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Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Pusyiter(m): 8:47pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
Bros Get sense Monkey dey sleep Yanga wan go wake am Stay away from her. My candid advice and forge ahead. To me, you have already fallen into her trap Had I know is waiting for you |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Bunny19: 8:48pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
oldienavie:Do you really need an advice or you just want to do what's on your mind. You keep countering every suggestion brought your way. Haba |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by ZINNYBANKS: 8:48pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
oldienavie:If the bolded is not enough reason for you to stay away from her,then I dont think you need any advise again . A youruba adage says The dog that would get lost won't listen to the hunters whistle. |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by concho(m): 8:49pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
Kemabassi:She successfully married a simp |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by reucom: 8:51pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
If you really and truly love your life yeah, make sure you do not set your eye's on that girl when you get to naija. At your age and exposure you should behave a lot better alright. My candid advice as an elder is this.... If you really do not want to destroy your life with your own very hands let this girl be and ask God to bless you with your own wife. I'm sure your mum and dad won't consent to this move either. Make sure to listen to your parents advice and you will be glad you did. God bless you son and make sure to make the Lord Jesus your best friend 😘 Cheer's 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Emdebby2: 8:55pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
Creating a problem for yourself and asking us for solution. Keep enjoying yourself... life is too short. |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by goody234: 8:56pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
Charge her to the streets ..and move on you are abroad now so you seem a bit more attractive to her now , be smart like the other guy and bounce |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Fahvvy: 9:00pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
SpyChild: Never say never my dear ... You never can tell for certainty if she will do it again ... |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by advanceDNA: 9:01pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
oldienavie: Guy.....no go and die untimely death ooo... U are saying a single mother looking for husband is only good for casual fvck to you but not for marriage.... and u are saying she knows this?? Be deciving yourself...she doesnt know anything... ..All she's waiting for is for u to come and marry her...if u come back and fvck her after 7 years of parting, thats consent u have started something new... ...this is not abroad... u dare straff naija babe...single mother for that matter.....u are already owing a ring and tranditional wedding .... |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Rinoxy: 9:04pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
oldienavie:Then I think the issue is you, the issue is lack of discipline. If you don't have a lady and you don't sleep with her, will you die?! You won't die. Like someone advised, what if you land Naija and the lady say no show for you, you fit go mental. So, make your decision man n be firm about it. |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Praiseamaris202: 9:07pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
Sincerely I wonder why some people dig up their grave themself, knowing fully well that you can't marry her then why playing on her emotion. Someone told you that she might eventually get rid of you, you asked why, you trust her 90%. I laugh in Spanish, playing with a woman emotion is the most dangerous thing to their gender, they can do and undo. You can't resist her unless you sleep with her, go ahead and forget about your life. Many people abroad thinks that coming back home to get a wife is good but Mark my word, it a great and most craziest thing a man can do to himself. Why can't you get a responsible person in your country of residence? Most of you are wayward and looking for a Saint in Nigeria, continue to deceive yourself. Village girls are loose that city girls nowadays. Sit back, analyze your life and restrategize. God help you in Jesus name. 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Bonjovi13: 9:09pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
oldienavie: Dude are you sure you are 30plus years? You want to be friends with benefits with your Nigerian Ex who I'm certain is over 30 plus with a child, and after sleeping with her leave her to marry another woman in this same Nigeria. A woman who is emotionally and physically attached to you!!! I laugh in Dutch.... I can bet you will star in the Nigerian blogspace soon. I can even imagine the headlines. Single mother kills Ex who dumped her to marry another woman.... Why are you naive enough to think this would end amicably. You are reasoning with you oenis. Dude I would advice you to define your relationship with this lady and keep it strictly platonic if you don't intend to marry her cos I can bet you she had planned her future with you in her head. Let us know how things play out if you intend to go ahead with this charade. 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by sslcrypt: 9:12pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
oldienavie: Go and sleep with her, why the heck are you disturbing us if you have already concluded? |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by olaeffect(m): 9:14pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
oldienavie: If you guys are close friends like you claim, then what is the problem you have about being straightforward with her? I once had a female friend that I told right from day one that I won't marry her, she practically raped me the first time we had sex. She was one of the ladies that ever loved me the most, but she was just not my spec, almost every physical attribute that I dislike in a woman is what she had😁 She broke up the relationship herself and has cut off all communication with me for the past 15yrs. But my mind is always at peace whenever I remember her, because I never lied to her for once. If this lady is truly your friend as you claim, make her know what's up, she is not a baby. |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by GogetterMD(m): 9:27pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
oldienavie:If your initial post suggested say you no be serious person, this post confirmed it. You don already plot roadmap for your head as you go take knack am, including the frequency. Na your selfishness dey push you to go back to a vulnerable single mum that has a past life as a serial cheat (cheated on you, cheated on baby daddy with ex which is you, yet you both have stamped that the latter is the devil). All the best on whatever decision you make sha, whatever is said here won't alter the course of what you already plan to do |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by GogetterMD(m): 9:30pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
oldienavie:And BTW, stop calling what you have for each other love. You are just infatuated by the physicality you shared in the past 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by akube34: 9:30pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
