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Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by Olaideolayemi(m): 5:20pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Peoples aren't the same, For me,I don't believe in that lifestyle,if I don't have the repayment,I will keep trying,even paying in a stipend ways..For the purposes of fulfilling the debt..we are not the same shaaa.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by quickly: 5:22pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Haymus007: If they have it they won’t borrow . |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by jossykido(m): 5:40pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Cause they are enemy of progress. If for whatsoever circumstances prevented them from paying back at the expected time, they should always reach out to the lender and always keep in touch and inform him on how hard they are working towards remitting their debts and give a date to it. Failure to do so make people always give excuses even when they have the money to lend out 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by Waffarianman(m): 5:45pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Xammie001: U wen get expired brain 🧠 still dey inside the systems. Abi d hunger no reach Ur area yeye |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by delishpot: 6:15pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Taylor90: You are still learning o. Maybe it closes door for OP to give when his friend returns for another round but you see wicked borrowers? They will boldly come back and say they will add the new debt to the old one and pay all together. Owing you previously doesn't stop them from asking you for new loan if they think you are soft. |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by kemese(m): 6:34pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Taylor90: Right. In addition, He traded his integr.ty for that amount. You can't vouch for him again or even be his guarantor. His loss. |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by fadilaMaikiriki: 6:42pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Haymus007:Honestly. I was even about to open a thread on this same topic before I saw yours. If you want to know people's true character, just involve them with money, then their true self will be out. Three people are currently owing me 17k, one is 10k, another 5k and the other person 2k. Me that's jobless and needed the money very badly. I sent them the money because I trusted them to pay me bad as at when due, but alas! I was wrong! They'll start ghosting you when it's time to pay back. Stop picking your calls, giving flimsy excuses, posting you, etc, making it seem as if you're now the one begging them for money. Honestly, I'm not happy at all. I'm in dire need of money right now, but I can't get it, while I have almost 20k hanging in the air. So sad! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by Slynation(m): 6:52pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
April396949:In as much as you are correct, some borrow just because they feel you have too much to throw around, whenever I upload myself in a very nice environment or where me and some pals are rejoicing over some good news or birthday party, some people on my CL automatically developed problem and wants to borrow from me, and guess what?? They never pay back, one blatantly told me, you pass am naw...!!! This days, once you borrow someone money, be ready to loose the money and the friendship once you try to retrieve back your money... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by enemyofprogress: 6:56pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
ajebuter:I won't pay you. If you like take me to court, I no go pay here nor in heaven. |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by bola4dprec(m): 6:57pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Haymus007: Many people treat a loan as something they found and can keep, causing embarrassment to those who helped them. Some people will speak politely, bow, and scrape until they get the loan they want, but when the time comes to pay it back, they'll put it off, say that it's inconvenient, and make a lot of worthless excuses. If the lender insists on being paid, he can count himself lucky to get back half. If he doesn't insist, the borrower has robbed him and made an unnecessary enemy. All the lender will get from him are curses, insults, and disrespect, but never any gratitude. Ordinarily I'm also a borrower who failed to pay back in time due to economy issue pls ni suru |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by F117nighthawk: 7:15pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Because many of them are dishonest and do not have any means or intention of paying back |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by Gentlesoul2021(m): 7:24pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Haymus007: A friend borrowed a sum by also copying his dad in the context. I was pleased to a duration of 10days,, 10 days turned over 60days and when I can't bear it, I started pressurising even when I needed money and informed them ahead to arrange for what they owe me. On the day I needed the money, I reached out and I got series of excuses,,, I started nagging that I lose my cool, on getting back the money, my friend father wic the money was initially borrowed for, couldn't even reach out and atleast discuss on the inconveniences caused, in his attitude, I saw clearly that the money has been paid and case close forgetting the duration they pleased for and didn't comply to. I could also remember the uncle of this my friend, who came knocking at my gate at wee hour under the drizzling of rain last year, he narrated how he and his family was unable to eat the previous night, I could see how sober he was and asked I give him any amount wic he's going to refund in a week time, over 365 days has passed, I still haven't see him bring back what he borrowed. I have already forgotten that thou but it's pretty bad.... The long talk is, people will be so quick to borrow promising this and that, but to refund by the due date will be hell. Some will even not want to pay back again. So pathetic.... Just avoid borrowing or give out what u can easily forget. |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by nikdam: 8:04pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Haymus007: The money you cannot forget about or forgo, it is better not borrow someone that kind of money. |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by Mandesz(m): 8:06pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Waffarianman:People can be so sarcastic. It takes me some seconds to understand and I busted out laughing. