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Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by Pharoh: 7:46pm On Sep 23, 2011 |
dfav: Gbam . . .God bless you sir . . . Case closed and thread locked . . . Moderators please take note. quod erat demonstrandum |
Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by Cuddlemii: 8:14pm On Sep 23, 2011 |
Pharoh: Dis guy, u keep coming back to gbam! U go stingy in real life o. Take am easy na. |
Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by Nobody: 11:15pm On Sep 23, 2011 |
Quote from: rokiatu on Today at 03:10:45 AM Are you blind by any chance or you just didn't take the time to read what I wrote? Undecided @Rokiatu: Are you trying to form an NGO that encourages Guys to start spending more money on their Girlfriends? Seriously if you are in a relationship that you are enjoying, you would not bother yourself with this! Why are u so annoyed that Nigerian Guys do not want to spend money on Girls? there are millions of guys that would foolishly spend money on the girls they are dating, Look @ those types of Guys in other to calm ur storm!!! |
Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by WebSurfer(m): 11:31pm On Sep 23, 2011 |
everything is wrong |
Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by Pharoh: 7:20am On Sep 25, 2011 |
Cuddlemii: Lol . . . just trying to be straight here and stop beating around the bush, because that is nothing but the truth though there are certainly exceptions to that rule. On the issue of being stingy . . . i think i am actually not but life is full of lessons, experiences and exposure. I have had a fair share of mine and i believe it is best to spend your money wisely, for the right reasons and motives. I believe you do also and certainly that should be a standard for every adult irrespective of their gender, culture or location. |
Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by Cuddlemii: 7:28am On Sep 25, 2011 |
Pharoh: Ok you know I have said it to you before & I will say it again. Its like you don't believe in love or you have been heartbroken because you always counter romance issues a lot. Always looking for the negatives & not the positive side. Obviously money is to be spent wisely but I believe in romantic spending like dinner, roses and the whole works so other spendings is to others pocket. Nothing wrong with some TLC that needs funds to facilitate even a picnic or horse riding. You need to take it easy & let go . |
Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by Pharoh: 8:30am On Sep 25, 2011 |
Cuddlemii: With this reply, probably we are slightly on a different tangent or you have misunderstood me a little bit. First just raised my regard for you a notch up that you could still remember me and what you told me the other time. Anyway on to your reply, been and out of that thing so i believe but probably we have a different definition or interpretation. I am not against those type of spending you just listed because it is definitely what i Now my gross is this whole issue of it is her birthright, my duty as the guy, not an option to make a choice else this whole thing is not going to work. I have been in an environment where a lady wants to make her hair, do her shopping, load some credit on her phone, she walks unto a counter and do it herself with her money. Now take one of my experience in which someone told me that those things are my duties and to the extent of saying you should be paying at least 10k into her account every month for her care? That is what i am against, i know my duties and obligations to my family, wife and kids but a gf is definitely a different issue. Paying for movies, romantic dinner or showing some TLC is never out of place but someone should not take it as a duty from me and they should also do unto others what they want others to do for them. It is becoming a one way street in the Nigerian context, always want to receive without contributing or giving back to the relationship all because i am the . . . . . . . girl friend. Hope ya weekend has been good and you are preparing for todays service. |
Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by Cuddlemii: 1:08pm On Sep 25, 2011 |
Pharoh: See I was right, doctor cuddles. You must have gone through a lot. Just do whatever makes you comfortable & happy but please don't rule out the romantic side even if it would require u spending. A little igniting of the passion rekindles the senses & makes you smile. How is expensive is the romantics anyways? Its the cheapest spending ever . Service was great, less dancing though probably everyone was starring at the door for any boko haram suspicious guy or guys. So we were all jittery |
Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by MIrhABi: 7:52pm On Sep 25, 2011 |
I keep telling people women have gotten it all wrong in this age. |
Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by Rocktation(f): 8:00pm On Sep 25, 2011 |
Only scrubs actually complain about spending on their women. . .most of †ђξ time. |
Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by Nobody: 10:58pm On Sep 25, 2011 |
Yeah sure. Just how only ashawos actually expect to be paid in cash (or material equivalent) in exchange for |
Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by agitator: 8:44am On Sep 26, 2011 |
pro01: guy you bad oh No mind all these ashawos dem wey the hide under friendship to transact their biz codedly. Even university babes too dey hide under "RUNS" dey do first class ashawo biz. Then when dem want to settle down, the ashawo dem just dey equate the guys dem dey with the thick senators wey dey thief thief public money. |
Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by buJu234: 12:05pm On Sep 26, 2011 |
i feel these will change if the 21st century Nigerian girl/lady decide to go back to how our parents where doing this relationship thing, there was nothing like money involved or sex b4 marriage involved, JUST TRUE & PURE LOVE, The same for the guys too |
Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by agitator: 12:59pm On Sep 26, 2011 |
Rocktation: Simply tell them how much for a round and see if men will not line-up for your punny |
Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by Amadja: 11:06am On Oct 08, 2012 |
Nothing is wrong ! Its all depend on individual rokiatu: First and formost, all you id!!its that will come running your dirty mouth on here should know that I am the kind that believe in working for my own money. I am the independent type. I buy my own stuff. But I absolutely hate stingy men. Nothing wrong in spending and buying gifts for your woman now and then. And a woman can do the same also nothing wrong with it. I know many women out there who spend on their men with no complain, but as soon as a guy start spending a bit of money on a woman, he starts getting suspicious "oh she's a gold digger" She's only after me for my money" blah blah blah, . . |
Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by queene(f): 3:10pm On Oct 08, 2012 |
[b][/b][color=#000099][/color] coogar:[b][quote author=coogar] me i like the idea of u spending lavishly on women, abeg na my own list be dis; 1) ipad 3 2) iphone 5 3) BB Porsche 3) i fit manage ferrari 4) A mansion in banana island 5) small change to hold body.(1M USD is manageable) make i stop here for now before people will think i'm materialistic. abeg which time make i dey expect them all. |
Re: So What Is Wrong With Spending Money On A Woman? by Nobody: 3:58pm On Oct 08, 2012 |
Mr..Cork:pastor, na dsame ppl! |
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