Lovilla:
when did i come to nairaland?

I dont even like the site.

I only visits, once in a blue moon

You don't like the site yet you want advice on how to save your sister's marriage.
Odiegwu

Is like your own pain pass E own, you need handkerchief?
You wey don already lose out for life.
Drogba Dey your head? You talking in an insane manner

Wait
So you men too want to be taken care of,

ukaface:
but frown at it when women use that same word? I see

I dont know any man that doesnt want to take care of his woman, that statement is obviously one from a deprived woman who has never been loved by a man before PROBABLY BECAUSE OF ENVIRONMENT OR ASSOCIATION, I understand marriage is not compulsory for FEMINISTS so you can just look away from my posts.

My neighbor has left her home because of a maid ooooo
The husband practically built a house for the maid and the said maid has given the man 3 kids.

ukaface:

Oya na
No learn how to cook na, how is that my problem?
You think cooking will suddenly make your pr.eek disappear?
No matter your gender, you should learn how to cook. If you still think I’m coming from the point of feminism then replying you is a waste of time.

Lol, I know how to cook the little I can. But as a married man, my wife does the cooking and even frowns at me getting food outside whenever I dont eat at home. I threw many of your FEMINIST type into the bin when I was searching and thank God I married my wife. They ones that still get in touch among them still wished they learnt those skills early in life as many men are just using and dumping them because they cant keep up with cooking and taking care of the home. NA NIGERIA WE DEY, get married to your feminism if you cant take care of a man.

Good for her, she wasn't doing the right things at the write time, she might not even know how to cook now the husband has found a better option and she's complaining

Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?

I have told myself countless times, and am saying it again. No maid is allowed in my home. I am not a lazy person, so I will birth kids I can easily take care of with my husband. And also, I will manage my time well so my husband and the household doesn't suffer. That's how Hagar almost snatched Abraham, and created headache for Sarah.

What's there, weekends/Saturdays you and your husband can work as a team and do the major chores if you both work Mons-Fris. Sundays after church we have family bonding time. And prepare for the week again.

Why allow a maid cook for me, my husband and my children? If that's not foolishness what is it? If I want to do, I am married to a rich man, and all that crap, so I need a maid to show off, then my kitchen is not included.

And if for one reason or the other a maid is needed, then it will be strictly for the chores. She comes at a particular time, I will supervise her while she cleans, and she leaves once she's done. No live in maid!

It's better your husband gets, attached to a random lady you don't know outside, than a maid taking your place. That's disastrous!

Your sister is about to pay a price for maltreatining her husband, in Africa we hardly divorce, we just move on , she should count herself lucky, she's not yet been kicked out

mymadam:

The maid that's already in possession of oga's different contact details... phone nos, email, twitter, etc (madam may not even know most of them). Hmmm... the Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away... at will. 🤷🏽‍♂️

She should go to maintain of fire for deliverance.

Then you are about to erase your lineage.

If you don't respect your elders. It means you don't respect your culture, tradition and heritage.

femicyrus:

I no dey respect any elder

The house maid carry big yansh? If yes, then forget it and leave the house for them


Big yansh is life

Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?

cococandy:


I’m sure you’re a man

Welcome to the club
Used a certain Lady's picture on his profile.

Catchy women's topic to attract unguided and gullible men.
Wish them luck.

7upnigeria:


Lol, I know how to cook the little I can. But as a married man, my wife does the cooking and even frowns at me getting food outside whenever I dont eat at home. I threw many of your FEMINIST type into the bin when I was searching and thank God I married my wife. They ones that still get in touch among them still wished they learnt those skills early in life as many men are just using and dumping them because they cant keep up with cooking and taking care of the home. NA NIGERIA WE DEY, get married to your feminism if you cant take care of a man.

Why the explanation?

caandi:
what of osinachi that’s the husband killed
Was she not a submissive wife??
What of yuls wife?? Cos yul was always praising her on Sm, so went wrong
Omo gbabe o, Nkan be
A man that wants to be kept would be kept lobatane

This is how to spell "Candy"

luminouz:

MURDERESS!!!

Na so some of them be....chai....imagine if this one dey vex for you as husband. You no go gree sleep sef!

mauchiz:

She should go to maintain of fire for deliverance.

😂

Lovilla:
trash..

if i am to be in my sister's shoe, i would ve poisoned that girl on a lowkey.

