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Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by pansophist(m): 3:21pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
ufotty2001: Evaluate her from what I said earlier, then make your decision based on that. have this in mind, and it is that men carry the burden of a relationship. For her, she is basically moving in, to put it bluntly. Women's burden is children. So if she is someone that sees marriage as an escape from poverty, to slay till death or to pepper her single friends, then back off. To marry is to ally with someone competent, to make living in this sad world bearable. You may not be happy sometimes, it's part of the deal. If people understand marriage like this, they won't be so desperate to jump into it. And remember this. In marriage, your responsibilities are non-negotiable. Your family (especially your kids) won't understand the loss of a job, or why they won't eat today. Of course, I wish you all the best, but suffering and lack are the realities of many homes, and the kind of woman you marry will make or break you. If there is anything you should be ruthless about in choosing, its a wife. Be wise, my guy, be wise. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Cinema4d: These days, If you are financially stable and you hail from a rich/comfortable background, You can marry early. If you are struggling and you also hail from an Average/Poor background. Run away from marriage in order to avoid your Offsprings Cursing you endlessly. The backbone of true and successful marriage is financial stability and Good Economy. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by ufotty2001: 3:24pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
pansophist:Thanks |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 3:41pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
MikeofAfrica: Unfortunately most of these guys wouldn't listen but seems like i am starting to see little improvement on reduction of marriages these days, Courtesy of Buhari Hardship Pro Max. Few years ago, I use to wonder why most of these poor guys are always suffering themselves and they easily bow to society pressure but overtime when i woke up i realized i am not like them in terms of "Intellect Aspect" because i have seen many half baked degree holders who still reason like a village man. This thing is quite simple, Take your time and build yourself since you didn't come from a rich/comfortable background, pray for good spouse and good children. Nigerians need to do away with their "Archaic Mentality" It is one of the biggest problem the nation is facing. |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by habsydiamond(m): 3:51pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
scrolldown88:so you think odetola or dangote's children can get their parents gifts abi... that's the joy of parenthood. When u grow old and ur children are surprising you in a good way u will be happy. |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 3:57pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Nyascobar1414: Your first paragraph is the absolute truth. In Nigeria, I have seen many MEN supposed scholars, top executives, people of affluence saying things that keeps me wondering, How did these people got to this position et all. But overtime i realized it seems some of them knows what they are doing, They are Just playing to the tune of the system. And I can confidently tell you some of them are outrightly Just stupid but still they have the connections. Yesterday I was at an Eatery, I saw two men who brought their Side Chicks with them and the women were heavily entertained. I said in my mind that these guys are doing all these because of pvssy lol. As a Man from an humbled background in nigeria, You dare not Challenge those Old SIMPs in power, Your Superiors, Your friends etc else most people will avoid you outrightly. Never ever talk bad of Women among Men when in public or Criticize the Men about the Help they are rendering to Women, Never criticize your Superiors or Politicians when you are in public. Just pretend and flow with the Tide and see how you will keep excelling among those Ignoramuses. Eventually When you get to the Top, You can then decide to grow Wings but still you need to stay on top of the Game. 1 Like |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Tegabadguy(m): 3:59pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Samantha123:okay |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Cowbell521: Lol you are very well informed and in touch with reality. Those sets of Men, Na them full NIGERIA now. A good example is your darling daddy who appointed a woman as DG of NDDC I pity all the YOUNG MEN still trying to find their feet in this forsaken nation. I'm sure Some of those heartless and greedy SIMPs are here reading as Guests 1 Like |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
elyte89: Oga Stop deceiving yourself and wake up to reality. This is NIGERIA, and In this CURRENT NIGERIA Forget if you are from a poor background and you eventually didn't still achieve your basic financial stability in your late 30s and you decided to throw in the towel by getting married. Believe me, there is high probability you will remain poor because your productivity and agility will reduce. It takes special grace of the mighty to excel except you Cut Corners or receive special grace. |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 4:24pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: Hmmm see Wisdom. But unfortunately most of those poor people who needs to see this are not on the Cyberspace. It's very unfortunate. 1 Like |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Ade1177: Lol I love this I guess you are from a humbled background. Very Few Guys from humble background are starting to see the pictures clearly now. Meanwhile all those things you outlined up there, The Rich SIMPs and Some Guys will gladly double it and give it to the ladies for free. |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Prettygirl200: GentleMen Here Is the "Default Archaic Mentality" i was talking about which has plundered many gullible unfortunate men into the bottomless Abyss Unfortunately many Men are still going to keep plying this unfortunate route until their eyes get opened. 1 Like |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Prettygirl200(f): 4:40pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Evolutionlove:like I said, marrying early is not for everyone, but on the other hand if the resources are there and you see a partner you are compatible with, it's good to marry early, train your kids on time and relax when you are not too old. You can attest to the fact that am saying the truth. |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 4:44pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
