You should had gone to a powerful deliverance church for prayers to solve the problem of your barrenness,.

A SELFISH AND STUPID WOMAN

Nothing new

Eriokanmi:
The therapist isn't bigger than God. That's where many get it wrong nowadays. Such a case is better presented to God, who makes the barren fertile and has the power to create a womb where it never exists and cause babies grow in there

Stop with this ridiculous nonsense! Which God? Your churchian god wey never even see to resolve all the barren women wey full am for many years finish?

THE BEST WAY TO SOLVE ALL THIS PROBLEM IS TO CREATE A SYSTEM THAT ALLOW YOUNG COUPLES TO HAVE BABY.

HEREBY FORCING BOYZ THAT IMPREGNATE GIRLS TO MARRY THEM.


OUR CURRENT SYSTEM PROMOTES ABORTION AND LATE PREGNANCY AND IT IS NOT WORKING FOR US AFRICANS THAT MARRY MUCH YOUNGER IN THE PAST.


EDUCATION CAN BE COMPLETED LATER AND WORK /HOUSING PROVISION.


AFTER A CERTAIN YEARS, BOTH MEN AND WOMEN PREGNANCY IS A LOTTERY.


YOR FERTILITY GOES DOWN EVERY YEAR FROM PUBERTY.


IF YOU ARE KNACKING PREGNANCY ENTER, MARRIAGE STRAIGHT, NO NEED FOR ABORTION OR SHAMING, IT IS NATURAL.


MANY OF YOU STARTED KNACKING IN YOUR TEENS ANYWAY.



WE ARE BLACK AFRICANS NOT WHITES.



I HAVE FRIENDS FROM BACK IN MY TEEN DAYS THAT HAD A BABY.


IF YOU SEE THEM NOW, YOU SEF WILL KNOW U WERE SCAMMED.


THE TIME WENT FAST, BABY GREW THEY ARE EVEN GOING TO PARTIES TOGETHER.

Mille:
I came across this post on Reddit and it's triggering.

What i can decode

1. U watch alot of Netflix series too much

2. U are a hardcore bb9ja fan

3. You cant seperate reality from fantasy

4. You seriously lack good home training

Reelmii:
Ok...ashawo dey ur husband eyes before so dont think u were the problem, he just used ur issues as an excuse....

My advice is for u to see ur therapist..i believe u will be fine, time will heal ur wounds....thank God he did not leave u with a child, atleast u are mot a single mother so it will be easy for u to move on with time...

A man that can throw away 14yrs in just a short period of time was just a disaster waiting to happen....
I pity the new woman because he might leave her too one day because of a flimsy issue.....but by then,, u would have healed and moved on

You are actually blessed with a fish brain.
She would move on to another man, they will get married and the same issue will arise.

You think say na small matter be this?

FuckTheMod:

99% of times, IT'S THEIR PAST

SEVERAL EXPOSURE TO SEX

SEVERAL SEX PARTNERS

SEVERAL RELATIONSHIPS

SEVERAL CONTRACEPTION

SEVERAL ABORTIONS


LATER,. THEY'LL SAY YOU SHOULDN'T JUDGE THEM BY THEIR PAST.

IT'S VERY RISKY AND DANGEROUS TO MARRY A NON-VIRGIN, A GIRL WITH MORE THAN 2 BODYCOUNT OR GIRL YOU DON'T KNOW HER SEXUAL PAST.

Fa fa fa foul

1. I am not denying some infertility cases may be due to infections and repeated abortions.

2. However there are other causes that have nothing to do with sex

Polycystic ovaries
Hormonal imbalance (usually genetic. May require taking hormones)
Endometriosis (horrible disease)
Genetic anomalies of the reporductive tract
Sometimes everything is normal, but nothing is happening. ( patience wins the day here)
Husband is infertile.

ufotunang:
You should had gone to a powerful deliverance church for prayers to solve the problem of your barrenness,.

