HellVictorinho6:



It means you're avoiding the person.

Was I ever forcing you to reply me?


What sort of misfortune is this


I deserve answers doesn't mean I'm going to ask for something you will regret to give. ....jeez... keep your answers to yourself then..


It's useless pride that makes you feel like telling me your name or age or state of origin or ambition is something I have to die for.... what rubbish!!


In your wickedness...., you will tell people I was disturbing your destiny because of the innocent question.
Does it mean your attention is special or what exactly



No girl or woman can be made comfortable by someone they unnecessarily expect to worship them unless he worships them...... they(those that detest you for no useful reason) want you where they can enslave you because they never really wanted you for any reason.


It's inside them.....they may not show it outside.

Spits.

Brother the OP question is very simple and no you dont have to be dating her yet...look above and see my own answer for example

HellVictorinho6:



It means you're avoiding the person.

Was I ever forcing you to reply me?


What sort of misfortune is this


I deserve answers doesn't mean I'm going to ask for something you will regret to give. ....jeez... keep your answers to yourself then..


It's useless pride that makes you feel like telling me your name or age or state of origin or ambition is something I have to die for.... what rubbish!!


In your wickedness...., you will tell people I was disturbing your destiny because of the innocent question.
Does it mean your attention is special or what exactly



No girl or woman can be made comfortable by someone they unnecessarily expect to worship them unless he worships them...... they(those that detest you for no useful reason) want you where they can enslave you because they never really wanted you for any reason.


It's inside them.....they may not show it outside.

Spits.

your problem is not even ego or pride.

You just don't really know how to toast a girl. Maybe you should try learning how to start a conversation with women.

FalseProphet1:
I'm a very jealous person, I can't stand a girl cheating on me. Sometimes I break off a relationship because of a phone call she received, it's that bad.

That's why I've left women and focused on my calling.

This I have seen.

hope you don't get jealous if God calls another person

Rayban25:


Brother the OP question is very simple and no you dont have to be dating her yet...look above and see my own answer for example

you dey see am too ba?

Blame shifting all through

Crystalom5:
hope you don't get jealous if God calls another person

God won't cheat on me...I trust him.

This I have seen.

FalseProphet1:

God won't cheat on me...I trust him.

This I have seen.

na true sha.

Sha try dey give your trust small small. It's hard but it's the risk we all must take.

Guys will always call girls. Whether she's dating or not.

Crystalom5:
your problem is not even ego or pride.

You just don't really know how to toast a girl. Maybe you should try learning how to start a conversation with women.

Define toasting

Crystalom5:
your problem is not even ego or pride.

You just don't really know how to toast a girl. Maybe you should try learning how to start a conversation with women.

Who told you we never had conversations??

Rayban25:


Brother the OP question is very simple and no you dont have to be dating her yet...look above and see my own answer for example

I didn't say I was trying to keep anybody.


You get?

HellVictorinho6:



Define toasting

stop deflecting and casting blames on other people.

Dating is a game. Learn the ropes, play the game and stop being like a sore loser in a game.

Sometimes you win with women, some of us have gotten girls just talking about a day with them others take months and many on and off.

It's all a game. Just play and play and play. If you become tired, then drop her off.

HellVictorinho6:


Who told you we never had conversations??

lols. You thought you had something but to her, you've not really even scratch the surface. Na like dat una go take dey date unaself

Crystalom5:
na true sha.

Sha try dey give your trust small small. It's hard but it's the risk we all must take.

Guys will always call girls. Whether she's dating or not.

I feel if you're serious with a guy as a girl, you should let other guys know that you're in a relationship. Why keep other guys around and be receiving calls from them every second if you're sincere that nothing is going on between you two?

Crystalom5:
lols. You thought you had something but to her, you've not really even scratch the surface. Na like dat una go take dey date unaself

I was trying to know how we could gain in order to become something later....as soon as possible.

Crystalom5:
stop deflecting and casting blames on other people.

Dating is a game. Learn the ropes, play the game and stop being like a sore loser in a game.

Sometimes you win with women, some of us have gotten girls just talking about a day with them others take months and many on and off.

It's all a game. Just play and play and play. If you become tired, then drop her off.

Hmmmm, call it blaming...,call it deflecting...,call it whatever...


yeah, rappers even talk about games and all of that in their rap songs.....call it playing....., call it scheming...,call it whatever.



