SyrusdeHansome:
One of the reasons i'm afraid of getting married. Most girls are shameless. They can sleep with a dog just 4 money. Imagine one married girl in my area with 3 children still doing hookup. She wakes up every morning, take her bath, put on her clothes nd rush out to sleep with men 4 money nd the stupid husband is the one doing all the house chores.

Righteousness2:


That evil , fornication, adultery, that you think is secret and coded, is an open sepulchre before GOD ALMIGHTY.
You will give account of it. It will be replayed to you

Jejely behave yourself, an end your ways, confess your sins and Surrender to the Lordship of JESUS Christ.

Reminderz:
this is not new... and it will still happen again and again...

I pity men marrying non-virgins, and still doesn't have the funds to carry out DNA tests... their heartbreak experience will be so heartbreaking... that husband will be somewhere telling people how "lucky" he is to meet his olosho.. smh

batb:

Once Righteousness2 hear anything sex in any topic on Nairaland, his di*k go rise and he will start quoting scriptures!
If you want to know a deprave and an addict, look at their interest!

Magnoliaa:
You men can be funny sometimes sha.

There are some cultures around the world where it is perfectly normal for wives to be provided as 'entertainment' to guests. So many of such stories have been shared here (I remember one particular account by MrBrownJay), and when you guys hear such, you're always so greatly excited.

You always fantasise about going to communities where this is in practice, so you can be offered a man's wife and engage in a threèsome.


But the moment you're presented with alternative cultures which are slightly less patriarchal than others, where it is the wife-to-be who gets to have one last sex, or some form of apparent advantage over the man, you will flare up.

You should know where to draw the line between your cultural ideals which run counter to Christianity principles.

You cannot celebrate and cheer at myriad sexual and cultural practices in the world (child marriage, for example) but want to draw the line at and insist on feminine 'dignity' and purity in the same cultures.

It is Christianity that places the biggest emphasis on virginity, for both one man and one woman.

But you people will want to be treated like traditional Lords by a Christian woman.

So stop cherry-picking which "weird" cultural practices to acclaim or condemn as you wish.


NB: Nowhere in the above post have I said I agree to any of such cultural practices.

popcykaylah:
Some women will do anything for money ..

MNDY:
Nobody is cherrypicking anything. The fact that the guy is running around to put things in order to spend heavily on her should make her conscience prick her for her to not hurt him deeply like that.

It's simple logic. If someone is working hard to do something for you, you are expected to not provoke them. And before you come up with any lame defense line that he is doing it all for himself too, he is meeting her needs.

Your other situations you cited can even be acceptable to the women involved that you would be wrongly thinking are victims. But this here is a clear case of wickedness, like throwing your driver under the bus.

worldclass68:
Nah so God saved me from one coded olosho wey sabi cry to manipulate.....
Any small thing nah cry cry up and down threatening to kill herself and even trying sef if not for quick intervention of docs.

Las las....all nah wash,confirmed public hole



The wey my heart is cold toward girls hen......
If I see girl for 3rd mainland bridge wey won commit suicide...I could help by pushing her if she dey fear small to jump sef....


Nah joke o

Eriokanmi:
Hmmm. My already married exes still disturb me till date. I only ignore their calls after knowing their intentions. I assist when i feel like and with no strings attached...whenever i notice it's getting to...I missed you a lot, I wish I married you instead, why are you sounding so romantic on phone (as if my voice has changed), then I know it's time to end the call. If she calls again, I ignore. Not because I'm being rude or arrogant. It's because what's not good doesn't have another name. The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom.

Hassanmaye:

How do you know is a public hole? Have you done it

ifinger:
The husband is impotent as such he sent the wife to go on that mission cos after marriage Na pikin remain

Truth is e de happen even the married once still de Fok available gbola
Just like my secretary wey don marry with 2kid I still de Bleep am anytime I like
Even press free bobi for office

Farfalla:
Married boyfriend must exercise his polygamous by nature rights nau.

MasterJayJay:
And my kids will not suck breasts that other men who didn't pay their mom's bride price sucked.

Magnoliaa:
You men can be funny sometimes sha.

There are some cultures around the world where it is perfectly normal for wives to be provided as 'entertainment' to guests. So many of such stories have been shared here (I remember one particular account by MrBrownJay), and when you guys hear such, you're always so greatly excited.

You always fantasise about going to communities where this is in practice, so you can be offered a man's wife and engage in a threèsome.


But the moment you're presented with alternative cultures which are slightly less patriarchal than others, where it is the wife-to-be who gets to have one last sex, or some form of apparent advantage over the man, you will flare up.

You should know where to draw the line between your cultural ideals which run counter to Christianity principles.

You cannot celebrate and cheer at myriad sexual and cultural practices in the world (child marriage, for example) but want to draw the line at and insist on feminine 'dignity' and purity in the same cultures.

It is Christianity that places the biggest emphasis on virginity, for both one man and one woman.

But you people will want to be treated like traditional Lords by a Christian woman.

So stop cherry-picking which "weird" cultural practices to acclaim or condemn as you wish.


NB: Nowhere in the above post have I said I agree to any of such cultural practices.

THMT:
I became neutral in after travelling out of Nigeria and meeting people from different parts of the world. Have a friend of mine from North Africa and his devoted wife is his cousin.
His mother and her younger sister (His Aunt) are grannies to his kids.
That's not just a sin but a taboo where I come from but not a big deal in NorthAfrica.

