Freshtruth:
Me and this girl have been dating for over 7months now I have even.introduce her to my parents . so last week I decided to take her and have a good time at the club on our arrival there is this young guy who order for 7 Hennessey and 10 Andre at a spot Dorime sound was played for him. This guy use full Andre to watch his hands in our presence. I ask the Bar man how much is one bottle of Hennessey the Bar man told me 22k. I order for Andre which cost 13k and me and my babe were drinking it . so me and my babe began dancing I became press told my babe am coming ,when I finish using the rest room I came back and find my babe at this guy chair that just bought those drinks I was angry walk up to my babe and told her what she is doing there the guy was with a group of men and few ladies then the guy ask her why am I angry he told the guy I was his cousin and I am.very protective of her , the guy apologized to me and gave me a bottle of Hennessey at the spot . I told him thank you and walk out with my girlfriend.
The problem is my Girlfriend told me she don't want the guy and his group to attack me that she save me by saying am his cousin so guys this girl have never cheated on me before she was always open to me about anything I trust her because she use to leave her phone with me. Should I still go ahead and continue the relationship? She always call me with her card and she is also an usher at the church , she from a decent family

them don get usher wey Dem legalize for clubhouse
Let's get it straight bruh
A LovePeddler is a LovePeddler either ways she would come open one day bro..
Just freestyle that girl
Thanks God you haven't married or did any intro shaa
All whores are broke so she thought she could get some shin shin from the other bro. So be real with your self bro. usher no get assurance with heaven fahh 😁. If she dey real for you she for no loose guard you for another guy nahh

Freshtruth:
my babe can't do that to me she knows my intention towards her I use her phone to play games she didn't exchange number with him bro

Your simping is on another level 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Freshtruth:
my gal can't do that to me mind you she is a worker in church am d one who convince her to club with me

If you know all this and trust her then why are you coming to nairaland for advice

The last paragraph
Na wetin u use take dey console urself, abi

Loser!

You get small luck. She could have introduced you as her driver. Stay away from Nigerian girls they are all shameless.

My ex did something similar to me.

Guess what, she later left.

Trust a Nigerian girl at your peril.

You can never advice a SIMPle man unless they learn the hard way.
Abeg nobody should advice him again

Freshtruth:
pls don't you ever call my girlfriend an olosho pls be warn, I understand your fears for me but am always with her phone I don't think she took his number

Freshtruth:
pls don't you ever call my girlfriend an olosho pls be warn, I understand your fears for me but am always with her phone I don't think she took his number

You being with her phone always can't stop the yahoo guy from fuccking her whenever he wants.
Let me be real with you, he will drill her pussy like a dog, she will swallow his nut & lick his ass. He may even Bleep her double penetration with his fellow yahoo guys while you are at home foolishly thinking that your girl is still that innocent churchy girl she made you believe.
Even if she has not taken his number as you claim, she has already given him her number & maybe eagerly waiting for when the guy will invite her to tear her pussy with his yahoo dick.
Don't forget she's a Nigerian girl & she's capable of all these things & many more & she has now gotten the golden opportunity of fuccking a rich yahoo guy.

Think with your head bro, I mean no harm, I'm just being real with you

Freshtruth:
Me and this girl have been dating for over 7months now I have even.introduce her to my parents . so last week I decided to take her and have a good time at the club on our arrival there is this young guy who order for 7 Hennessey and 10 Andre at a spot Dorime sound was played for him. This guy use full Andre to watch his hands in our presence. I ask the Bar man how much is one bottle of Hennessey the Bar man told me 22k. I order for Andre which cost 13k and me and my babe were drinking it . so me and my babe began dancing I became press told my babe am coming ,when I finish using the rest room I came back and find my babe at this guy chair that just bought those drinks I was angry walk up to my babe and told her what she is doing there the guy was with a group of men and few ladies then the guy ask her why am I angry he told the guy I was his cousin and I am.very protective of her , the guy apologized to me and gave me a bottle of Hennessey at the spot . I told him thank you and walk out with my girlfriend.
The problem is my Girlfriend told me she don't want the guy and his group to attack me that she save me by saying am his cousin so guys this girl have never cheated on me before she was always open to me about anything I trust her because she use to leave her phone with me. Should I still go ahead and continue the relationship? She always call me with her card and she is also an usher at the church , she from a decent family

WTF... You say wetin?

