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Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Savechild23: 3:29pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman: I am planning of building a house so that I bring my mother in law to come and live with us 3 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by GoodCane: 3:30pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman: Dude, you did absolutely well, else that woman would have used her daughter to control you and your home. It's a good thing you placed where she belongs. Don't apologise for anything. You did nothing wrong!!! 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Sholaco: 3:31pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman:you are such a useless and uncultured swine 5 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by SmartyPants(m): 3:32pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Would you give your child out to someone you can't trust? Once you've made the decision to give your child out, you can't project your insecurities on their marriage. That fear is fo you to deal with on your own. 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by vikstandon(m): 3:33pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Everyday check up! Is the daughter a baby. Or she no trust the man wey em give the daughter to. Make Parents dey behave! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by GoodCane: 3:33pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman: Dude, the redpillers are behind you. You did absolutely well. Leave that mumu man yarning dust. When he marries, he should allow his mother in law to come and visit her daughter frequently, even when they're relaxing and about to knack, she should comma and see her. We have too many pussy ass Simp men on nairaland nowadays 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ednut1(m): 3:33pm On May 18, 2023 |
harsh |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Jokkarm2: 3:34pm On May 18, 2023 |
My Dear Elder brother, you have a point but the approach was not a good one considering that this is your in-law and also part of you. you should have allowed your wife to handle it in a more diplomatic way. find a away and correct it so that it wont grow grudges. 3 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by SonofGod231: 3:35pm On May 18, 2023 |
That was harsh ohh,like she comes empty handed coz if she does come with goodies and enough food stuffs you won't try this thing. 3 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by fitinwell: 3:35pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman: Where you beep up is asking for the public opinion about your family matter in which you have handle like a Man 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by GoodCane: 3:36pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Stop yarning dust. When you marry allow your mother in law to always come and see her daughter 24hr. U no know Say things like this dey bring see finish? Didn't the OP paid her daughter's bride price? Why disturbing his peace with constant irrelevant visit? All these mu.mu on nairaland 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by victorVIC1(m): 3:36pm On May 18, 2023 |
This is just so harsh. I'm not sure you would use similar words on your mum 4 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Jokkarm2: 3:36pm On May 18, 2023 |
G00DHardDick: Bro, the approach is the problem. 4 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by mariannamarsh: 3:37pm On May 18, 2023 |
you did very wrong she is older than you , you must respect her and one day you will become old too go find her and apology to her https://www.koydenhaber.com 3 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:37pm On May 18, 2023 |
Rayban25: SmartyPants: PROPEACE: Workch: Workch: pek: Marliz: Ingocof: 234GT: i trust him to be my daughter's chosen one, i wont trust him to be a good husband (SIL) until they start living together and he becomes a responsible husband. just because they got married, does NOT mean this man is a good husband, a good father or a caring man. this will have to be confirmed as they start living together. many people get married to people they never knew before. you only meet your true spouse AFTER marriage, not before. but hey, if you think that ABUSIVE HUSBAND is written on people's forehead then so many unfortunate people wouldnt have died at the hands of their abusive husband/wives. lets be real! vikstandon: linearity: hisgrace090: Workch: as i said earlier.... as much as it is a bit excessive you need to open your mind.... so mama that lives close by shouldnt come and spend the day with daughter that is home alone all day (and go to market together etc)? the same mama that will probably come and stay with you for months when you guys have your 1st children (in order to show you how to properly care for a newborn) na that mama you want to look down upon today?! 5 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by BeardedmeatR(m): 3:38pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman:The only thing you did wrong was your harsh approach and tone. Your mother in law is also your mother for crissakes. It means you have no regard for your wife and the family you married from. 8 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Benjaniblinks(m): 3:38pm On May 18, 2023 |