The only wrong I see here is the secrecy. What ever you secretly do behind your partner is wrong be it good or bad.

I just feel there was a Universal law governing humans and animals but some people deviated thinking they're smarter and must now impose their woke mentality on others.

We must learn to live and let live because change must be constant in our world either by choice or force.

Magnoliaa:
You men can be funny sometimes sha.

There are some cultures around the world where it is perfectly normal for wives to be provided as 'entertainment' to guests. So many of such stories have been shared here (I remember one particular account by MrBrownJay), and when you guys hear such, you're always so greatly excited.

You always fantasise about going to communities where this is in practice, so you can be offered a man's wife and engage in a threèsome.


But the moment you're presented with alternative cultures which are slightly less patriarchal than others, where it is the wife-to-be who gets to have one last sex, or some form of apparent advantage over the man, you will flare up.

You should know where to draw the line between your cultural ideals which run counter to Christianity principles.

You cannot celebrate and cheer at myriad sexual and cultural practices in the world (child marriage, for example) but want to draw the line at and insist on feminine 'dignity' and purity in the same cultures.

It is Christianity that places the biggest emphasis on virginity, for both one man and one woman.

But you people will want to be treated like traditional Lords by a Christian woman.

So stop cherry-picking which "weird" cultural practices to acclaim or condemn as you wish.


NB: Nowhere in the above post have I said I agree to any of such cultural practices.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Weird world. Men are responsible for the irresponsibility of some women

chymdyx:
to be fair.. this is so because the woman is expecting a traditional man..
who'll pay her 'bride price' (which is a stupid culture in my opinion, considering how little value for money the man is getting in return)
provide for her and the kids, slave to pay bills, protect her and the kids, etc.
so she cannot want a traditional man, and act untraditionally!
If the man doesn't do all the above listed, he is labelled useless...
so understand when the men feel certain entitlement..
if a woman pays ur bills.. trust me, she gone kick ur ass out at even the slightest rumor of infidelity.. except u charm her (with juju)!

IyaebeTheGreat:
True, some men will give anything to sleep with some women

PussyGalore:


Nawaooo...fear men

Magnoliaa:


If it doesn't apply to you, then ignore it, yes? Nobody? Because you're all the demography of men all time at the same time?

What I know for certain is that if this was a man's travelling experience about being offered someone's wife as a 'refreshment', the commented in here would have been different.

And theses of justification on the basis of culture would have filled here.

And the scenario here is one I strongly believe to be cultural.

Which guy is running around to put things in order? Where?



You're simply adding your own parts to the story that was shared, at this point, 'cause I can't see where you're getting all of the 'she's provoking him and he's providing for her' from.

But tell me, the culture that gives a man free rein to marry two women as the same time is not hurting the women in question?



So who exactly told you that the man in question here in a victim?

For the very fact that HIS OWN SISTER was aware and followed her to where she went to collect one last knacking is not a strong indicator of the situation being generally agreeable? 🤣🤣


In cultures where men are EXPECTED to raise "bastard children" from their wives' affairs too, do you think think those men are victims as well, or they may be accepting of such?


I am not arguing for the good or bad of anything here on an individual cases. Morality differs from culture to culture, and I want to think I was clear enough with my first comment.

Men should quit with the hypocrisy of upholding cultures that gives them some 'benefit', but turn around to frown on those in 'favour' of the women.

MNDY:
There is culture and there is wickedness. One is acceptable, the other is not. Bye.

Magnoliaa:


All of you guys are just saying things that has nothing to do with my point. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

My main point. My only point.


Cultures are not 'equal'. Male guests sleep with wives in some. Women are allowed a free last sex on their wedding's eve in some. That is their NORMAL.

I am not talking about nothing else...


You cannot cheer one and condemn another, as guys have evidently been found to do. And those are the people I am speaking to.

They cannot justify every other male-centric traditions on the altar of cultures being dynamic, but want to scream blue murder where they now see a gynocentric culture.

Again, I am not speaking to the "goodness" or "badness" of these practices nor am I concerned with whatever personal morals you operate by.

chymdyx:
.. if the prevailing culture in her area permitted it.. i won't be talking!

it doesn't!!

Magnoliaa:


How do you know that? Are you in the narration? Do you know where it took place?

chymdyx:
you really think if it was permitted, the writer would have been shocked??
that he is shocked means it's an anomaly! its not normal!

ccollins:
I remember and sight u 190. Correct guy how far . It’s been longs times man. How is ur gf then abi wife now. U have been absent from nairaland in like eon years and even the legendary rokiatu on nairaland, don’t tell me it was Seun that pursue u sane nairalanders away from here. It’s only tribal bigots ,touts, criminals and hoodlums we see here on nairaland tl.even the quality messages here has declined since most of you nairaland diaspora guys decided to quit nairaland. I miss u guys tho. How’s life and are u in Nigeria

WOW seems you know me so well

Life's been good. Thankfully, we all grown now and nah seun aint got nothing on me

Lets just say i grew out of this site, more life priorities.

Na jobless people full this place

And no im not based in nigeria anymore, im not even nigerian anymore

Haveyoueatentod:
stop watching porn🤣🤣🤣