The lady I dated because of her beauty, disgraced me with her English in public.

Ladygee12:
As humans we are not 💯 perfect but how do u make a choice of a life partner who is well to do but can't speak good English and is not ready to get an education because he sees it as a waste of time
How about a lady who is a wife material and has all the qualities you want but is not educated and doesn't speak good English but has refused to get educated and seees it as a waste of time due to her business which brings a lot of cash
Can you cope ?

You can never get all in one package

Just get 70% and above which is a good credit next to Distinction

But love and respect out weights everything

Including education of the personality involve

Una eyes go soon clear when u enter the marriage proper. Marriage has made a lot of lives miserable.

cliqtips:
As a man, just make sure you're at least 5x ahead of your woman in every aspect be it Education, money ...... name it

Most woman when they see that they are more educated than their husband, they tend to want to dominate if care is not taken.

Everyone cannot be 5x ahead of their woman oh...it's not feasible most times

Just how do I take a woman that can't speak simple and correct english to my parents that love queen's english and plenty talk?! She will go and be mixing past and present tenses up. No na ,It would be too catastrophic for my mum to bear.

MrCuteking:
The lady I dated because of her beauty, disgraced me with her English in public.

With the right training, anyone can become better at anything

Na yourself you dey marry her to and she dey relate normal normal.


Abi you dey fear make dem no laugh you say your wife no fit speak english. Na where we dey get problem be this. People validation.
Ok. 70% of Nigerians can't speak good and correct English.

IyaTola:

Dear prettiest,
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It is a good thing to decipher that prince charming if really he is husband material to avoid stumbling upon. There is this rampant saying that 'real men are difficult to find.' How true is this? Well, let's harness few things to check while choosing a male life partner, not just a male lover!
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1. Am I a side-chick? Yes, dear ladies, you should ascertain your stance in the relationship so as to discover what really he sees you as.
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2. What does he take me as? My dear, you might be an alternative to his boredom. Do check, check and check.
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3. Is he ready? Is he, really? Does ...

well said

How about a lady who lived a promiscuous life and plenty body count

Don't marry a liability, marry someone who is earning an income, someone that will be able to take care of your kids in your absence e.g when the death of a partner occur...
In all, marry based on your principle, there is more after the 💕 love...

Truth is, if you are a good person, in the right sense of the word, you will most likely attract a good partner..

Everybody bad but them dey find better partner. Let us continue to play.

MrCuteking:
The lady I dated because of her beauty, disgraced me with her English in public.

She didn't disgrace you. Rather, you disgraced yourself by dating her knowing English fluency mattered to you.

BennyDGreat:
■ With the right training, anyone can become better at anything

Right training because she be dog wey you suppose train, abi??

obembet:
This thread is for me, am here to read comment...also maybe I wil meet my guy here today.

My dm is now open to serious guy

This thread is " really for you " indeed. Judging from you grammar.
You are the type the OP used in his narrative.

SMH.

PS:
You will not meet your guy here today. Guys are not thirsty people who just lower standards and dive at the first chance of a woman advertising herself to them, all because she feels she's the prize, and has a puzzy.
Nah...
I trust NL males, anyway. They'll just eat and clean their mouths, and move on.

Dey play

Ladygee12:
As humans we are not 💯 perfect but how do u make a choice of a life partner who is well to do but can't speak good English and is not ready to get an education because he sees it as a waste of time
How about a lady who is a wife material and has all the qualities you want but is not educated and doesn't speak good English but has refused to get educated and seees it as a waste of time due to her business which brings a lot of cash
Can you cope ?

Bring her down to Earth..

Oizee:
happy birthday to you! May God grant your heart desires

Thanks family ❣

MrCuteking:
The lady I dated because of her beauty, disgraced me with her English in public.

I've seen those type of girls in Abj. Fair and creme-looking but stark illiterates upon further discovery (when they opened their mouths to converse )
Luckily, I didn't data any. Just a mere flirting. And it ended immediately.

Lastly, English is still not our mother language, though.

You have a valid point here.

franchasofficia:
I don't think you or any other persons with this wack mentality are ready to marry.



Is English our mother tongue or first language?


How many Chinese or Russians or Germans or Taiwanese or Koreans or Arabs or Japanese or French speak English fluently? Does it make them less wife or husband materials? Does it make them less of human beings?


Your former President Buhari, does he know how to speak English despite the decades he spent traveling to different countries?



