Some girls get mind sha.
I have to bring this issue here because I need to hear more people opinion.
We having been dating for three years now and our relationship is basically a long distance as we are not even close but we communicate more.
As the first son she knew that I always carry my family matter for head, and I always make sure that I do my best for my family financially but the issue is that she is always comparing my spending on my family and the little I was able to do for her.
This year after purchasing a bus for my brother for transportation and informed her about it and honestly from her response I know that she is not happy.
By April ending this year she demanded that she need 50k because she wanted to travel and meet her family at Lagos and I told that I will give her the money next month been this May but something comes up and I was unable to fulfill the promise.
Ever since than I have received all kind of words from her.
In her words. “ if it’s your family you will have rush and send the money to them”
So last night she made a suggestion that if I don’t want her to be disturbing me about anything that I should place her on weekly salary.
Note: the girl in question is working for her sister’s husband and she is getting paid but because I have already made it known to her family that we are getting married she now assumes that I’m her responsibility and this worries me so much.
I’m honestly thinking of ending everything right now and I hope that I’m doing the right thing

you shouldn't end it.
Place her on a salary. She deserves it. 🤡 🤡 🤡 🤡

long distance, 3 year old relationship. 🤡 🤡

Olasyke:
Nah, you shouldn't end it.
Place her on a salary. She deserves it. 🤡 🤡 🤡 🤡

long distance, 3 year old relationship. 🤡 🤡

you last comment confused me honestly. Please give a brother a honest advice

Ikpeabujo:

I’m honestly thinking of ending everything right now and I hope that I’m doing the right thing

Ditch that babe fast...
That one no be wife oooo
Na enemy of ur life be that

advanceDNA:


Ditch that babe fast...
That one no be wife oooo
Na enemy of ur life be that

thanks

Don't marry her, she is already having entitlement mentality. Marrying her going scatter your family

Ikpeabujo:
Some girls get mind sha.
I have to bring this issue here because I need to hear more people opinion.
We having been dating for three years now and our relationship is basically a long distance as we are not even close but we communicate more.
As the first son she knew that I always carry my family matter for head, and I always make sure that I do my best for my family financially but the issue is that she is always comparing my spending on my family and the little I was able to do for her.
This year after purchasing a bus for my brother for transportation and informed her about it and honestly from her response I know that she is not happy.
By April ending this year she demanded that she need 50k because she wanted to travel and meet her family at Lagos and I told that I will give her the money next month been this May but something comes up and I was unable to fulfill the promise.
Ever since than I have received all kind of words from her.
In her words. “ if it’s your family you will have rush and send the money to them”
So last night she made a suggestion that if I don’t want her to be disturbing me about anything that I should place her on weekly salary.
Note: the girl in question is working for her sister’s husband and she is getting paid but because I have already made it known to her family that we are getting married she now assumes that I’m her responsibility and this worries me so much.
I’m honestly thinking of ending everything right now and I hope that I’m doing the right thing

Ikpeabujo:
you last comment confused me honestly. Please give a brother a honest advice

Put her out in the middle of the night.
That's what she deserves.

Consider yourself a dead man if you continue with dat relationship

faith2kool:
Don't marry her, she is already having entitlement mentality. Marrying her going scatter your family

seriously this worries me so much

3years long distance relationship ke?

Are you sure you are not dating Yourself?

She so much like you, till the point of wanting to be placed on Salary abi?

Continue ooo, very soon she will be on daily wages.

Dangrace01:
Consider yourself a dead man if you continue with dat relationship

blood of Jesus.

Instead of placing that girl on a weekly salary,u had better place ur mum and dad on a special weekly salary.

Guy,if u do this for ur parents,u will see how their blessing over u would increase but if for this soakway digger,it would amount to a waste.

Don't start what u can't finish honestly.

Any woman that hears what u do for ur family members and gets angry over it just because she wants u prioritise her over others,then u need to be very careful,because u might be digging ur own grave.

Young man,don’t tell her you don’t have money,tell her you can’t place her on salary , watch her response and leave that entitled girl and go look for wife material to marry even though they are scarce…
Believe me if you marry that girl,you will have problems with your family……

And I can wholeheartedly tell you she has another boyfriend in her place of residence,since you guys are in long distance relationship….

Nice2023:
Instead of placing that girl on a weekly salary,u had better place ur mum and dad on a special weekly salary.

Guy,if u do this for ur parents,u will see how their blessing over u would increase but if for this soakway digger,it would amount to a waste.

Don't start what u can't finish honestly.

Any woman that hears what u do for ur family members and gets angry over it just because she wants u prioritise over others,then u need to be very careful.

it’s really pains me and to be honest with you brother, I have really invested so much in this girl

Ikpeabujo:
you last comment confused me honestly. Please give a brother a honest advice

I gats mention u the second time....

Ditch that babe very fast... i beg you....No be only entitlement mentality be the issue ooo....na witchcraft u dey date sooo...

But I know say ur pricķ no go gree make u break up....

Ikpeabujo:
it’s really pains me and to be honest with you brother, I have really invested so much in this girl

Don't invest in any woman u have not married.

Young men often do this silly mistakes.

Ikpeabujo:
it’s really pains me and to be honest with you brother, I have really invested so much in this girl

Baba..forget investment.... parole with that babe na broken arrow....

advanceDNA:


I gats mention u the second time....

Ditch that babe very fast... i beg you....No be only entitlement mentality be the issue ooo....na witchcraft u dey date sooo...

But I know say ur pricķ no go gree make u break up....

thanks brother

Wahala wahala wahala everywhere discharged that Ashi no time to waste

Long distance relationship😂😂😂😂😂😂

If i tell u Now 😂😂😂

Waffarianman:
Wahala wahala wahala everywhere discharged that Ashi no time to waste

Already done that

Flora2Sweet:
Long distance relationship😂😂😂😂😂😂

If i tell u Now 😂😂😂

please don’t add more pains to it

Pls don't place her on any salary anything...

She's wicked for suggesting that...

Ikpeabujo:
please don’t add more pains to it

Flora2Sweet:
Long distance relationship😂😂😂😂😂😂

If i tell u Now 😂😂😂

Another nigga is offing pant...baba dey pay salary

viceddy95:
Young man,don’t tell her you don’t have money,tell her you can’t place her on salary , watch her response and leave that entitled girl and go look for wife material to marry even though they are scarce…
Believe me if you marry that girl,you will have problems with your family……

And I can wholeheartedly tell you she has another boyfriend in her place of residence,since you guys are in long distance relationship….

you are spiritual man. She vent all out all the abusive words in her mouth when I told her that I’m not mad to place her on salary

advanceDNA:



Another nigga is offing pant...baba dey pay salary

I know people like you will add more pains to the injury

Ikpeabujo:
I know people like you will add more pains to the injury

No vex.....we dey try clear you....

For ur own sanity and peace. Forget about that girl, i won't say more than this..

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Dump that bitch.

I think your mouth too has put you in that position , must you tell her all your financial obligations ??
Marriage with that babe go just turn you ur once peaceful family to Russia / Ukraine.

RUN OO

Kasdat5:
I think your mouth too has put you in that position , must you tell her all your financial obligations ??
Marriage with that babe go just turn you ur once peaceful family to Russia / Ukraine.

honestly i wished someone clear me on that earlier