Really? Which one of your many deliverance church gods has finished resolving the barrenness of all the women wey fill the place, many of them waiting for many years now? Name the place.

Kobojunkie:
Stop with this ridiculous nonsense! Which God? Your churchian god wey never even see to resolve all the barren women wey full am for many years finish?

That's nonsense to you, based on your ignorance. I've aired my opinion and solution based on what I know and have experienced.

Why not proffer yours instead of attacking, hun?

nairalanda1:
Fa fa fa foul
1. I am not denying some infertility cases may be due to infections and repeated abortions.
2. However there are other causes that have nothing to do with sex
Polycystic ovaries
Hormonal imbalance (usually genetic. May require taking hormones)
Endometriosis (horrible disease)
Genetic anomalies of the reporductive tract
Sometimes everything is normal, but nothing is happening. ( patience wins the day here)
Husband is infertile.

Exactly! That the new lady is pregnant does not necessarily mean it is the man that did it.

nairalanda1:




Fa fa fa foul

1. I am not denying some infertility cases may be due to infections and repeated abortions.

2. However there are other causes that have nothing to do with sex

Polycystic ovaries
Hormonal imbalance (usually genetic. May require taking hormones)
Endometriosis (horrible disease)
Genetic anomalies of the reporductive tract
Sometimes everything is normal, but nothing is happening. ( patience wins the day here)
Husband is infertile.

Is SENSE paining you?
You don't know the meaning of percentage, right?
I wrote it boldly that 99%, which leaves 1% chance of other causes.
- STDs
- Untreated and mistreated STDs and other things
MOST times, it's sex related problems that causes their predicaments. Today, science has proven that early exposures to sex is the number cause of cervical cancer, which is one of the most common cancer in females.

People saying the guy na bad guy....did they miss the part where he said they should adopt or have a surrogate and the wife flared up..

Or the part where she said she is not ready for sex and that he can go and get it outside.

All this to a man who waited patiently with her for 14yrs..

Its alright...

Eriokanmi:
■ That's nonsense to you, based on your ignorance. I've aired my opinion and solution based on what I know and have experienced. Why not proffer yours instead of attacking, hun?

Proffer what nonsense? She is just venting... no solution necessary since she is already getting treatment for her depression and hopefully seeing a mental health counselor.

Reelmii:
Ok...ashawo dey ur husband eyes before so dont think u were the problem, he just used ur issues as an excuse....

My advice is for u to see ur therapist..i believe u will be fine, time will heal ur wounds....thank God he did not leave u with a child, atleast u are mot a single mother so it will be easy for u to move on with time...

A man that can throw away 14yrs in just a short period of time was just a disaster waiting to happen....
I pity the new woman because he might leave her too one day because of a flimsy issue.....but by then,, u would have healed and moved on

After reading the post and yours...I can confirm to you that your level of understanding is shallow and questionable...

Reelmii:
Ok...ashawo dey ur husband eyes before so dont think u were the problem, he just used ur issues as an excuse....

My advice is for u to see ur therapist..i believe u will be fine, time will heal ur wounds....thank God he did not leave u with a child, atleast u are mot a single mother so it will be easy for u to move on with time...

A man that can throw away 14yrs in just a short period of time was just a disaster waiting to happen....
I pity the new woman because he might leave her too one day because of a flimsy issue.....but by then,, u would have healed and moved on

So 14 years of hoping was not enough, soume of you people are greedy, if it was the other way round, would she wait?

Kobojunkie:
She is a narcissist for wanting her marriage to last even through the hardship of depression. Na wa oo!

2. Hope those kids are yours by the way.

1. She never wanted her marriage to last. Only her feelings matter and she was quick to dismiss and escalate her partner's feelings.

2. You have nothing to worry about. My baby is a Corona baby.

Kobojunkie:
Proffer what nonsense? She is just venting... no solution necessary since she is already getting treatment for her depression and hopefully seeing a mental health counselor.

I can see you're angry ..sorry ok?

