valdes00:
Make she dey play...
I fxcked my bestie for yrs before she got married.. and I knw her boyfriends Wella....
When she got married, I decided to stay off her myself ..

Since then, any babe wey talk abt male bestie, na bombastic side eye I dey give her

MALIGNANTHost:
Good morning NLers, This is a new relationship less than six months and a long-distance one.

The guy confronted his girlfriend whether she's having a male bestie and the girl acknowledged.

The girl said that the bestie is even the one making her dreadlocks.

After the chat, the girlfriend made it clear to his boyfriend that she would rather break up the relationship than for her to leave the male bestie as her bestie has done for her what no guy including the current boyfriend can do.

What's the way forward please

Ishilove:

Unnecessarily jealous, controlling, filthy minded and pathetically insecure

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
The bestie is banging her
Once a woman is emotionally traumatised by her boyfriend or husband they quickly find solace or consolation from any male friend and with that they are easily banged

Reason why as a real niggar If you are toasting a woman and she is giving you headache don't worry just exercise patience
The day her plan A(main boyfriend) will give her problem you are going to bang her easily
I don bang many of my female friends well well who are into serious relationship with their boyfriend

BadMaster:

Another MuMu. I hope you are not a man, because if you're, then you are an embarrassment.

tollyboy5:

I dont see anything wrong with a lady having a male friend.

talented321:
Married people with kid no dey bleep' i just hate that thing call bestie

MALIGNANTHost:
Good morning NLers, This is a new relationship less than six months and a long-distance one.

The guy confronted his girlfriend whether she's having a male bestie and the girl acknowledged.

The girl said that the bestie is even the one making her dreadlocks.

After the chat, the girlfriend made it clear to his boyfriend that she would rather break up the relationship than for her to leave the male bestie as her bestie has done for her what no guy including the current boyfriend can do.

What's the way forward please

tunjijones:


Na because u no get bestie. If you get bestie u go know say the thing make sense well well.

Ebubu2:
to get a sensible girl that’s less than 25years hard pass palm kernel. It’s as if it’s only the virgins among them are sensible. Once she’s non virgin and less than 25 na so so carry all the food put together dey chop at once in name of bf, bestie, coursie, namie (namesake), dey föck all of them.

And they have the guts to blame men for sleeping around in marriage when they’re at peak and have money forgetting they lived their own peak sleeping around too at less than 25years when body was fresh and peak. Yet they insult men haven done their own, they claim this one is marriage and is different. Aunty sleep abeg, virginity is as sacred as marriage so if u didnt give me that dnt question my fidelity in marriage. And if u dare cheat back na ur papa house u will return while I remarry


In all I’m open to dating above 25 years who has taken time to drop her baggages such as no bestie, selfish attitude, stubbornness, and situationships with ex.

MALIGNANTHost:
Good morning NLers, This is a new relationship less than six months and a long-distance one.

The guy confronted his girlfriend whether she's having a male bestie and the girl acknowledged.

The girl said that the bestie is even the one making her dreadlocks.

After the chat, the girlfriend made it clear to his boyfriend that she would rather break up the relationship than for her to leave the male bestie as her bestie has done for her what no guy including the current boyfriend can do.

What's the way forward please

MALIGNANTHost:
Good morning NLers, This is a new relationship less than six months and a long-distance one.

The guy confronted his girlfriend whether she's having a male bestie and the girl acknowledged.

The girl said that the bestie is even the one making her dreadlocks.

After the chat, the girlfriend made it clear to his boyfriend that she would rather break up the relationship than for her to leave the male bestie as her bestie has done for her what no guy including the current boyfriend can do.

What's the way forward please

MALIGNANTHost:

How is the current boyfriend wrong?.
Is the boyfriend being unnecessarily jealous?
Is the current boyfriend having dirty mind as she said?

Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

Ishilove:

Unnecessarily jealous, controlling, filthy minded and pathetically insecure

Amotolongbo:
She can go on to marry the bestie.

It still baffles me how a fully grown man doesn’t understand what to do in this kind of situation. A man should see himself as the priority in whoever he is dating. If their is another man standing ahead of him in a woman’s life, the best is to move on

October1960:
Most male friends of a grown woman over 25 are either former lovers who can be recalled into service or potential lovers.

October1960:
The social media thing has damaged and continues to damage many relationships. I refuse friend requests from married exes. Let them face their relationship.

MALIGNANTHost:
The remaining chat.

For over a week now, the girl is still insisting on not leaving the male bestie. Her defence is that the bestie is married and older than her so his current boyfriend is the one with a dirty mind.
She claims her ex knows the bestie and never raised an eyebrow. The response from the boyfriend is why then did he not marry you after four years of dating
Is there any sensible guy that will marry a lady with a male bestie?