Some of you ladies have unrealistic expectations from guys and that is the reason millions of ladies will never find a husband for real

Coming from someone like you who doesn't know how to respectfully make his point without talking trash
People like u will be the first to correct the lady's Grammatical blunder

Jewessgratitud3:
It depends on individual choice. Some will not mind a rich illiterate spouse.. for me though, I'm easily attracted to a learned man who's very sound with good command of English. If he wants to win me over totally, let him just have a little bit of British diction. .... . That's what works for me.

If I start talking with a guy and he starts blowing bomb,'ll won't even bother to check if he is wealthy, I'll lose interest instantly.

Let me guess your age....18 to 23. That's right.

When you turn 25, your priorities in life will change.

I might sound like I'm talking gibberish now. I won't make sense to you now until you clock 25.

Shalom!

BESTScientist1:



what do you guys see teachers as? a 20k per month teacher needs to be properly taught too. Gorrit?

No, private lesson of 3 -4 hours per week for 20k per month is not bad..I didn't say full time teacher

I will marry her then tutor her

You can't be well to do and not have one form of education that aided that "well to do". Well to do don't get thrown down from heaven.

You cannot be making lots of money and still say education is lacking. How does a person making money know he or she is making money?

Ladygee12:

Coming from someone like you who doesn't know how to respectfully make his point without talking trash
People like u will be the first to correct the lady's Grammatical blunder

My lady, English is not a prerequisite for marriage in Nigeria.


Most Indians speak English with Hindu


Most Yorubas speak English with Yoruba. When I did my NYSC, the schools in the Yoruba state I served used Yoruba to teach their Pupils English



Not everybody is good with learning 2nd or 3rd language, whereas some are experts, that doesn't make the other persons that couldn't learn less of humans.


If you don't gerrit forget about it

Jennyclay, how I sees you

Skyfo.rnia:
What do you mean by education? If your definition of education is only the four walls of higher institution then you are deceiving yourself. Education can be acquired by mixing or interacting with people, travelling, watching movies, radio, documentaries, reading, surfing the internet etc. It can also be acquired through the business you do, the messages(Word of God) you listen to.

Before I got married, I had a long lists of what I wanted in a woman, for some years I was searching for a woman with those attributes but when I found my wife, I realized that my happiness and peace of mind is paramount.
A submissive woman, who is supportive, who will respect and cherish you, who gives you happiness and peace of mind is something you should prioritize.

Don't go and marry someone that will raise your BP after some years, you go just dïe trowey.

How many of us dey speak english for dis country wey no contain pidgin?

Mumu british came here enforce dere language on us and tell us to call it our official language

If i may ask what is so official about dat language?

Abi u no understand dis pidgin wey i speak so?

My dear communication maters, in as much as we hear each odas well in our communication even if it doesn't involve de good english like u said

Ladygee12:
As humans we are not 💯 perfect but how do u make a choice of a life partner who is well to do but can't speak good English and is not ready to get an education because he sees it as a waste of time
How about a lady who is a wife material and has all the qualities you want but is not educated and doesn't speak good English but has refused to get educated and seees it as a waste of time due to her business which brings a lot of cash
Can you cope ?

Before you choose a wife ask yourself if money should be removed from the picture will she respect you, will she be humble, will she listen to you?

Then add money to the picture and you will be fine.

BrotherDavid

FuckTheMod:
In whatever you do,
Avoid olosho
Avoid SINGLE MOTHERS and even girls raised by SINGLE MOTHERS
Avoid a girl that's not religious
Avoid broke and jobless girls
If she's not a virgin, don't let her fool you into no-sex before marriage, BECAUSE SHE'LL DO IT WITH OTHERS IN SECRET.
Dig her past and know who she truly is.
A girl's past is one of the most important factor to check before making her a partner.
A girl with +2 BODYCOUNT is a big red flag!
She will have most likely done abortions and could have even dated married men.
There's absolutely nothing to love and cherish in something that a lot of people have had and used aka
USED PRODUCT
DAMAGED PRODUCT
WASTE PRODUCT
LEFTOVER etc

Omoba u day vex ohhhhh! Easy on them pls

PussyGalore:
Broke Nairaland guys will congregate here to bash women which is their favourite past time.

No broke guy should quote me please, I have a headache

i can't believe i checked your dp.

Am traumatized. at such disgusting picture

BennyDGreat:


Everyone cannot be 5x ahead of their woman oh...it's not feasible most times

No, it's not for everyone.

For me I think choosing a life partner depends on character and manners....if i no see those two things mhen am off no stress

teejaymmm:
Na those ones get wahala pass baba. Inferiority complex

What I meant was that the educated ones hardly submit. If you dont understand what I said then shut up