I don screenshot am for future evidence, so I'm waiting for headline news of a dead maid

JustcallmeFavou:


I have told myself countless times, and am saying it again. No maid is allowed in my home. I am not a lazy person, so I will birth kids I can easily take care of with my husband. And also, I will manage my time well so my husband and the household doesn't suffer. That's how Hagar almost snatched Abraham, and created headache for Sarah.

you sure say u dey read this your bible well

descarado:

Welcome to the club
Used a certain Lady's picture on his profile.

Catchy women's topic to attract unguided and gullible men.
Wish them luck.

It’s so obvious. Like what lady creates these types of threads?

Why are you keeping in touch with them after marrying your perfect wife?

7upnigeria:


Lol, I know how to cook the little I can. But as a married man, my wife does the cooking and even frowns at me getting food outside whenever I dont eat at home. I threw many of your FEMINIST type into the bin when I was searching and thank God I married my wife. They ones that still get in touch among them still wished they learnt those skills early in life as many men are just using and dumping them because they cant keep up with cooking and taking care of the home. NA NIGERIA WE DEY, get married to your feminism if you cant take care of a man.

FIZZBEE:
you sure say u dey read this your bible well

Which part I no read well? Na Sarah use her hand cause wahala for herself. If she has waited on the lord will Hagar almost take over Abraham? And start being disrespectful to Sarah l? I Sabi my Bible well, the Holy Spirit gives me understanding.

Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?

Honestly , you need to assist her , uproot the house help from that house. Is your sister the last born in your family ?

adewumiopeyemi:
Your married sister or you

Go to the point so that people can advice you in the comment section


This is not a. Matter of shame again

You try.

Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?

TELL YOURSELF TO LEARN RESPECT FOR MAN FROM THE HOUSE MAID. THE HOUSE MADE HAS A LEVEL OF LOYALTY AND RESPECT FOR THE MAN THAN THE WIFE. RESPECT A MAN TRULY AND SEE HIM FOLLOW YOUR BID LIKE MUMU

Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?

Face her husband who is obviously lashing the housegirl.

Wait for him to go out call the local agberos and collect the girls phone give her the serious woto of her life and tell the agberos to escort her to motor park. If she comes back whatever she meets is her destiny.

Then those same agberos should meet the husband and hold discussions since he does not have sense. If he has done it once he can do it again. He is the problem

Some women have mastered the act of pretending , am sure her sister is not telling her the truth i can bet on it, some men go through alot and they are to ashamed to say it out .

Justbehave:
She never wan talk true or you are just lieing.

MorningStar233:


How did you come to all these conclusions? Why do you men here on NL talk so badly about women? It will be nice if you channel this your energy into blogging, you might make good money from your fellow haters of women. Thank you

Fellow haters..??
Talk badly?? But u ddnt see i waa supporting the maid....abi u seff no sabi cook..??
Lol...
.which conclusion??....oga life is not hard ooo....u will just burst your blood vessel over petty jokes on nairaland if u keep taking things too seriously....

Anyway ..truth is hard to swallow....my own is nothing should happen to that poor maid cos pple like u wont see the hate the sister is spilling saying she would have killed the girl of its was her ....its my own joke u are calling hate

When u are done.....carry you victim playing card out of my mention...

Lol reminds me of a post I made on social media and how many modern women said cooking is a form of slavery and they won't cook for their husbands, our African women like to embrace rubbish and when it back fires they find a way to twist the narrative to their favor, I have been in situations where I ended a promising relationship just for the simple fact they can't cook, eating out is cool and could be convenient atimes but there's a special type of bond, connection, respect, admiration when you eat your wife food.
I'm telling you, the number of single women we will have in our hands ehn. Ladies it's not too late to put away that rubbish mindset.

Lovilla:
give your opinion Mr Man

It doesnt matter if its me or my sister.

I know say na you all along

Anyway, no shame in having challenges. We are here to proffer solution to them. Like I said earlier, just treat her the way Sarah treated Haggar

Divoc19:
Then you are about to erase your lineage.

If you don't respect your elders. It means you don't respect your culture, tradition and heritage.

All your concerns are only celebrated in Africa yet your backwardness is legendary.

Murderers, ritualist, corruption are all covered up in respect for elders in Nigeria especially

Tell her to do 7 days midnight prayers with the house girl’s name, let there be a divine separation between the house girl and her husband, after that chase the girl away. Better act fast, make her case no come be like that nollywood actor own

JustcallmeFavou:




It's better your husband gets, attached to a random lady you don't know outside, than a maid taking your place. That's disastrous!

Haba madam....maid na somebody daughter too ooooo...its just a job

idonhammer:
The house maid carry big yansh? If yes, then forget it and leave the house for them


Big yansh is life

you are a comedian