngineer90:
I knew I was only a matter of time. Women are only loyal to money. Don't fool yourself thinking a woman will stay with you without money. It's been pretty rough for BM lately, he's not as hot as he used to.

you are right,money keeps a relationship running its a fact.

Lastlook:


I'm just like you brother, I'm in my 30+ and a software developer. I'm supposed to be all over the net but I'm not. No Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat, TikTok etc... Even though my profession need it, My Facebook is only for running Ads.

My wife to be is on all those platforms but I don't care to follow her or monitor whatever she post or do.

I love my life, I love my peace and I love her so much. I'm enjoying the relationship and it's 8 years plus now. Many things have happened, What ever the upset is, we tell each other the truth, reason it together, encourage each other, resolve it and laugh it off.

If you like cook a story about her, true or false. Nah Oyo you dey o.

Dating for 8 years. Will y'all ever get married?

DonroxyII:
Bro we men need to change our IQ ...
You don't demand for submission, You Earn It!

Submission still dey available but many men who are supposed to use their productive years to Conquer this Harsh Economy and Earn their Respects and Submissiveness from their Women are busy simping up and down:

Most Men are even using their Small Earns from Big Hustles to Pursue Women only to be crying foul later ....

100 Women would fight dirty over One Economic viable Man while Other economic unviable men would be crying and Simping ...

Women are meant to be taken care of and Women from Impoverished Nation like Nigeria would scan your life finish before Saying Yes to You and Change you immediately once Better Offer Pops ....

Poverty is not a friend of Anybody especially Woman ....

... if you no get money and Sense ... No near Women until You Make am, Use your little money to build yourself ....

If you no get money, then get Scope and Lamba if not ... I don't like men crying ....

Submissiveness my Black Nyansh ... Women still dey Submissiveness till tomorrow ... And Yes, for Your Money and Other Specs that make a Full Man if not she fit drop You ....

Welcome to Generation Z and 21st Century New World Order ... Step Up to It !

man is not wired to earn submission in AFRICA. No need to argue further sir.

miqos02:
man is not wired to earn submission in AFRICA. No need to argue further sir.

Then Let the Wailing Continues because Our African Women are now Influenced by Cardi B, Nicki Minaj and Beyonce while Educated Folks are Influenced By Obama's Wife

If we want Ancestral Women like Our Grandmothers We need to Hustle and Conquer Our Economy like Our Forefathers Did if not ... Let the Cry Go On !

PrimadonnaO:


Dating for 8 years. Will y'all ever get married?

Sure by **24, if God willing. We are in different country at the moment.

wonder233:
Yes I can

are you currently married ?

I wonder what he did

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fof1:


Can You Swear to urself that, You are Faithfjl before God and Man? Is that the only reason for Divorce?

He must have hit one of your nerves with his comment. It’s time for you to have a serious rethink if you’re one of those randy he goats out there.

Lastlook:


Sure by **24, if God willing. We are in different country at the moment.

Lol.

Alamkir:


I swear, my thoughts exactly, basketmouth cool and his marriage has been private. They hav known each since secondary school b4 marriage

They probably got tired of each other

SmartyPants:
Celebrity marriages are the easiest to crumble.

Usually the guy is getting too much female attention, and the woman knows she will be financially settled if she leaves.

Not much incentive to work things out from either side.

merry Xmas