JeffreyJunior: Lol even the supposed half baked educated Nigerians doesn't even know what this is talkless of the stark illiterates Before you know it, 3 Children don Surface |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by elyte89: 4:47pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Evolutionlove: We re literally saying d same thing...d reason for getting married so late in ur late 30’s or early 40’s is because of d reason u just stated up dere(finding ones feet financially),but if d person keeps trying hard in all legit ways and he doesn’t achieve dis aim, what will happen? Won’t u just accept d reality and get married,abi u wan make dem call parent teachers association in a nursery school ur kid goes too and u will now attend such at d age of 60 , Except u don’t believe in d institution of marriage,I still stand on my point dt 99 percent ppu dt gets married late ,didn’t get to achieve dt finiancial feat but had no choice Dan to just marry like dt(I mean for those who still believe in d institution of marriage) |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 4:54pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
kudinkarfe: Lol the 80s and Early 90s standard & Ideology when Nigeria was still working at least. Many of you are still hallucinating and stuck in industrial age. A lot of Men are in extreme poverty today because they still wanted to ply the route their BOOMER PARENTs towed and yet their parents weren't even successful but they managed to be okay because Nigeria was Working at least then. Make Una continue I'do rather be the Hottest Bachelor living good in town than be a poor miserable married man living from hand to mouth in Trenches 2 Likes |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by elyte89: 5:01pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Evolutionlove: Make I even burst ur brain,even with a 250k salary ,A couple with a kid who earns such ,living in lagos of today’s harsh economy,will manage ni, Dey will be practically using d income to pay for basics like food,rent,shelter,after wards na little money go remain No money to save to buy car, or even go on a simple date,i know is dt bad Now tell me,aw many couple even earn such in a month to start with, very few But for those who believe in d institution of marriage will go ahead and get married,hoping things will get better...and we av seen many cases where things actually turned out better Dts y I doff my heart to our parents,aw much were Dey earning, yet Dey struggle and raise 5 or 6kids successfully (all graduates), aw Dey achieved such, I can’t say, but I am sure it would require some sacrifice,wc our generation of today can’t even pass through |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 5:13pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
elyte89: That's the Reality. Whenever I am in my car and i look through the tinted glass, the countenance i see on people on the street most especially mid-aged and elderly men is not always friendly at all. Most times i am always in prayer mode my car shouldn't break down in most public places in lagos. Why would you be surprised that most of our parents nutured 10kids successfully then? 1.Was anyone paying Tution Fees in the 60s to early 90s? It's pratically free till you graduate. Even YABATECH was giving her students Bursary then and all educational expenses are being catered by the government. 2.How much was Foodstuffs, Shelter, et all then? Why won't they bore 15 to 20 Children when Nigeria was a booming nation. Oga I no dey respect most of those old generations most especially the BOOMERS!!! because they had it very good between 60s and 90s. Na them still con even destroy the country sef. Check most of those who are in powers now and do research on when they were born. Go read about the BOOMER GENERATIONS. |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Raalsalghul: 5:23pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
MikeofAfrica: And this my friend is the cause of generational poverty. 2 Likes |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 5:51pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 6:00pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: If 70% of Nigeria Population follow this Advice. I bet you POVERTY will be a thing of the past and It will be drastically reduced to the barest minimum. But No, Most poor people want to see their great grandchildren playing in front of them before they clock 60years, They need children who will start catering for them by the time they clock 50years, They also don't want to keep paying school fees in their Late 40s and lastly their body will be too weak by then for the Task of nurturing a Child. |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by IAmNumberOne(m): 6:00pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: You are very correct. Let me just add that many people who give this advice about marrying early before a man has found his feet financially do so from a place of the logical fallacy of survivorship bias. They tend to point to the exceptions while completely neglecting the failures (which most times make up the bulk of these cases). That it worked