Gaddafih001:
I laugh in Mubi.
Wetin carry her go that table in the first place?
She get street OT wella.
Na you I Dey pity because you are not leading that girl right and she will destroy you for that.
Why are you going to the club with your wife to be?
Oh,you are woke.
You go chop sand on top the breakfast she will serve you no matter how long it will take her.
Lead her right,try to be a responsible leader to her.
Be masculine,don’t simp around women.
What you allow is what will continue.

Taking your girlfriend or wife doesn't mean anything, but on how you built your relationship.

Whether club or no club, the girl no like that guy.

Freshtruth:
kNo she is not she is a usher in the church I.know her too well she is very descent from.a well brought up home
I know what he took me to.win her heart

And you think she loves you?

After pestering her to date you, braa she is managing you.

Instead of stressing yourself, let it be over.

Freshtruth:
kNo she is not she is a usher in the church I.know her too well she is very descent from.a well brought up home
I know what he took me to.win her heart

Seems you are new into the game of dating?

Braa you gatz use iron fist follow 9ja girls, else she go lay egg for your head.

Pells:

Okpo come and defend your fellow olosho again
Smiling because it's what you do to.. deceiving guys
Spits in ur smelly kpekus

Braa calm down.

Stop the habit of Insulting people you know nothing about, just because she laughed just the same way everyone was laughing at the OP.

I can attest she has a fantastic handwork, so calm down.

Dshocker:


And you think she loves you?

After pestering her to date you, braa she is managing you.

Instead of stressing yourself, let it be over.

.. guys just like stressing theirselves .. the minute a girl says hey I'm not interested in you or she shows it .. I bounce ..

I don't do pestering ..

When she feels any different , she'd come telling herself..

Your "girlfriend" definitely saved you from the beating of your life. However you also need to understand that the guy collected her number and she collected his number. You are not married to her. I repeat, you are not married to her. She can't settle for someone like you if she can get a man with more money.

Trust these daughters of eve completely at your own peril. I don't want to get angry by typing too much. But watch her attitude in the coming weeks or months.
She is not proud of you and will seize any slight opportunity to dump your ass. But all the same, good luck.

Dshocker:


Seems you are new into the game of dating?

Braa you gatz use iron fist follow 9ja girls, else she go lay egg for your head.

The guy is naive.

Na you use your hand carry her go there Na...that y I use to tell my guys Na Nigeria girl get level Na man Dey give them level.now her eyes 👀 has open to other way that will affect you sporadically if you don’t quit the sink ship 🛳 you called relationship bruh 😎 Na wetin I fit cap 🧢 my blood 🩸 I Dey tell you so.

Modified:you’re responsible for any decisions being made concerning the sink ship

Uptheante:

You being with her phone always can't stop the yahoo guy from fuccking her whenever he wants.
Let me be real with you, he will drill her pussy like a dog, she will swallow his nut & lick his ass. He may even Bleep her double penetration with his fellow yahoo guys while you are at home foolishly thinking that your girl is still that innocent churchy girl she made you believe.
Even if she has not taken his number as you claim, she has already given him her number & maybe eagerly waiting for when the guy will invite her to tear her pussy with his yahoo dick.
Don't forget she's a Nigerian girl & she's capable of all these things & many more & she has now gotten the golden opportunity of fuccking a rich yahoo guy.

Think with your head bro, I mean no harm, I'm just being real with you

you meant no.harm.but yours you type making my heart pounding seriously

Freshtruth:
my babe can't do that to me she knows my intention towards her I use her phone to play games she didn't exchange number with him bro

Why did she stand to go meet him at his seat

She no fit ignore?. Shey dem go beat her if she no answer them?…

Freshtruth:
kNo she is not she is a usher in the church I.know her too well she is very descent from.a well brought up home
I know what he took me to.win her heart

You are a simp... that girl is into coded runs and she will punish you severely.

Who told you she didn't exchange contact with that guy or they won't Bleep her.

Stay there and be fooling yourself.

