theophorus:
"Sex doesn't Keep a Man and can never earn in marriage" so if He is not married to you don't bother giving him your Body.

But the moment He is married to you, please give Him unlimited access so that those Hookups don't become your rival.

Anyone you are not married to but you gave access to your Vjay, to such person; You are Cheap and Slutty.

It doesn't work as u think .Every lady has sexual libido which craves for sex for it to be quenched for sometime and then again and again .So it's nature except if one is a true religious person.Desire for sex is always there in both guys and ladies and it's very strong, marriage or no marriage.Dts why cheating continues even in marriage.

Looking like most Nigerian girls reason the same. So all you have to offer is sex? But all you want him to offer is unlimited? Tell me why he won't leave you after.

Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

Who conditioned you to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you?

According to you "But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them."

Where did you nigerian men? They are in their hundreds of millions. How did you know that many men in your short life span?

From my own perceptive and experience, it depends on who are .Even if you like deny him sex for 50 years and your personality aren't something to talk about , he will still move . When you meet an intelligent man ,sex is not the first thing on the table . As you women rate men ,same way men rate women . Someone like me all I look out for is personality ,I hate pretence . You can't offer sex and start billing and think a man will stay put and ignite a relationship. When a man ,shows up ask him what he wants with boldness and watch out to see if he has bad personality. Just that most people fail to look out for those bad personality, a goat that will enter the bush always shows the sign . For me sex is just over rated ,I hate toxicity and liabilities. If you as a woman is offering only sex then you met your equal,but if you have a lot of things to offer than sex be bold to ask questions. Wealthy people move with their kinds ,poor people move with their kinds .

Buhari4sale:


You be mumu... Abraham is the father of faith. So he didn't have sex with Sarah until God told him to abi... Do you see it anywhere in the 10 commandment not to have sex before marriage?

What is adultery/fornication?

nkemdi89:
Why not enjoy the sex and forget about if he stays or not , the moment ladies start enjoying sex and stop the thinking otherwise , this mentality will reduce, if it's about marriage, keeping yourself doesn't guarantee a man will stay, I am talking from experience.

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Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

I didn't read through because of the heading and in as much as I would want to agree with you, I also want to let you know that not all men would leave you for giving them sex on the first date.
I always and will always say this to whoever cares to hear; as a guy, what turns me off most girls and I believe it relates to most guys is your attitude before and after sex.
One thing most girls don't know is that as guys we observe all of that; how you portray yourself even after sex. That we have or had sex on our first date doesn't mean you are loose, it all depends on the depth of our connection.
So then that shouldn't make you throw away your pride rather should make you show your worth regardless of what had happened.
We went on a date and eventually because we were deeply connected we ended up at my place and made out for the night; what I will look out for is who leaves the bed first, who greets first, even while on bed what is the attitude (some of you act like one night stand and expect us to go ahead with the relationship).
My current date had sex with me on the first date but her attitude made me desire her the more; we are currently planning our wedding and by God's grace November is the month.
Yes guys would always come for sex but after that, it is your attitude that will keep them.

nkemdi89:
Why not enjoy the sex and forget about if he stays or not , the moment ladies start enjoying sex and stop the thinking otherwise , this mentality will reduce, if it's about marriage, keeping yourself doesn't guarantee a man will stay, I am talking from experience.

can we link up?..

I stay in Abuja too

farem:


I love when the deluded, depraved and those of the perdition quote from their satanic bible. Especially the bolded above from the book of Goliath Chapter 2 verse 15.
Ladies, you yield to this fornication advice at your own peril.

Sex is not granted UNTIL you are ceremonially married.

That's true.But the trending problem nowadays now is sex outside marriage (adultery) which is part of no go area in Gods 10 commandments.Many youths marry as a solution to fornication only to find themselves in the bondage of adultery, both men and women.
I think we should always preach against all sexual impurities and not just one.For all of them are d same.

No man leaves anything good and memorable, whether it was a first date.

Most men will leave you when they eventually sleep with you if you proved too hard, hoarded the "thing too long" and made them spend so much to have it. Or if they remain with you they will be very hard on you since they have now crossed the thing you have been hoarding and making them suffer for.

If you must hoard or delay love-making do it decently on principles (i.e saying you don't want it before marriage). Do not make him spend money or undergo torture of denial. Do not be in the same bed with him for the night and deny him it. You rather not be in the same bed in the first place.

Someone I know, the girl would get him to agree for a holiday travel to some resort and stay there with him for three wonderful days but deny the guy for the entire time. The guy was so frustrated and sad al of such period.

When he eventually sailed in very much later he started getting his pound of flesh unwittingly

Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

What you wrote there to me doesn't really matter,first date or not doesn't mean he shouldn't leave you...Na Just by God grace

Jeweltz:


Thanks. But withholding sex doesn't stop me from meeting a man that'll Love me. Thanks again

Babe lately your threads are about relationship fuss, seems you are on the crossroads of picking the right man. Follow your heart.

Hmn. It pays to keep your body sanctified till your wedding day. They will call you mumu, but you have done the right thing. Cheers.