I know I was assessing where I was.

I was and I am still among humans that exist .... I know she still exists too.


Let's put it this way....., whoever is useless to my progress .... remains useless to my assessment too.



I inevitably keep assessing...... people that I will have to avoid will remain to be avoided .


I never wanted more problems.... I am not here to chase more problems.


You don't teach me how to invite more problems.

More problems also have their own problems which will never leave them too.



Call this whatever you call it..... that's your cup of water.

FalseProphet1:

I feel if you're serious with a guy as a girl, you should let other guys know that you're in a relationship. Why keep other guys around and be receiving calls from them every second if you're sincere that nothing is going on between you two?

seems you've not met some guys. Even when a girl tells them that they are in a relationship, they still continue believing that she's only forming hard to get.

But I get your point though. Especially when you are talking and she's taking those calls and laughing like you are not there.

Maybe next time you try talking to her about it. A lot can be achieved by sharing your feelings about something instead of just walking away.

HellVictorinho6:



I was trying to know how we could gain in order to become something later....as soon as possible.

you still don't see the problem?

You assume she'll want to win with you. Bro, simply because a company is making profits doesn't mean every investor will be eager to put their money into it.

You still need to make every effort to convince the investors why they need you.

That's women for you. You may be the best option for them, but they still need you to convince them to jump into your boat. They still want you to make efforts even when they have nothing to offer in return.

Women value has been their beauty for a long time and will probably continue to be. Till tomorrow, you will pick and fall in love with a pretty girl over an ugly one.

Till tomorrow, that pretty face will want you to put in effort to convince her why she should be with you.

It's only in the long run they will start calming down and become faithful to you. Most times, after the first sex, you will see them mellow down and their pride will vanish.

The same girl that has been suffering you and doing shakara can suddenly kneel down and beg you not to leave her.

But you can't get to this point without first being suffered.

Donwizbro:
I don't know if it's normal, but I tend to lose interest on a woman when I sense you're so obsessed with me. I once had a girlfriend that can call me like fifteen times a day. She can come to my place almost everyday without even telling me. Last year's Valentine she bought me alot of gift, and I was so ashamed I didn't even remember it was Valentine peoriod talk more of reciprocating the good gesture. I've never loved a woman like her in my life. But she's making me scary af
I think I might have ptsd due to the numerous breakups I had.
Sometimes I just stare at her and wished she is with someone more serious than I am. Seriously, that girl is a good woman, a good soul, well mannered too.. she's never asked a penny from me.

Bro is she from the north

HellVictorinho6:



Hmmmm, call it blaming...,call it deflecting...,call it whatever...


yeah, rappers even talk about games and all of that in their rap songs.....call it playing....., call it scheming...,call it whatever.



I know I was assessing where I was.

I was and I am still among humans that exist .... I know she still exists too.


Let's put it this way....., whoever is useless to my progress .... remains useless to my assessment too.



I inevitably keep assessing...... people that I will have to avoid will remain to be avoided .


I never wanted more problems.... I am not here to chase more problems.


You don't teach me how to invite more problems.

More problems also have their own problems which will never leave them too.



Call this whatever you call it..... that's your cup of water.

may be you were useless to their personal goals. Didn't you consider thar as well?

Or women don't have goals?

Crystalom5:
you still don't see the problem?

You assume she'll want to win with you. Bro, simply because a company is making profits doesn't mean every investor will be eager to put their money into it.

You still need to make every effort to convince the investors why they need you.

That's women for you. You may be the best option for them, but they still need you to convince them to jump into your boat. They still want you to make efforts even when they have nothing to offer in return.

Women value has been their beauty for a long time and will probably continue to be. Till tomorrow, you will pick and fall in love with a pretty girl over an ugly one.

Till tomorrow, that pretty face will want you to put in effort to convince her why she should be with you

I didn't assume.

I don't assume.


I ask.


You get?

If she says ok....,then she starts ....... acting like .....
. I am tired of saying..... I mean how she reacted through the phone the last time.... if she starts acting .......

, it's too terrible....,till now..., I know she won't mind doing worse...,

then am I supposed to feel less important


This is not me being unrealistic.

It's about seeing that her reaction was too ...... please,stop extending her matter.