for Mr A does not mean that is how it always goes for everybody. Mr A's case might have had grace (or luck if you please), hard work, privilege, leverage, connection or any number of other contributory factors to his success. That is why I personally believe that everyone has his/her own race to run and it is unproductive and unwise to pressure oneself because of another person's life. Their own time and season is different from yours. Follow God's timetable for your own life. 1 Like |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Raalsalghul: 6:00pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: There is nothing wrong with his thinking process, it's just a matter of different realities for different people which is why I'm yet to understand why you're riled up. I've come across your posts enough on this forum to know you're not from an average/poor Nigerian family (even with your former moniker Ornicus). Your background is educated, exposed, rich, replete with professionals if your posts are anything to go by: you had your tertiary education abroad and I'm sure at 28, you had a lot going for you thanks to the solid foundation you were born in and so it's not far-fetched to understand why you got married at that age. However, there's a different reality for those born in the trenches who'll probably spend a larger part of their life avoiding/clawing out of poverty. Not everyone will have the same reasoning faculty as you thanks to varying factors such as environment, family, tribe, culture, education etc. So when someone says, they'd rather wait till 40 before they get married, it'd be more intelligent to understand why and their reasons for such statements rather than attacking them. A 28 year old man from a "poor nigeria family" who gets married is just another link in his family's generational poverty. It'd take hard work, planning, an supportive partner and maybe a miracle for it not to be the case. Though I'll have to put it out there that I don't support yahoo yahoo. Try to empathize rather than attack. 2 Likes |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 6:12pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: I always admire people who are in touch with reality. Not some daddy and mummy pet whose ground have been softened for. I think some of these guys who post here falls in that category. Most of them don't really know much about Life. Personally i don't usually respect Wealthy/Rich peoples Offsprings except the humbled ones who are scarce in numbers. I usually respect their PARENTS and I also respect Hustlers who Ironed life out themselves. Whenever some of those Stupid Kids, "I mean the mannerless ones" want to talk or rant whenever or wherever we come in contact, I usually shut them up instantly. I'm always like what do these Foools knows about life, If not for your parents, Na Ajegunle you for dey. |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 6:17pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
ufotty2001: Wetin concern Musa with Bible |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 6:20pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: Thank You So Much!!! |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by GloriousGbola: 6:21pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Raalsalghul: 1st off, my entire education was Nigeria. Second off I had a middle /upper middle class childhood - not a wealthy one with inheritance etal 3rd I started working in 2002. I did not get married until 2006,when I got a well paying job. I got married within 6 months of getting that job, much to the consternation of most of my department, who expected me to enjoy a big boy bachelor life for at least three or more years For instance a fellow I met in the company who was senior to me got married like four or five years after I did So sorry I would say you are off on most of your assumptions I could have also said let me wait till I get into a managerial position. Let me wait until I have investments. Let me wait till I have land. That is the vibe I am getting from a lot of these posts. Parenting is hands on and seeing gray haired men with toddlers - you have to wonder who will actually raise the children. There is one like that living beside me. The man is probably 55 plus. He now has four children and I am wondering how many years of parenting are available to him. The money he has made is not going to raise those children I also say this because I had an uncle who married a second wife when he was 50+ and watching him manage a new family when he should have been winding down was super cringey. As it is the man died with the kids still in secondary school. Anyways to each his own I actually deleted the other reply to my post as it is full of quasi religious mumbo jumbo and the post history of the poster was not particularly encouraging either. |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 6:36pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 6:42pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Raalsalghul: The bolded is the reason why i don't take some these guys serious. They are not in touch with REALITY. Some will sit in their comfy homes and come on here to start vomiting nonsense and rubbish. All these Spoilt Kids wey their parents no allow them feel the HellFire of Nigeria |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by spartachico(m): 6:46pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
if i can buy 2000 likes to click on this your comment , i will buy it and hope seun gives u an award than voting in the next Big Brother yrhuhfy113: |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Positiveme2020: Inside this CURRENT NIGERIA? Well God help you in your quest. Na extremely Greedy & Wicked people full outside now. |
Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by Nobody: 6:49pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Emola12: Another Great Comrade who is very much in touch with REALITY. |
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