Ejioforrr:
A video of some single ladies praying for husbands, dressed in white wedding gowns has caused quite a stir online.

isabi2lof:

My problem with all these alphamalus is that , they don't value marriage one bit like the way they lay emphasis on it .. one would think , they all knows what it takes to have a great marriage, but las las all na wash

Marriage favours men , that's why they're always angry at any successful single lady , they'll be like , " is she not supposed to be a slave under one man and be fighting side chicks, everyday of her life " 😂😂😂 , that's the last thing , I will ever do , fighting side chicks, say who die ??

Wahali , everything that marriage has to offer , 95% of it can be outsourced.

The reason why some Nigerians are still very much interested in marriage, is because we are a religious country, very soon , with the way things are going , marriage will be a thing of the past.

real777:
The most nauseating part of it all is that all or most of them are not even virtuous material. Not Godly but religious...if you are God fearing man and a virgin and you end up marrying a non virgin virtuous woman, you should be about the most stupid man alive.

Come here and see how girls live recklessly and boldly saying "forget that thing "after we finish enjoying our body, we go carry the leftover to husband house. I was like hmmmm.

An average young girl in the current Nigeria has body count of more than 20 and counting and will eventually grow up to be in her 20s and 30s and pretend to be a repentant prostitute lol. Na them you dey see every day for choir and congregation lol...

Whether you repent or not, you are still a repentant prostitute. The original plan was for male and female to remain virgins till marriage and not testing themselves.

This post exclude rape victims that didn't venture into whoring.

Anny69:
You can't speak for all single men. I know single men who wish to settle down.

sonofsteven:


Na lie bro

Not every man

Maturity matters a lot

Mase2020g:
So many ladies cause their singlehood,

while others are as a result of village People,

After selecting and you end up being alone.

Farfalla:
This is going too far to be honest.
What is this?

Testimony1988:
Hmmmmm, some of them is their lifestyles that is hindering them from getting married.

Persephone1:
To start with we can focus on individuality. Knowing oneself, self development, pursing purpose and writing one's name in the sand of time. These things can be hindered when one put kids and wives first. Do you wonder why we Africans aren't among Scientists, Economists, Sociologists or Psychologists who made discoveries and postulate laws and theories the world study today? It's because we labor ourselves with too much when we ought to be free and innovative.
The African structure as a whole limits individualism and self discovery. It is only a settled mind that's not thinking of how to work and earn money that will think of how to create and make life better. That is the bedrock of innovation. We are trained to think in a way, act in a way, live and die in a way. That's not the essence of life. It is expected of an individual to find his or her purpose and fulfill it and that includes women.

Depression in UK and USA isn't only from lack of family or relationships, there's quite a lot to make one go insane in these countries. Whites to start with aren't mentally or Psychologically strong like blacks. Little things get them depressed that why you see thier governments spending millions on mental health. Most of the citizen tax goes into Mental care but it's not mainly as a result of Lack of family. A business folding up can send a white man to psychiatrist hospital while a black man is thinking of the next business to do after his fourth failed attempt. It's Nature not really Family .

Like I have typed marriage is good, it's the right structure to raise children in. It's good to own a home but it's shouldn't be the main and only reason one exist.

Westerhoffe:
Feeling sorry for them.
Just that, some of them would have insulted a ready and good man out of their lives, thinking they're going to blossom forever.

Many suitors would have come to them between the eyes of 19 to 24, but they won't take them serious.

Though, not all of them are lucky enough to meet good men... That's just the irony of life.

May their prayers be answered and their requests granted.

And this is also a wakeup call on all Feminists… life and nature will always have its way.
There will come a time you'd realize you need a man and vice versa. So give that good guy a chance. He might be the one for you. Don't wait till it's long too late.
And above all, commit your relationship to the hands of the Holy GOD and pray to choose and marry the right one.





No matter how hard thou didst try, thou canst beat the King Solomon's Guinness Universal Record.

Evolutionlove:


So this is the Way of life you have Chosen.

Well I dey here ooo, Make we just dey Service our Engine with no any String attached.

Provided you are Clean Spiritually and Physically.

