ahnie:
The Lady I usually buys bean n plantain from recently left her marriage.

She's a mum of 4 kids and married to an asaba man.apparently she was the bread winner in her home footing all the bills

Her husband went behind her back and wildrew all the money she had in her account without her knowing.

She got to know when she went to
The bank to make wildrawals only to be her account has bn emptied.

erniok:

The Asaba man must be called out. The impression that Asaba men are useless must be created at all cost.

BigBlackPreek:
this your story self get as e be... she's has 4.5million yet they all lives in the husbands father's house and they cant afford to rent 3 bedroom flat...... rewrite your story abeg, e no clear

ahnie:

Kid you not....77 percent of them are use.less....except those that are not breed there.

No apologies.

ahnie:
■ He's trying to run the business I got my order from there this morning,but the food nor taste like the one wey the wife dey prepare.
■ Wetin he even waste that whooping sum of money put sef nahim de pain everybody....na things wey nor get head.

erniok:

The story too dey blurred my brother. Savings account that only the account holder have access to is what the husband now also have access to.

Kobojunkie:
How long has he been trying to run the business? Hope he is not using the kids as slaves abeg?

2. No point crying over spilt milk abeg!

ahnie:

She normally send him to make wildrawals for her as she's always busy in the shop.

Beremx:
she should have left with the kids instead of leaving them with the useless husband of hers. He didn't even steal the money to invest in it, instead he squandered it on nonsense and ingredients.
Lord knows how she intends to get her money back sha.
It is well

erniok:

I knew it. The attack was targeted at Asaba men.

MadamVanessa:




I can't be emotional now and start hauling abuses and insults on the man, even though I know that majority of men are useless. I will have my opinion on this when I hear the man side of the story. There must be a reason for every action. Don't be fóolish to take side ,not untill you hear from the both side and then you judge it objectively.

ahnie:
The Lady I usually buys bean n plantain from recently left her marriage.

She's a mum of 4 kids and married to an asaba man.apparently she was the bread winner in her home footing all the bills

Her husband went behind her back and wildrew all the money she had in her account without her knowing.

She got to know when she went to
The bank to make wildrawals only to be her account has bn emptied.

ahnie:
The Lady I usually buys bean n plantain from recently left her marriage.

She's a mum of 4 kids and married to an asaba man.apparently she was the bread winner in her home footing all the bills

Her husband went behind her back and wildrew all the money she had in her account without her knowing.

She got to know when she went to
The bank to make wildrawals only to be her account has bn emptied.

Beremx:
it's her choice to leave the kids with their father, good luck to her. If na me, I don pack my children waka. No time

ahnie:
The Lady I usually buys bean n plantain from recently left her marriage.

She's a mum of 4 kids and married to an asaba man.apparently she was the bread winner in her home footing all the bills

Her husband went behind her back and wildrew all the money she had in her account without her knowing.

She got to know when she went to
The bank to make wildrawals only to be her account has bn emptied.

ceejay80s:

Oga na lie
Present day Nigeria...U cant withdraw from a bank account that is not it's and the woman isn't foolish enough to have a joint account with the husband...
Nairaland cooked story just to get richer with traffic

ahnie:
She confronted her husband why he went behind her to lift money from her account,he lied that he used the funds to get a piece of land as he was still living in his father's house with his wife ,kids,his mum and some of his siblings n their kids.


When he was asked to go show them the land which he claimed to have bought.... surprisingly he confessed that there was no land and he has blew the monies on lil girls and frivolities.

Fountainofyouth:



The bolded, so if we conclude that all men are thieves because a man stole, hope you won't be offended

You think women are like the time of old that will keep taking bullshit when a man misbehaves? Be rest assured that many women are beginning to realise that they did not single handedly give birth to their kids alone and taking care of kids is not their sole responsibility, so leaving them is not out of place, they are with their father not a stranger

So oga, we will believe ahnie because it happened in her vicinity, if you want to be physically there to meet the useless man or you want ahnie to take you to the useless man's house, start by sending a mail to her, then continue the process from there, very simple.

TheWinterBird:
And she didn't press charges against him for fraud?

ahnie:
The Lady I usually buys bean n plantain from recently left her marriage.

She's a mum of 4 kids and married to an asaba man.apparently she was the bread winner in her home footing all the bills

Her husband went behind her back and wildrew all the money she had in her account without her knowing.

Good riddance!
She got to know when she went to
The bank to make wildrawals only to be her account has bn emptied.

ahnie:

Will love still shack you to come back?
That's if he sent emissaries to come beg you to forgive him

oweniwe:
■ It is her fault.10 men may be asking a lady's hand in marriage, it is up to her to choose one out of the ten men to be her husband. During the payment of dowry, they will ask her: is this the man you want to marry? She will say yes. So if a woman ends up with a 'bad' husband, she is the one that accepted him out of the many men toasting her.
It is her fault. Let her carry her cross

ahnie:

All these you suggested na waste of time n funds wey nor kuku dey.

ahnie:



Reasons for this post is.... her husband is still bragging that what belongs to his wife also belongs to him,that he has rights to spend the money


My question is....who's to be blamed?
Should we blame the woman for being too lax with her ATM CARD N PIN which her husband is privy to?

OR

The man that blew the wife's money on frivolities