oldienavie:person cheat on u, u wan still marry am |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by IbileIfe: 9:32pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
oldienavie: If you truly love her, marry her. Don't take advantage of her. 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Tzar(m): 9:33pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
I sensed that too. I just wanted to make his SIMP head swell small. He sounded too Beta to be a high value truly How does any Alpha male stick with a serial cheating wh0re and still claim he loves her? I honestly feel very sad for him. Klass99: |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Gidigrav(m): 9:33pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
Imagine you don't know what you want bro move on and stop lmorality....not all women you sleep with and go score free...one minute enjoyment can ruin you if you like don't be wise it a choice but ne careful |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Memyselfu2009(m): 9:42pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
JUST WAIT UNTIL.SOMEONE ELSE PROPOSE TO.HER THEN YOU WOULD REALISE YOU HAVE LOST A WIFE oldienavie: 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Uniquekriss(m): 9:49pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
I can assure you that she might also be anticipating the knacking, on the other hand she may be having hopes that you're still in love with her and that you may wanna continue from where u stopped thereby wanting to trap you with pregnancy especially now that it appears you're financially capable (forget the fact that she can take care of herself, women money no dey belleful Dem until Dem add man own no matter how wealthy they're). Please sound it to her that you can't and will not have anything commitment with her, if u can avoid the knacking, good, if you can't, please go ahead and get it, after all she's ur ex and u wouldn't speak too much grammar to convince her and even if she declines, nothing spoil cos you've got nothing to lose, she might just be using you to pass time since there's no one in her life at the moment. I can promise u that if u marry her she'll cheat on you again and also, u may not have too much interest in her after marriage. Remember that if her former bf didn't treat her the way he did, she may not have fallen back or remained comfortable with u. U can easily disconnect from her after marriage since you're not here in 9ja. Take note, do not let her know anything about the girl you intend to/marry, also make sure the wife to be is better than her in bed and also more pretty so you do not have anything to fantasize about her. Knack as much as possible, pay her back for cheating. If you need recommendations for good wife material, u can reach out to me but make sure you won't abandon her and japa, trust me I be guy man, even if na my sister u end up marrying u fit still play your game cos life no get Parr 2 buh make sure you're not infected |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Taiwo20(m): 9:53pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
These days humans have become object to humans. But I sense say, them don get this one but e never happen finish |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Ikea81: 9:59pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
Women don't think like guys, their emotions are always in it.....they just don't knack forming BFF....I can swear she think she is the wife you are coming to marry..knacking her and marrying someone else will put her in another depressed state..Think. On another note, just curious, which Nigerian girl wey you wan find come wey her own history no pass this your single mother bestie?. You may end up with a retired pekas hoe! 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by macrodata(m): 10:02pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
oldienavie:You're a simp. No kind of advice will be useful for you. I know your type. It's sad to say it but its the truth. There's too much for you to learn. |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Skeduw20(m): 10:11pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
oldienavie: Initially I was about to convince u to consider her again but as a woman she might try wat she did wen u were her boyfriend again, apart from u taking that advice👆, it is dangerous to b around her and not married to her... Women can b desperate in situations like this. Ire ooo |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by PopsiAde: 10:11pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
The best thing you both can do is to marry each other since you claim you love her so much. But if you think otherwise, don't bang her again, to avoid stories that touch the heart. 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by dynigoche: 10:24pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
you made her lost her man before, Now its her turn, she may make you lost your woman and maybe your life systematically if you did not marry her or stay away from her. you may not know what you are dealing with. 8yrs apart is not 8 days ooo. she may be more exposed and very tricky now. YOU BETTER MARRY HER OR STAY AWAY, OR SHE MAY VISIT A SPIRITUAL TEMPLE FOR YOUR SAKE (my brother, FEAR WOMEN oooo but RESPECT and show them love)[/b][i][/i][color=#990000][/color] 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by NaBanga: 10:31pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
People are very emotionally volatile these days. You don't want to be the returnee that died bla bla blu. Just find someone else for knacking and keep your friendship. If you sleep with her and she later realizes it was during your seeking period, she might bring out recorded messages for your new fiance/wife. She might get pregnant to punish you. Avoid problems at all costs. |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Yayi229: 10:31pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
oldienavie: Better forget the past and marry her as soon as you get back Coming from abroad to 'find a wife' dude, I swear on everything I own, you won't find a better mate in naija at the moment. All of them are gonna be after your funds dude, let go of the past and marry the one who loves you for who you are! 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by TeeFriz: 10:36pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
Young blood, She cheated on you when you guys were together, then she cheated on her supposed fiancé. Bro don't even get into any entanglement with her. Read the lines.... She will always cheat. You think you are close cause you are always communicating Bro, distance is making it look like you both have a bond,wait till you are back and then get bored and look for who to cheat on you with. Secondly, FWB might not seem so bad till you get her pregnant. Then you'd realize that you shouldnt have gotten yourself messed up with her in the first place cause I can bet it with you that she will stall your desire of "FINDING A WIFE". Bro, you can communicate but keep her at arm's length for your own good. |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by odaniel1(m): 11:15pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
Enjoy her as your shagging partner. History will never let y'all build something serious. So keep up the fwb vibe whilst you scout your bride. Though i do not think you need one as a successful person you claim to be. Leave all that morality for monks brother |
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