Nbote:
Some of you people just unnecessarily pressure yourselves. People earning less than 100k a month marry and have good home, don't let social media deceive into thinking those who are getting married have or earn millions

Jennyclay:
With that nonsense amount kindly stay away from anything called relationship so that you won’t put someone’s daughter in abject poverty Biko!

You’re not even qualified to have a girlfriend not to even talk of a wife. You broke men will just have little change and the next thing on your evil broke mind is marriage.

And the worst thing is you broke men know how to born like rats, by the time the money isn’t enough to catheter for your wife and 7 children, frustration will set in and you will start beating your wife.

Mr man you’re broke!!
Leave marriage alone!!

Nbote:


There are numerous satellite towns around Abuja of whixh Suleja is one of them. There are more people staying in nassarawa working in Abuja than in Suleja. Karu, Nyanya, Maraba, Masaka, Jikwoyi are all Nassarawa and all combined are far bigger than Suleja

seanwilliam:

With these , I can say you’re completely on point.
Cos I earn that weekly or more sometimes and I was wondering where I got it wrong

Microwhy:
Please is Dutse-Alhaji closer to main town compare to outskirts or its same thing...

Jennyclay:
With that nonsense amount kindly stay away from anything called relationship so that you won’t put someone’s daughter in abject poverty Biko!

You’re not even qualified to have a girlfriend not to even talk of a wife. You broke men will just have little change and the next thing on your evil broke mind is marriage.

And the worst thing is you broke men know how to born like rats, by the time the money isn’t enough to catheter for your wife and 7 children, frustration will set in and you will start beating your wife.

Mr man you’re broke!!
Leave marriage alone!!

BigIyanga:

Prices of baby foods like similac,peak,sma,diapers, kids drugs+, hospital care dont change whether you’re in the city of village, matter of fact, they cost more in villages .
180k steady income can take care of a single not a family of 3 (husband, wife and 1 kid) unless you want that wife and child to suffer

Nairas2dollars:
the secret is investing, my friend is a programmer and earn millions but still kinda complaining of being broke sometimes, learn to invest, don't save money, it would depreciate. Avoid female gold diggers!

izonborn098:
One of my happiest moment in life is giving birth to my beautiful daughter in the year 2016'' today i am enjoying my life not because i am earning salary or whatever...
I leave my 50k salary govt work to go join and busines and it is the most important choice i have ever made'' if you telling him not marry' what about keke drivers who make 7 to 3k but living fine wit their kids...
Oga the salary of a graduate is 80k to 90k yet they are married'' ok what about soldiers who earn 50 to 60k... It is choice and calculation... It is not easy to make 180k in nigeria... The only demerit is the cash don't come in bulk.. If not op is a big man...

seanwilliam:

With these , I can say you’re completely on point.
Cos I earn that weekly or more sometimes and I was wondering where I got it wrong

Nbote:


There are numerous satellite towns around Abuja of whixh Suleja is one of them. There are more people staying in nassarawa working in Abuja than in Suleja. Karu, Nyanya, Maraba, Masaka, Jikwoyi are all Nassarawa and all combined are far bigger than Suleja

BigIyanga:

You’re stil talking about you in this issue…you’re happy you brought a child into this world.. good. What is the future of that child? He/she will take the same WAEC/JAMB with kids that attended good govt and private schools? For your child to pass and get admitted into a federal unit school, you should have a cash reserve of about N300k… we are not talking about private school for rich folks

seanwilliam:


What kinda investment if I may ask pls.


For dem females and dem gold diggers, I stopped since in 2020

victooman:
Did you write this for attention or you are mentally deranged?

LarryCork:



My brother...save Yor moiney & go for 2k olosho so u can save 4k pocket moiney left sir!!!(no oofense)

victooman:
Hello Nairalanders,

l want to settle down latest next year, l live in Abuja, and the business l do is giving me a minimum of 6k daily.

Though on a good day l can make more than that, my major concern is that l feel it is too little considering the present inflation rate.

Please what is your advice, should l go ahead, or wait and expand my income, l dont want to marry as a man and start suffering abeg.

izonborn098:
let end it here'' i am not here to brag about myself'' whatever my mates are doing i can attain the small i will get... I know how much i make every 4 to 6months.... A non greedy and careless person can marry and enjoy well with 6k daily except he marry a useless woman...

Nbote:
Some of you people just unnecessarily pressure yourselves. People earning less than 100k a month marry and have good home, don't let social media deceive into thinking those who are getting married have or earn millions

izonborn098:
180k monthly is a good cash to start family'' but nigeria economy is not stable and the most important part is' this woman you are about settle down with does she has the understanding' patience and also know the importance of marriage..
If i were u and maybe if you are under 30' i would have use another 1 to 3years to save some money so that you can use the cash to setup another business and add that one to ur present salary' by so doing you will have confident in ur dealing...
Another important factor is ur location e.g house rent and other basic things you buy everyday for survival' do you think your income will withstand such plus another person... For now you are single and you have the chance to create more opportunities for urself...
Marriage is a life time journey so you need to be good in your calculations...
If people who drive taxi and keke can settle down'' you can also will.. Life no too hard when there is understanding..

Nairas2dollars:
See it's easier to make money in any country with population like Nigeria! I see people that are going for Japa as insane people! The only problem I see in Nigeria is security architecture! As for economy, start a business, if government tax you high, increase your own prices..be innovative. See am a surgeon and I don't operate trivial surgeries! There must be big money before I enter theater to operate on anyone so am mostly called on critical health ailment when the patient is willingly to pay enough!

coputa:
Someone earning close to 200k is broke, you sound like the daughter of a billionaire

victooman:
Hello Nairalanders,

l want to settle down latest next year, l live in Abuja, and the business l do is giving me a minimum of 6k daily.

NoahHadNoArk:
180k per month, 2,160, 000 per year.


A good woman can work with this and together you can build a life depending on what she brings to the table, unfortunately good women are rare in that city.

What is most common are gold diggers who place an over rated price to their honey pot because it’s Abuja, expecting to stumble on one Senator, political or rich kid whom they can suck dry. Op this second set of women will come into your life and leave, making you wish you had a job that pays you even 3k daily.

Search carefully and apply the wisdom of a serpent

The peace of God be upon you in your Quest for a Rebecca

seanwilliam:
thanks sir.
My brother , there’s something about wealth that they’re not telling me yet. I don’t know how best to describe it.
I have an offline business - a stable one . I also have a side husle, combined together, it give me atleast x6 or X7 or more self of what op earns monthly.

I’m still feeling like I’m under achieving considering my earning. I feel like , somehow somehow , there’s limitation
Note I have zero social life( no drinks, no drugs, no womanizing-I stopped this 3 years ago ).

Maybe what I’m lacking is patience , or wanting to achieve many things at once or not making right investment .
Not married yet , single below 30
What’s your advice pls?