Omor.. bros you no try fa.... 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by emekajacobogbon(m): 3:38pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman:Not at all, women in general like behaving like children and will respect you more when you handle them as a man. Use same technique on your wife if she offends you many times on a particular issue. You will see the immediate change of attitude. You don't need to be romantic in their sense of it every time |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by BeardedmeatR(m): 3:39pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman:You sound like you wanted to bleep your mother in law but don't know how to tell her. 3 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by GodPrince: 3:40pm On May 18, 2023 |
Jovialjune1:shut up bitch, the wife can't do that to the mother because the wife didn't marry the man and bring him to her house rather reverse is the case so the wife has no say. Only the man decides who is allowed in his house. Nigeria girls una smelly Toto don smell enter una brain and affect una thinking fa? |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Zane2point4(m): 3:40pm On May 18, 2023 |
Hhansome: Isnt it what they advice here in nairaland and call it been a redpiller? Inlaws are people you will relate with for the rest of your life,what he could have done is to tell her daughter to inform the woman that hubby is complaining simple,or sit her down to politely tell her,he was too harsh and rude! 5 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by GoodCane: 3:40pm On May 18, 2023 |
Jokkarm2: Dude, how on earth did you expected him to approach her? So he should kneel down, cry and beg her to stop visiting them unnecessarily? I don't get it. Dude , He did what has to be done by simply asking her to stay where she was married to. Her visits are irrelevant and she should stop disturbing the op's home. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by linearity: 3:41pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: I don’t think the OP is against the mother Inlaw checking on her daughter….but haba! to be coming there everyday or every other day is beyond checking. If I have a friend that is coming to my house to check on me everyday I would tell them to back off as well. She should allow them to have and grow a family together, her daughter need that space to be her own independent woman. She need the environment to exhibit her own style of womanhood, motherhood and wife without looking over her shoulders expecting correction, dissatisfaction or rebuke from over protective mommy. At some point in life parent need to give their kids space to grow, learn and become adults…Yes, there will be mistakes, those too are part of the leaning and growing experience. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by nunnu: 3:41pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: The word there is "too much". |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Solofresh2: 3:41pm On May 18, 2023 |
There is nothing to hide except you have a skeleton in your cupboard. Your wife's mother visiting shouldn't not stop you from doing what you have to do,even if you want knack your wife in her presence. As long as she is not disturbing you from doing anything in your home, I don't see any big deal in her coming frequently 5 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by udemzyudex(m): 3:41pm On May 18, 2023 |
zeuss: What would she do? Tell her daughter to divorce him? She should stay at her house shikina. |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Enimoney3: 3:42pm On May 18, 2023 |
You have invited asunder into your marriage. Yoruba says, A bad wife is actually good but bad inlaw is extremely dangerous. 7 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by PROPEACE: 3:42pm On May 18, 2023 |
zeuss:thesilentman is right. That mother in law is ill-mannered. Some people, I often wonder what kind of society they grew up in. What the fuçk are you always doing in your daughter's matrimonial home? If you are lonely, make some fuçking friends! |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Nobody: 3:43pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: What are you even saying? @bolded? If they didnt trust the man why did they give him their daughter to marry? A mother in law coming to your house every 3 eke Market days is invasion of privacy..it is my house..that you're her mother dosent mean you should be coming anyhow to my teritorry |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by BeardedmeatR(m): 3:43pm On May 18, 2023 |
superCleanworks:The message was good. But the delivery was poor. See, this is a family matter. They are all dependant on one another. You will always need each other somehow someday. Op or his wife could suffer a mishap tomorrow (not praying for this?) and will need his family members. For him to be so rude to the woman shows how he regards his own mum and wife. 8 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Nobody: 3:43pm On May 18, 2023 |
GodPrince: Fixed. 5 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by emekajacobogbon(m): 3:43pm On May 18, 2023 |
BeardedmeatR:Regard or respect is reciprocal, if you are married, you will understand the menace some mother in-laws constitute. Don't be surprised the father in-law must have warned her and other people to give them freedom. |
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