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by favour32(m): 8:10pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Borrow dey destroy relationship. To avoid it, if the person needs 100K loan. Give am 30K,say you dash am, make go look for from others. You can never see am again disturb you. |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by Sonnetoshodi(m): 8:54pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Rechargeam247:I swear babe, it hurts o! |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by Dgreatman10: 9:12pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
otipoju: |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by Lanre1st(m): 10:00pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Because they don’t have. If they have in the first place they would not borrow. Many borrow to survive the moment without having any guarantees to pay back than putting their hope in God miracle |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by Waffarianman(m): 10:19pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Mandesz: Lol😂😆 now you understand abi. To build naija na cement finished |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by Haymus007(m): 10:45pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Swears i'm tired!! TLE900: |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by fadilaMaikiriki: 11:02pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
MarketDispatch:Is like this is what I'll do to this boy (Ibro) owing me 10k. Is like I'll go to his house, then tell him to go get me drink outside, then I'll take some of his things that I can use and leave. Then call him later when I'm at home to tell him what I did. |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by Kobojunkie: 11:04pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
fadilaMaikiriki:And when he calls police to arrest you for stealing, na then you go talk wetin do you. |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by Kobojunkie: 11:05pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
MarketDispatch:No be everyone wey wan borrow get collateral unless you are thinking of going as far as to ask for a kidney or an eyeball in case of nonpayment. |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by BronzeTiger: 11:31pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Then don't borrow anyone again. |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by TheBlueDiamond(m): 11:47pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
umeh |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by fadilaMaikiriki: 11:58pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:He that is owing me nko? This is almost four months now he's been telling me one story or the other concerning this money. Maybe if I do like that he might be forced to pay the money. |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by Kobojunkie: 12:15am On Jul 25, 2023 |
fadilaMaikiriki:If you no collect collateral or notarized IOU from him when you gave him the loan, how will committing a crime help you? |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by vickydevoka(m): 1:33am On Jul 25, 2023 |
Haymus007:He returned it, didn't he?. Mine I don't even bother asking. For my mind I dash am |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by Imoksp(m): 2:46am On Jul 25, 2023 |
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Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by greatestdestiny: 4:01am On Jul 25, 2023 |
Haymus007: You said your friend, if he doesn't have itz he should die? Or what kind of friend are you too? You nor see the economy 🙄 And do you know how much Nigeria is owing? Did they cease our airports because of that? Be a friend indeed! |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by itzsammyd: 7:07am On Jul 25, 2023 |
A colleague of mine, where I worked before used my account to take a loan without my consent two weeks after I resigned from the company.. up till today, the loan have not been paid and I heard he is no longer working at the company. The loan is expired and has attracted penalty charges and I do receive calls and threats from this app, please what do I do to get him paid? #savemylife[b][/b] |
Re: Why Do People Who Borrow Money Find It So Difficult To Return In Due Time? by sslcrypt: 8:11am On Jul 25, 2023 |
It's the mindset from observation. Here's the narrative we deduced from our studies if you can spare a cash for borrowing that means you can do without it. Reason for this is that everyone is in dire situation regardless of your status. So for one to meet the very present need of someone causes a thought of appreciation and apprehension. Apprehension in the sense that the borrowers situation haven't changed regardless of the short relief. So calculating forward the borrower looks at the financial stream which is either none existence or barely manageable. This outlook therefore causes a mental rebellion since in their mind they don't want to go back to that small increment of challenge they got relief from. They forget that the reality is that there are still in the pit or ocean of financial distress. And nothing really changes. |
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