Jeweltz:


But opening legs doesn't still mean he'll love, right? We all know this. Men are committed as long as he loves you and you give him peace. But these men still leave as long as they get sex. Like it's all sex they want from you

My dear, if you like wait till eternity before you open your legs for him, he will be utterly disappointed if he eventually gets there only to discover that it’s been destroyed beyond repair. We’re not bodyshaming anyone but some of you are just log of woods in bed while some are wider than Congo and Amazon rivers combined yet you want a man to just stay with you regardless of these flaws. You ladies have specs and so do men. Never think sex is enough to glue a man to you forever and if you must, then make sure you’re what he wants and not stress him over some overused kpomo. My sister, in all you do, just be sweet (have an excellent sex life, sweet feminine personality, well behaved, intelligent, be social)
If you must stress a man, better be worth it.
Believe me, no man leaves a sweet woman to chase after fallen Olympuses and devil’s sinkholes and even if he mistakenly does, he’ll always find his way back home into your arms like the lost prodigal son .

Sweetplum:
So she should be serving it anyhow..train ur daughters that way

Rubbish...........she is eating his money and taking his attention, here you are encouraging her ro keep him aloof.....is she the only woman in world? Are you a thief?

If you want nothing to do with a man keep away from him. Thief.

Buhari4sale:
Lol.. You can't get our of this world alive, same as your pvssy can't escape being bleeped numerously or at least multiple times before you found the right glue dick.. It gives you more knowledge about how men are differently programmed & how to deal with them.


My dear if your pussy is sweet with good behaviour, you will stay, if there is no space, a reasonable man will create a space for you.

Just make sure you are giving in for a wise, educated and God fearing man.

My Sister I am a man, even after 39 dates don’t give in, if he is serious he will wife you! A man can pretend to even engage you, he knows some women will foolishly allow them to browse after engagement then he will dump you! If the man like u let marry u first before you give in! From your experience those men you give them after many dates are u now married! Purity is still the best!!

Jeweltz:


Thanks. But withholding sex doesn't stop me from meeting a man that'll Love me. Thanks again

are you the one on ur profile?

GODPUNISHALABI:
are you the one on ur profile?

Yes. Any problem?

Avoid giving sex at all unless you are married.

VeryWickedSimp:


It didn't occur to you that he ran away because what he finally got was trash compared to the stress he went through?

Haba.
How can you call a whole human trash?
When you people would have watched too much porn, then you expect a regular girl to be like those plastic white girls y’all watch.
Well sha, God will judge you people for us.

Rechargeam247:
Avoid giving sex at all unless you are married.

E be like man never worry you before.

Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

IF YOU LIKE HOARD YOUR SEX , THE ONLY OPTION IS THAT HE WILL TAKE IT UP WITH OTHER LADIES WITHOUT YOU KNOWING

AND ANY DAY YOU DECIDE TO GIVE IT, HE WILL DUMP YOUR A**SS IF HE FEELS YOUR ATTITUDE DOES NOT COMNSERATE FOR A BETTER FRIENSHIP.


SO MY DEAR IF YOU LIKE HOARD IT FOR 10 YEARS NA YOUR LIFESTYLE WAY HIM SEE GO MAKE AM DECEIDE WEATHER TO STAY OR JAPA


NOT YOUR SEX, SEX IS SEX EVERY WERE U KNOW


THE SOONER YOU MAKE HIM UNDERSTAND HOW YOUR SEX IS THE BETTER FOR YOU, BC THE DAY HE DOES IT AND DISCOVERS THAT YOUR SEX IS NOT WORTH IT , NOTHIN CAN MAKE HIM STAY.

flokii:
The problem with the other guy is that the said single mother is using him as ATM and still denying the mum.u sex.. Believe it or not, the same lady is opening her legs for guy(s) who don't give a rat ass about her. They probaly just call her, talk dirty to her and bang her for free while our dear Simp is at home slmping some more and dying in silence.

Wallahi, the same point I saw in that mumu guy's case be this...

Very irritating...

If 99% percent of naija men cheat, how come we have the highest paternity fraud in the world? Don't generalise because you met some bad ones

Jeweltz:


What really do you people want? Why do you cheat on a woman you claim you love? Cheating is in the blood of 99% of Naija men. A man will convince you he loves you and your mind will already be at peace thinking he's the one, only to start ignoring you after that. I think you people should tell us what u want

zeuss:


Rubbish...........she is eating his money and taking his attention, here you are encouraging her ro keep him aloof.....is she the only woman in world? Are you a thief?

If you want nothing to do with a man keep away from him. Thief.

It's better you are robbed and beaten to stupor than for you to find love. See his hard face!

Jeweltz:


Yes. Any problem?

Lol I don't believe share ur ig handle let me verify

SugarGirl44:


E be like man never worry you before.

Still avoid giving sex, you lose nothing aside time and other minor things if the relationship doesn't work out.

My dear no time to waste time, if anyone gives me zero energy after sex, I'll return the energy too. I am never too emotionally attached to anyone.

Never ask for money from a Man On first date.
Never Give a Woman Money or Gifts on First date.

Sex is Enjoyed by both man and Woman ,They see each others nude.
Why does ladies feel that they are doing a man Favour when they allow a man to have sex with them.

Why do they attach so much guilt to this.

Na waooo..

Even if the guy does not feel like having sex with her ....it's the girl that will dress half naked seduce the guy to have sex with her...many girls nowadays cannot control their sexual urge...they make themselves so cheap towards the guy

Autobot05:



I dont fornicate but the fact is if you dont give him another woman will... women love sex too and crave for it

So while you're forming madam another younger girl is satisfying him . Only desperate or incomplete men will play this your drama with you.. find other ways to keep a man rather than opening your legs
Have a nice day

This is so much wisdom in a short note, Thanks for sharing

Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

You can deny him sex for 50years, the day you decide to give him, he will still dump if he wants.

I had sex with my ex on the first day. Our relationship lasted 3years.