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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Batman2412(m): 7:29pm On Aug 06, 2023
Only when the man is broke

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Sleekfingers: 7:29pm On Aug 06, 2023
Nigerian women will be your 6th wife if you have money.

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Gamesmart: 7:35pm On Aug 06, 2023
1Sharon:
There are many women that are up for polygamy especially Muslim women.

Nigerian men need to be honest about their intentions from the beginning. The same way you want women to be honest about their past.

Are women honest about their past?

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Gamesmart: 7:36pm On Aug 06, 2023
Amarisco:


This is the bottom line.

If you know polygamy is your way, then be real from the jump so the woman isn’t being tricked into falsehood.

And money or not, sleeping around like a dog isn’t the same as having multiple wedded wives*.

Let’s BFFR.

Are women real from the jump about their looks, chastity, interest in a man and why they are interested?

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Gamesmart: 7:49pm On Aug 06, 2023
cococandy:
You guys will never stay the women who accept the things you want. You want to force yourselves on women who have a different mindset and that’s your problem.


There’s are tons of women who don’t mind sharing a husband, there are pick mes who will go fight the side chick for you and claim your were jazzed, it’s not your fault bla bla bla.

But you don’t want those women. You want women who have made it clear they expect to be treated the same way as you. then you turn around and cry they don’t want to be like the other type of women who clearly you don’t even want or you’d have gone for them in the first place . Make it make sense

What make sense is that everyone has the freedom to walk away from what they don't like or want.

What does not makes sense is demanding people do things in your self-interest, when you don't operate in their self-interest. Actually, you are known to operate solely in your own self-interest as well, but get annoyed that men now do same of focusing on their own self-interest.

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Gamesmart: 7:52pm On Aug 06, 2023
1Sharon:


The truth is that only rich men are entitled to be polygamous🥴

A poor polygamous man should be jailed for crimes against humanity.

Well said!

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Goodlady(f): 7:58pm On Aug 06, 2023
MiddleDimension:



Christianity supports polygamy more than any other religion in the world!
Bring your evidence

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by 1Sharon(f): 7:58pm On Aug 06, 2023
Gamesmart:


Are women honest about their past?

You need to read my comment again.

You can't be a hypocrite and complain that women aren't honest to you, when you aren't honest yourself.

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Gamesmart: 8:12pm On Aug 06, 2023
1Sharon:


You need to read my comment again.

You can't be a hypocrite and complain that women aren't honest to you, when you aren't honest yourself.

So women are not honest is your position?

Men might want women to be honest about their past, but only a retarded man will believe what most modern women tell him about her past.

99% will blatantly and unapologetically lie about her past to make it look good. Women have no scruples lying to keep a relationship or their image; they will rationalise it in their heads that they are right to do it because they are "helping the man".

So, look, nothing wrong with men also fooling women too to get what they, the men, want.

It is the game; play it to your interest!
Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Gamesmart: 8:14pm On Aug 06, 2023
Goodlady:

Bring your evidence

I might not support his jejune and bombastic statement, but monogamy is not a Christianity concept. It is a Western concept attached to Christianity and imposed on (before being independently adopted by) black people.

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by MiddleDimension: 8:19pm On Aug 06, 2023
Goodlady:

Bring your evidence

The notion of marriage in christianity is a mirror of the relationship between god and.his church. When you say Jesus is your lord and saviour, it does not mean he cannot be another person's lord and saviour at the sane time.

On countless occations in the bible, God is portrayes as the groom, the husband, while his church, the people of Israel or the individual christian is portrayed as the bride.

Now, bring evidence to show that christianity is not pro polygamy let us alhave a discussion so I can something new.

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by VinnyBaba: 8:44pm On Aug 06, 2023
Goodlady:

Bring your evidence

Your Take on the Topic is Great!👍

But I just find it Funny that one Lady will be condemning a Polygamous Man in one Side but
Supporting a 2nd or 3rd Wife/Babymama on another! 😕😒
Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by harmony75: 9:02pm On Aug 06, 2023
There's no good in polygamy... These women you mentioned non are happy bc if one is happy you wouldn't be showing off like Regina Daniels and judy they want to prove they're happy but deep down they cannot turn hands of the clock! Polygamy is evil!

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Gamesmart: 9:50pm On Aug 06, 2023
harmony75:
There's no good in polygamy... These women you mentioned non are happy bc if one is happy you wouldn't be showing off like Regina Daniels and judy they want to prove they're happy but deep down they cannot turn hands of the clock! Polygamy is evil!

What a retarded contribution!

So women in monogamous marriages don't show off too?

You are truly a Nigerian "yoot". Experts in "from my ass" evidence and proofs.

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Okoroawusa: 9:59pm On Aug 06, 2023
Everybody don already talk wetin I wan talk...


Money... money... money...

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by delishpot: 11:17pm On Aug 06, 2023
Many first wives don't want to share the love of their lives with anyone. But the new add on wives don't mind polygamy cos they are there for their own benefit. All they have to do is play the good girl and hope that the man will settle in with them. Just that after they enter, they will then fight against another woman trying to take their latest wife status. So far as they are the new wife they will not support polygamy.lol.
Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Amarisco(f): 12:36am On Aug 07, 2023
MiddleDimension:


you mean polygamy is the formal marriage rite, right?
Yep
Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Amarisco(f): 12:38am On Aug 07, 2023
phemmyfour:
It's the same, it's called MULTIPLE SEX PARTNERS.