That girl is into hookup and you have to be extra smart to catch her in her game.

Place her under surveillance... Pretend like you don't know anything and watch out for red flags. She will surely slip and you will note this.

That girl is surely deleting chats. Install spyware or app on her phone and relax, you will see what your righteous babe does in the dark.

Thank me later

If she introduced you as a relative, you are a relative. Whatever she introduces you as, that's what you are.
I know you feel pained, shiiit happens.














































However, do you feel like to kiiill yourself because of that If yeah, take & gripe no more.

Op you for no bother to go over to the guy's table in the first place. Plus even if she use jaruma jazz on you you supposed to know say na olosho she be. Lastly as for the yahoo boy you are not supposed to shoot ur shot while a woman is with another man is disrespectful shit could have hit the fan

Freshtruth:
kNo she is not she is a usher in the church I.know her too well she is very descent from.a well brought up home
I know what he took me to.win her heart

Usher in the Church.....you carry am go club she folo you... .
Oga oooooooo

okoloto:
I dated this unilag babe for 2 years. I never knew she had two phones. Each time she is coming to me, she comes with only the phone I bought for her and special sim for me and her few close friends that I know.
She made me believe that I can't come to her house cos she stays with her parents though.
She leaves the phone for me and nothing. Naija babes are smart. Na her friend she had issues with burst the bobble to me. She was a hook up babe. That guy don collect number, the rest will be story. Naija babe be say if u wan marry, just close eye to collect one zipped bag. As you open am, anything you see you take. If you are lucky e fit be nice one.

Burst my bubble bro....@bolded....I jus de read de smile....that's an ancient wisdom

ItisWell22:
No too reason am 😁

Even Father Abraham and Mummy Sarah run similar game;

… to save his life too… 😊

the girl is a true descendant of father Aby

Freshtruth:
my gal can't do that to me mind you she is a worker in church am d one who convince her to club with me

You are right ...she is a worker in the Church.
You will learn. The hard way...

Well, Don't leave her yet....give. Her more time, time and chance will test her loyalty

pizzzy:
Op you for no bother to go over to the guy's table in the first place. Plus even if she use jaruma jazz on you you supposed to know say na olosho she be. Lastly as for the yahoo boy you are not supposed to shoot ur shot while a woman is with another man is disrespectful shit could have hit the fan

Op na mumu na
Op went to ease himself, the guy see lonely babe for club call am, or she went over herself, if the girl introduced Op as a bf the guy go free am, but na brotherzone Op enter and the guy still understand give am drink free the girl.

Lol all this beret girls

okoloto:
I dated this unilag babe for 2 years. I never knew she had two phones. Each time she is coming to me, she comes with only the phone I bought for her and special sim for me and her few close friends that I know.
She made me believe that I can't come to her house cos she stays with her parents though.
She leaves the phone for me and nothing. Naija babes are smart. Na her friend she had issues with burst the bobble to me. She was a hook up babe. That guy don collect number, the rest will be story. Naija babe be say if u wan marry, just close eye to collect one zipped bag. As you open am, anything you see you take. If you are lucky e fit be nice one.

By default, if I see a WhatsApp status update of any girl that I might have a romantic affiliation with, my default mindset is that the status update is what she wants me to see.

Chances are, she manipulated the status so that me and other selective people can see it, to influence my impression about her. And if it happens that I caught her red handed that she is doing that, my trust for her just reduces.

You have to be smart when dealing with women. Since men carries the burden of relationship, it's your duty to understand women and their operation, or else, lifelong suffering awaits you.

pansophist:


By default, if I see a WhatsApp status update of any girl that I might have a romantic affiliation with, my default mindset is that the status update is what she wants me to see.

Chances are, she manipulated the status so that me and other selective people can see it, to influence my impression about her. And if it happens that I caught her red handed that she is doing that, my trust for her just reduces.

You have to be smart when dealing with women. Since men carries the burden of relationship, it's your duty to understand women and their operation, or else, lifelong suffering awaits you.

And what is your business with a lady’s WhatsApp status? Must you know everything?

You have still not answered my question. Which burden do men carry in a relationship? It's a collective effort nowadays, so what exactly is the burden?