Ejioforrr:
A video of some single ladies praying for husbands, dressed in white wedding gowns has caused quite a stir online.

https://ikejabird.com/desperation-is-real-single-ladies-praying-for-husbands-in-wedding-gowns-spark-mixed-reactions/

BRATISLAVA:


Let's bet the good man is a poor patriarchal man who is a good for nothing, self-righteous, relationship nightmare except that he has nothing going for him, and in this morally decadent world it means he is good and he tells himself that he's good. Maybe the good man is who many of you see in the mirror.

Nairaland males and the fantasy of "good men". Y'all become good men when women didn't want you and they are single today. It means you good men.

Please, give room for logical responses on the thread.

Westerhoffe:


Even this comment of yours is completely illogical.

BRATISLAVA:


Could be going too far. But I've watched where men come out because they're single and need a wife in a church place. There's a lot of desperation behind both lines. Everyone wants a life partner, hypothetically.

kayperry:



Smh !! there is no length you can't go to twist the narratives sha!! esp. when its against women
way back late Bimbo odukoya had singles meeting who flood the church

Maybe you should add shiloh to your watch list if someone feelsn tew bad to attend

pansophist:


In the past, society were aware of the problem common with women, so arranged marriage was a norm.

Because if you leave a woman to her own accord, in many cases, she will first go and self-destruct before she have sense.

Since women retain value, any mistakes they make reduces that value they have by their very nature.

From promiscuity, abortions, emotional baggages, pride, arrogance, obesity, high taste, to name a few. Sadly, many see these vices as having "experience"

Wetin man pikin wan use an experience woman do? Experience that will make relationship more difficult for me and almost impossible to satisfy her? Because men before me "ti ba beje" (have destroy the place) lol

I have a female family relatives, and I see how she messed up by chasing good men away, then get older and the men she want to settle for are not even worth the ones she chased off in her prime.

Pride goes before a fall.

real777:
The most nauseating part of it all is that all or most of them are not even virtuous material. Not Godly but religious...if you are God fearing man and a virgin and you end up marrying a non virgin virtuous woman, you should be about the most stupid man alive.

Come here and see how girls live recklessly and boldly saying "forget that thing "after we finish enjoying our body, we go carry the leftover to husband house " I was like hmmmm

An average young girl in the current Nigeria has body count of more than 20 and counting and will eventually grow up to be in her 20s and 30s and pretend to be a repentant prostitute lol. Na them you dey see every day for choir and congregation lol...

Whether you repent or not, you are still a repentant prostitute. The original plan was for male and female to remain virgins till marriage and not testing themselves.

This post exclude rape victims that didn't venture into whoring.

LikeAking:
Single idiots…

Berrityga:
Funny thing. Last year I met this girl tried talking to her she insulted the he’ll outta me. She got pregnant for a guy who left her and ran back to the north. Now she and her child are in the streets. I give her 3k every week for her up keep. Tho my friends think I’m stupid for helping her after what she did to me! I just tell them I’m doing it for her child.

BRATISLAVA:


Could be going too far. But I've watched where men come out because they're single and need a wife in a church place. There's a lot of desperation behind both lines. Everyone wants a life partner, hypothetically.

flokii:
Men are the prize for that gender.

As a guy, a king, you don't need to slmp for noone, they should be the ones rushing you like imdomie.

Killermamba:
he is not dumb he is a man with a good heart.

Nilon:
have you seen a man come out wedding suit b4? You will just come and be spewing hateful remarks about men. have you been bañged b4?

BRATISLAVA:


If you were good saints you would've been chosen. But you aren't.

isabi2lof:


You also know the truth , people don't value marriage like that , in as much, I would like to get married but I will have it at the back of my mind, it's not a do or die affairs..

That's why I won't force love on anybody's son , enough of bad marriages everywhere, nothing better than having your own peace of mind and coming back from work to meet a peaceful home ..

To dey visit people dey tire me, I cherish my home, whether beautiful or not .

Anny69:
Single men should be invited as well. Get together parri.

Evolutionlove:


Okay i don hear you.

But you never answer my Question.

Shey make i show for your Side then