14 years!!! That's all I have to say

Reelmii:
Ok...ashawo dey ur husband eyes before so dont think u were the problem, he just used ur issues as an excuse....

My advice is for u to see ur therapist..i believe u will be fine, time will heal ur wounds....thank God he did not leave u with a child, atleast u are mot a single mother so it will be easy for u to move on with time...

A man that can throw away 14yrs in just a short period of time was just a disaster waiting to happen....
I pity the new woman because he might leave her too one day because of a flimsy issue.....but by then,, u would have healed and moved on

He was with her for 14 years o.... Ashewo or not> Children is a factor.

Whatever is on Reddit should stay on Reddit. Whatever is on Quora should stay there too. Let the members here come up with their usual low IQ content. Na wetin fit us with our half baked citizens.

clinician2x:


Hehehe u for fight na when he mentioned surrogacy shebi you're a feminist.

You for begin de shout over ur dead body

How does your comment fit into mine?

Keep showing the whole world your foolishness.

Trojan8:


You really don't need to reply that clown. Someone that just boasted about getting three women pregnant while offering them a total of 18k for abortion. He's definitely not worth your time.

Oh oh!
I didn't know that he is this irresponsible.
I was right after all

Chai! I pity the woman that'll marry the clown

Mille:
I came across this post on Reddit and it's triggering.

Please let’s stop this triggering narrative.

It’s just a buzz word people use these days to hide their bad behavior.

nairalanda1:
Husband no dey understand that marriage is for better for worse .

Your wife dey undergo serious issues and the best way to deal with it is to get another woman pregnant?

Suppose it was the other way round? Suppose the woman was fertile and you were the one shooting blanks?

The man married because he wanted free punnami and the pride of being called a father. Not because he wanted to get married. I doubt he loved the woman.


Don't get married for the image

God bless u for this ur comment....if the man was at fault, he would have opted for an adoption,,he would never want his wife to leave him talk less of her getting pregnant by another man...

Men are selfish in nature,, it is only wen it benefits them that they stick around...i am a guy so i know this

I dont know have time for those quoting me,, na them get their phone and data

Reelmii:
Ok...ashawo dey ur husband eyes before so dont think u were the problem, he just used ur issues as an excuse....

My advice is for u to see ur therapist..i believe u will be fine, time will heal ur wounds....thank God he did not leave u with a child, atleast u are mot a single mother so it will be easy for u to move on with time...

A man that can throw away 14yrs in just a short period of time was just a disaster waiting to happen....
I pity the new woman because he might leave her too one day because of a flimsy issue.....but by then,, u would have healed and moved on

Be honest, do you feel you made sense with what you wrote up there? Did you even read the post with understanding? The woman 'wasted' 14 years of the man's time but the man didn't throw tantrums, he was still showing understanding to his wife, but she made it about herself, cares about herself only. So he should suffer for something that is not his fault, he even suggested a possible solution, she kicked against it, for all we know it could be a past lifestyle that metamorphosed into the issue at hand. She is a narcissist. No normal man would pass over an opportunity to have his own child when he is okay medically.

nairalanda1:
Husband no dey understand that marriage is for better for worse .

Your wife dey undergo serious issues and the best way to deal with it is to get another woman pregnant?

Suppose it was the other way round? Suppose the woman was fertile and you were the one shooting blanks?

The man married because he wanted free punnami and the pride of being called a father. Not because he wanted to get married. I doubt he loved the woman.


Don't get married for the image

Oga, reason am now, 14 solid years in a life of a human being. The man really tried oh. You go offend God with this your post oh.

Did you read the part she mentioned they have been married for 14yrs?? During the 14yrs, she didn't mentioned her husband cheated hope you know.

My Sister 36 is still young don’t give up! Live a righteous life, avoid adultery or fornication because your husband is on leave. He will come back and beg u. Pray every mid night at least for an hour, report your husband to his creator, you slag in prayers in the first place that was y the devil match in. Only death can separate u and your hubby.
Depression is a spirit. No drug can cure it. Stop taking that poison. The cure for depression is Godliness with contentment. The medical report was just a challenge to your Christian faith. Go and download Commec tv on App Store listen to temple tv, pastor Amos of Jesus Christ temple ministry. pray with them every mid night. You can also check temple tv on YouTube.
Secondly, if you wear wig and marrykay drop it, start to dress natural if not your prayer will be waste of time. Even if na born straight burn it, don’t dash any body oo. Na idol, that might just be your deliverance.
God bless u.

zakkxx:
■ My Sister 36 is still young don’t give up! Live a righteous life, avoid adultery or fornication because your husband is on leave. He will come back and beg u. Pray every mid night at least for an hour, report your husband to his creator, you slag in prayers in the first place that was y the devil match in. Only death can separate u and your hubby.
Depression is a spirit. No drug can cure it. Stop taking that poison. The cure for depression is Godliness with contentment. The medical report was just a challenge to your Christian faith. Go and download Commec tv on App Store listen to temple tv, pastor Amos of Jesus Christ temple ministry. pray with them every mid night. You can also check temple tv on YouTube.
Secondly, if you wear wig and marrykay drop it, start to dress natural if not your prayer will be waste of time. Even if na born straight burn it, don’t dash any body oo. Na idol, that might just be your deliverance.
God bless u.

Nonsense and rubbish claims!

Mille:
I came across this post on Reddit and it's triggering.

The doctor that gave you the antidepressant is liable for what happened to you. He gave you medication without informing you of the side effect. And this has led to the collapse of your marriage. You can sue him/her for that.