Human introduces law to make one legal and the other illegal

There’s a Yoruba proverb that says 1 yam tuber given in dowry, is worth more than all romantic gifts given in a relationship combined.

There’s more to marriage than sex. Men don’t just marry purely for sex - have some respect for your gender.
Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Amarisco(f): 12:44am On Aug 07, 2023
VinnyBaba:


Hehehe.

So you don't know Having Multiple Wives is also Risky?😏

Unhealthy Rivalry/War between them can Destroy/Bring down a SUCCESSFUL man! embarassed undecided

Yes, but any type of bad relationship between any two humans will have an adverse impact on the parties involved. The risk is in ones character and worldview.

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by MiddleDimension: 1:12am On Aug 07, 2023
Amarisco:

Yep
You are smart, You are wise...
go buy your mama a house
go buy your friends houses
go spend money for no reason
come back.and ask for more!

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by MiddleDimension: 1:16am On Aug 07, 2023
VinnyBaba:


Your Take on the Topic is Great!👍

But I just find it Funny that one Lady will be condemning a Polygamous Man in one Side but
Supporting a 2nd or 3rd Wife/Babymama on another! 😕😒

Her take is good evwn though she has not she has not provided evidence to show polygamy is not christian?

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Amarisco(f): 1:18am On Aug 07, 2023
MiddleDimension:

You are smart, You are wise...
go buy your mama a house
go buy your friends houses
go spend money for no reason
come back.and ask for more!
😂🤭🤭

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by livebullet(m): 2:18am On Aug 07, 2023
Amarisco:


This is the bottom line.

If you know polygamy is your way, then be real from the jump so the woman isn’t being tricked into falsehood.

And money or not, sleeping around like a dog isn’t the same as having multiple wedded wives*.

It's not a bottom line.... sometimes men don't want it...it's the Eve factor that worries our women that make some men look outside at times.
Especially women in this era...they don't want to give you your place as the leader of the family ...only when its time to make financial expenses.
Men love to be respected. So the moment he gets a small chick outside who obeys him....boom!!!

Let’s BFFR.
Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by ChiefOkporghe: 7:39am On Aug 07, 2023
Nazgul:
Nigerian women worship money. As long as you have lots and lots of it, they won't mind being your 20th wife.

Most of them attacking 2face, would happily spread their legs for him if the opportunity presents itself not minding that he's a married man, but would attack and blame him for sleeping with other women.

I saw a post on a popular Facebook group I belong to where someone asked "would you prefer a wealthy womanizer or a faithful broke husband". I was shocked when more than 90% of the replies from the females said they would go for the wealthy womanizer. That what do they want with a broke faithful husband. Who faithfulness help.

Our girls are just hypocrites that's all. They crucify married men for womanizing, but would openly agree to marry a womanizer provided he's financially loaded. Thus encouraging him to continue womanizing.

To your question Nigerian women are not against polygamy, they're infact the major facilitators of polygamy.
Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Basiljoe: 7:57am On Aug 07, 2023
Women would rather share a high value man than be saddled with a faithful loser. - RM. I hate being right all the time like Rollo. Una go soon dey pay for my redpill posts. grin

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by cococandy(f): 8:05am On Aug 07, 2023
Your self interest should be marrying someone who agrees with your life philosophy instead of seeking out those who don’t and throw tantrums when they don’t want to tow the line you’re inevitably going to try to force them to. Common sense


Gamesmart:


What makes sense is that everyone has the freedom to walk away from what they don't like or want.

What does not makes sense is demanding people do things in your self-interest, when you don't operate in their self-interest. Actually, you are known to operate solely in your own self-interest as well, but get annoyed that men now do same of focusing on their own self-interest.

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Gamesmart: 8:19am On Aug 07, 2023
cococandy:
Your self interest should be marrying someone who agrees with your life philosophy instead of seeking out those who don’t and throw tantrums when they don’t want to tow the line you’re inevitably going to try to force them to. Common sense

Typical woman!

They have and decide what they want, and then try to tell men what a man should want, instead of finding out or accepting reality of what men want.

And, no surprise, what the man should want, according to these kind of women, is what "she wants him to want". grin grin grin grin grin

As I said .....

Gamesmart:


What makes sense is that everyone has the freedom to walk away from what they don't like or want.

What does not make sense is demanding people do things in your self-interest, when you don't operate in their self-interest. Actually, you are known to operate solely in your own self-interest as well, but get annoyed that men now do same of focusing on their own self-interest.

Typical woman!!! Selfishness and self-centredness to the bone. undecided

Then they open their mouth yakata in surprise when they can't make a man happy and their relationships fail over and over again.

Lol! Imagine telling a man what "he should want". Solipsism at its worst! grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Better stick with your Simps.

A MAN will not tolerate such nonsense.

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Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by DonroxyII: 11:55am On Aug 09, 2023
1Sharon:
There are many women that are up for polygamy especially Muslim women.

Nigerian men need to be honest about their intentions from the beginning. The same way you want women to be honest about their past.


Omoh, How this world turn to women vs men still dey wonderful me cheesy ...

This Fight No go Finish ... cheesy ....

Why Eve Tell Adam to Chop Apple Sef grin
Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by DonroxyII: 12:02pm On Aug 09, 2023
Fiscus105:
Im afraid the way teenage girls and young ladies running after Married men these days, I think parents and religion houses should rise up in doing orientation.


Gone were the days as near as late 90s that young girls see married men as plagues, but now, they are the one pushing them to Married men.

Indeed life is dynamic
Married Men pay the bills While Single Men still struggling to Break Even with Economy !

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