I HAVE FRIENDS FROM BACK IN MY TEEN DAYS THAT HAD A BABY.


IF YOU SEE THEM NOW, YOU SEF WILL KNOW U WERE SCAMMED.


THE TIME WENT FAST, BABY GREW THEY ARE EVEN GOING TO PARTIES TOGETHER.


THEY HAD THE LAST LAUGH AFTER THE GOSSIPERS AND MOCKERS.

This one just open mouth waaaahhh dey talk rubbish

Reelmii:
Ok...ashawo dey ur husband eyes before so dont think u were the problem, he just used ur issues as an excuse....

My advice is for u to see ur therapist..i believe u will be fine, time will heal ur wounds....thank God he did not leave u with a child, atleast u are mot a single mother so it will be easy for u to move on with time...

A man that can throw away 14yrs in just a short period of time was just a disaster waiting to happen....
I pity the new woman because he might leave her too one day because of a flimsy issue.....but by then,, u would have healed and moved on

Patience is a virtue use it

Mille:
The poster is definitely a narcissist who has a lot of self-love and doesn't care about other people's feelings.

The man waited 14 years. I'm glad my wife got pregnant at the first time of asking. If not, I'd have been out in less than two years.

😮😮
Omo marriage don Dey fear me o

Please tell us the truth of why you can’t conceive and have a baby…because the narrative is incomplete without that ..

Germi9:
Patience is a virtue use it

THIS NONSENSE TALK IS WHY MANY OF YOU ARE SINGLE IN YOUR 50s.


DO U KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS?


FAILURE!

Acekidc4:
Why are you not able to Carry a Child 🤔🤔 Who caused it, Your Past or Natural Causes??

Why do you like dragging women's past into every discussion like it gives you guys joy. I honestly do not get it.

No he married for the Anus. All this Nairaland adolescent. A man is still loving his wife till she started giving him bad attitude.

nairalanda1:
Husband no dey understand that marriage is for better for worse .

Your wife dey undergo serious issues and the best way to deal with it is to get another woman pregnant?

Suppose it was the other way round? Suppose the woman was fertile and you were the one shooting blanks?

The man married because he wanted free punnami and the pride of being called a father. Not because he wanted to get married. I doubt he loved the woman.


Don't get married for the image

ednut1:
A lot of people are sick in the head. Because you can’t have a baby he should not have after divorce Which kind juju be this

Good you edited your initial post of calling her a potential murderer
Glad you know you are a toxic person

BABIES THEY WERE POPPING IN THEIR TEENS, NA HIM YOU DEY TRY FOR IN LATE 30s AND 40s, YET IN YOUR MIND, U DONT THINK NOTHING IS WRONG?


THE WHITE MAN REALLY DID A NUMBER ON YOU LOT.



NDI ISI OJI

FuckTheMod:

Is SENSE paining you?
You don't know the meaning of percentage, right?
I wrote it boldly that 99%, which leaves 1% chance of other causes.

And it is not up to 99 percent self.

I can even safely tell you that many women who are pregnant may have had an abortion in the past. And many women who are struggling to get pregnant may have been virgins at marriage.

The woman struggling to get pregnant in op story could be having hormonal issues or may have even had some genetic anomalies in her womb

omoredia:


What i can decode

1. U watch alot of Netflix series too much

2. U are a hardcore bb9ja fan

3. You cant seperate reality from fantasy

4. You seriously lack good home training

And you Sir/Ma, are an idiot. I did mention that I saw the post on Reddit. That's the first thing any sensible person would have read as it's basically the first sentence in the post.

I have shared the link below. Go ahead and message the depressed author.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/16b1f17/the_woman_my_husband_left_me_for_is_pregnant_and/

legitnow1:



THIS NONSENSE TALK IS WHY MANY OF YOU ARE SINGLE IN YOUR 50s.


DO U KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS?


FAILURE!

You don’t read…
But if the woman was patient and not allow that condition deter her sense of judgement she would keep her man or better still have a moral justification