Obierika:
The time has come for them to remove that "For better for worse , till death do us part" bullshit they use in wedding vows

It's a white man's injection propagated by his African religious merchants. It was not so from the beginning with our culture.

omoyami:
It's a white man's injection propagated by his African religious merchants. It was not so from the beginning with our culture.

And restore divorce as a meaningful option in marriage like our forefathers allowed. I agree!

Obierika:
The time has come for them to remove that "For better for worse , till death do us part" bullshit they use in wedding vows

Indeed! And we should restore divorce as a meaningful end to unhappy marriages as our ancestors had it. Maybe not exactly as they did since their practices were dubious back in those days but you get what I mean. Divorce should no longer be stigmatized and should be an option that those going into marriage are aware they have in case things go south.

Dchampion65:
You still need to see your therapy.
In reality, not every male will become a father nor every female shall become a mother. That's the mystery of life.
Come put of your frustration and depression and embrace medical advice as well.
Adoption,surrogate or IVF.
Rejoice always and I say rejoice.

Are you living under the rock or something? Because I don't understand what you meant by not every male or female will become a parent. There are so many ways one can become a parent these days, one just need to be open minded, informed and flexible/yielding. May be you have forgotten the word "adoption".

DenreleDave:
You are the problem and you probably can't conceive.

Yet you can't fv k him too and you want him to stay with you...

And I wonder what the man might be benefiting from the union?

nairalanda1:



If a girl has betrayed you in the past, don't project it on other women.

Someday, you will get married, after all.

The fact is, they'll all the SAME.
Both the virgins, godly, traditional blablabla..

You'll learn this as you grow older.

Mille:
The poster is definitely a narcissist who has a lot of self-love and doesn't care about other people's feelings.

The man waited 14 years. I'm glad my wife got pregnant at the first time of asking. If not, I'd have been out in less than two years.

Hmmm it is well. But atimes it is good to wait on the Lord

Dchampion65:
You still need to see your therapy.
In reality, not every male will become a father nor every female shall become a mother. That's the mystery of life.
Come put of your frustration and depression and embrace medical advice as well.
Adoption,surrogate or IVF.
Rejoice always and I say rejoice.

It's so easy to ask others to rejoice, when their problems is non of your business..

Mille:
The poster is definitely a narcissist who has a lot of self-love and doesn't care about other people's feelings.

The man waited 14 years. I'm glad my wife got pregnant at the first time of asking. If not, I'd have been out in less than two years.

what's your wife fav position?

[quote author=Zooposki post=125728827][/quote]A man that waited on his wife for 14 years for a child is a superhero..
You lot would have brought in another man's child in that space of time..

Xcelinteriors:
Hmmm it is well. But atimes it is good to wait on the Lord

Which Lord? I hope you are not speaking of the same one who said God made some barren from birth, made some barren in this life, and allowed others to choose to remain childless for the sake of His Kingdom.

nairalanda1:
Husband no dey understand that marriage is for better for worse .

Your wife dey undergo serious issues and the best way to deal with it is to get another woman pregnant?

Suppose it was the other way round? Suppose the woman was fertile and you were the one shooting blanks?

The man married because he wanted free punnami and the pride of being called a father. Not because he wanted to get married. I doubt he loved the woman.


Don't get married for the image

He didn't love her and he stuck around for 14 years?
Do you know what a 14 years old daughter looks like?
That is what the man lost because he was being faithful..
Ogbeni,if you don't walk in his shoes kindly keep your judgemental opinion..

nairalanda1:
At the end marry because you love someone. Not because you have needs

I bet you have never smelt the 4 walls of marriage..

Eriokanmi:
The therapist isn't bigger than God. That's where many get it wrong nowadays. Such a case is better presented to God, who makes the barren fertile and has the power to create a womb where it never exists and cause babies grow in-there

Yeah..
And what have your God been doing for 14 years?
Waiting for her to kill herself, before he will intervene?

ufotunang:
You should had gone to a powerful deliverance church for prayers to solve the problem of your barrenness,.

Barren women still full Church..
Make Una deliver them first..

DenreleDave:
You are the problem and you probably can't conceive.

Yet you can't fv k him too and you want him to stay with you...

Stay one place 🙄

Reelmii:
God bless u for this ur comment....if the man was at fault, he would have opted for an adoption,,he would never want his wife to leave him talk less of her getting pregnant by another man...

Men are selfish in nature,, it is only wen it benefits them that they stick around...i am a guy so i know this

I dont know have time for those quoting me,, na them get their phone and data

Men have the right to protect their interests in marriage! That includes protecting his interest in terms of having his own child! If that is what you call selfish, so be it.

Why should a man compromise his innate desire to have his offsprings just because of a woman who would most likely not agree to marry him if he didn't have money Why?

Having his own offsprings is the only thing a man gains from marriage for all the expectations and responsibilities he has to shoulder in the marriage, hence he must not compromise that for whatever reasons.


PS: my advice to married men and future husbands is to always double-check any fertility test results before accepting that they're the ones with fertility problem! We've seen many cases where the wife connive with doctors to pin the blame for infertility on their husbands in order to shift attention and stop the man from chasing them away.

Nothing new. What I found interesting is she put (f) for her and her husband she put (m). In these transgender and same sex marriage times unless stated... we can't tell if the wife is female or the husband male.

legitnow1:


OP, AS IF U WILL STAY WITH HIM, IF IT WAS HIM THAT WAS IMPOTENT.


I KNOW OF A FRIEND OF MINE RECENTLY, WHO FOUND OUT HE WAS IMPOTENT.


HIS WIFE LEFT ALREADY.



WE TELL THEM, TO BRING BACK THE AFRICAN WAY BUT THEY RATHER SUFFER.

Lolz