I don't want to talk about her again.


She's not more of a person than I am.


Please,stop trying to make sense based on her case.


It's of no use.

I am very patient but I get very jealous and hate disrespect.

I can't condone cheating and an uncouthed woman, almost all my previous relationships died as a result of that.

If you are faithful and have good manners then I don't think anything will separate us.

The red flag I have is that I don't know how to forgive and well maybe I am stingy too according to them ladies, I haven't sent any girl money till date but I can you buy food and others but not giving you money.

Crystalom5:
may be you were useless to their personal goals. Didn't you consider thar as well?

Or women don't have goals?

Their personal goals that couldn't stop them from making useless remarks because of innocent questions.


Their answers are also worthless.... same as their personal goals if they can't do without useless overreactions.

Peace of mind. I value it so much I don't want anything that will compromise that regardless of the gender

The simple truth is that I CAN NOT SIMP.

Because I'm an introvert girls say I'm boring

Because I live single no matter what relationship I'm in.

blazepascal:
Because I'm an introvert girls say I'm boring

I can relate with this.

I'm an introvert too. But you need to make some changes especially when you're with your girl.

One thing I've learned that helped me a lot is to watch comedy videos. You know, watch some of those stand up comedies, not the skits.

You'd start learning how to be funny a little and don't be afraid to put yourself on the line.

Connected1:
I am very patient but I get very jealous and hate disrespect.

I can't condone cheating and an uncouthed woman, almost all my previous relationships died as a result of that.

If you are faithful and have good manners then I don't think anything will separate us.

The red flag I have is that I don't know how to forgive and well maybe I am stingy too according to them ladies, I haven't sent any girl money till date but I can you buy food and others but not giving you money.

seems a lot of us here need to deal with jealousy. And rightly so, the rate of cheating is just so much that most of us are now extra cautious and wary about any relationship between any guy and our girl.

But never the less, you should never be so cautious as to be afraid of being hurt so much so that you don't even give your trust in the first place.

You need to give that trust first

What's good manners to you anyway and how do you know that you'll have the same good manners for the girl?

It's easy to know what you want and how the other person should behave. But very hard for us to think, what if I'm the one misbehaving? What if I'm demanding too much or the impossible? But more importantly, what if what you feel is respect is disrespectful to her?

Your girl is also human and not some sub human that must bow to your every wishes. She also wants equal respects and love.

Now imagine you thinking you are giving her all those but in her mind, you aren't. Simply because what respect means to you doesn't mean the same to her.

Most of these things can be solved by communicating more. But instead, we run away with our ego forming hard man

jeromestarks:
The simple truth is that I CAN NOT SIMP.

loving is not SIMPing.

Regardless of how hard you form, you must like one girl at one point or the other except you are gay.

You must see a girl you really want to be with.

That's not SIMPing or being weak. It's being a MAN.

Real me are those who are able to get a woman and keep that woman from every other man. If you haven't done this, you are still a baby swimming in the dating pool

I actually work hard to provide so much for my ex even though I didn't wrong her, she left me for a bahd guy eventually. and I but what makes me leave a lady is my limit to taking nonsense and red flags.

HellVictorinho6:



Their personal goals that couldn't stop them from making useless remarks because of innocent questions.


Their answers are also worthless.... same as their personal goals if they can't do without useless overreactions.

again, it's a game and you're already losing really bad.

Nothing is owed you. Nothing is given for free. If she's harsh, move on.

That's how she play her own game. That's her strategy. She owes you nothing. She owes you no respect.

Whenever I remember this picture
Sapa na bastard

WeebLordMonsuno:
I actually work hard to provide so much for my ex even though I didn't wrong her, she left me for a bahd guy eventually. and I but what makes me leave a lady is my limit to taking nonsense and red flags.

I thought I should say sorry, but honestly, it's not a loss. You'll meet better girls still and continue working hard and you'll meet even more girls.

Girls too plenty for us to be feeling sad for one that leaves.

Back to the discussion, providing alone doesn't guarantee that a woman will stay.

She probably was still in love with the ex and you were only her rebound for the few times they broke up.

It feels like that but it happens all the time. Never expect much from a girl that still loves her ex especially if he was the one that broke up with her.

What do you think made her choose her ex over you though. Thats the question of the topic and if it's something you can work towards, it'd be great