Pootle:


no mind the dumb mods moving rubbish to fp, nonsense story she brew to create hate

The story looks fabricated, but one can learn one or two things from it.

what belongs to his wife also belongs to him:

why didn't she open a separate bank account??

ahnie:
The wife almost collapse and burst into hot tears,both families were called for a meeting with the lady opening saying she's done with the marriage as it seems to have taken a toil on her being the bread winner.
As I write she has abandoned their kids with the man and went away with taking anything from their home to another town to start a fresh life.


Reasons for this post is....her husband is still bragging that what belongs to his wife also belongs to him,that he has rights to spend the money


My question is....who's to be blamed?
Should we blame the woman for being too lax with her ATM CARD N PIN which her husband is privy to?

OR

The man that blew the wife's money on frivolities

tundebasic:
@obinna58, what is wrong with the woman leaving the kids with their father?

It’s a case of they don’t usually do, judging that with the rest of the story makes a conclusion of the teller knows nothing about the real story

How on earth will she have her life savings in an ATM card with the Pin known by her husband.?
Your life savings account shouldn't even have an ATM card not to talk of the one with an already known pin.
On another note, doesn't she get alert on every withdrawal? Abi which kind story be this?

but he still has the land?

ahnie:
He has squandered it...and not a dime is with him nne.

that serves her right. treating the husband like a servant

ahnie:

She normally send him to make wildrawals for her as she's always busy in the shop.

Flattire:
How on earth will she have her life savings in an ATM card with the Pin known by her husband.?
Your life savings account shouldn't even have an ATM card not to talk of the one with an already known pin.
On another note, doesn't she get alert on every withdrawal? Abi which kind story be this?

A man that is jobless for that matter. The man will just be checking the balance anytime she asks him to go and withdraw cash. In his mind, he'll feel like, "my wife has money o, chai!"

Lovemeharder:
That man is worst than an infidel. Gosh! Wicked man!

Lovemeharder??

frog12:
but he still has the land?

Which land?
He use the morning take carry women played bets flex, lodged in hotels

wetin you learn from it?

tundebasic:
The story looks fabricated, but one can learn one or two things from it.

my question is....


Why do people hastly right off an individual when an individual errs?

especially when it comes to money.

money is good and important. But have we tried to understand what could have lead to such behaviour?

these is why i never take serious many human anymore.

when they hear He commit suicide.... same people will still call him names.

my point is people are going through allot in these life. let love lead.

That man might be more better person than most of us who has stoned him to death already.

Please people life first before money.

money can always be made as long there is life.

That i why our wifes leave when there is no more money.

it only shows money is first in our lifes

hahahah
that serves the woman right. treating the husband like a servant

ahnie:

Which land?
He use the morning take carry women played bets flex, lodged in hotels

Fountainofyouth:


I have two kids dummy

Na you get fish brain, cos only a fish brain will think living kids with their father is a taboo.

I can bet my life you have never been pregnant and
You’re escalating things, I never said it’s a taboo, it’s actually beautiful but they don’t.

What makes you think a man would want to remain with one woman if actually he can get his kids

frog12:
hahahah
that serves the woman right. treating the husband like a servant

Dem go reconcile laslas I believe.

Fountainofyouth:



Really? So a man can be a thief who then tells his fiancee that's he's a thief if she can cope with his personality, and he would have definitely shown his thieving behaviour to her before marriage abi?

Or is it laziness, he would have shown his lazy and entitlement personality to her before they got married abi?

Nairaland sef 😒

Aha, na wa o

Yahoo boys are not thieves?

Are you saying yahoo boys don't have wives and girlfriends or they don't get married?

Are you saying yahoo boys girlfriends don't know they are thieves?

Don Waney the kidnapper no get wife?

Now ask yourself your question again

obinna58:

I can bet my life you have never been pregnant and
You’re escalating things, I never said it’s a taboo, it’s actually beautiful but they don’t.

What makes you think a man would want to remain with one woman if actually he can get his kids

You are defining my reality for me? Are you okay at all?

Keep twisting and twisting things to suit your narrative, it further shows that you men are useless without women in your lives.

tundebasic:
The story looks fabricated, but one can learn one or two things from it.

nothing to learn jus some poverty stricken family suffering from the poor economy

the moment family members hear story, dem go reconcile them. but the man mad ooo

ahnie:

Dem go reconcile laslas I believe.

oweniwe:


Aha, na wa o

Yahoo boys are not thieves?

Are you saying yahoo boys don't have wives and girlfriends or they don't get married?

Are you saying yahoo boys girlfriends don't know they are thieves?

Don Waney the kidnapper no get wife?

Now ask yourself your question again

So all men wey dey thief na yahoo dem dey do? They ones wey dey rob at night, come home and tell their wives say na night security jobs or another excuse dem dey do, na yahoo be that? And you went to school

MadamVanessa:




I can't be emotional now and start hauling abuses and insults on the man, even though I know that majority of men are useless. I will have my opinion on this when I hear the man side of the story. There must be a reason for every action. Don't be fóolish to take side ,not untill you hear from the both side and then you judge it objectively.

Hmmmm .... I'm beginning to fall in love with your mentality.

Always listen to both sides of the story.

E get why.

Keep it up darling.

May wisdom never departed from you and your family.

frog12:
wetin you learn from it?

Well, I'm a content creator cum creative writer, so every story is important to me (there's always something to learn).

She wasn't receiving alert

Abi this is one of your numerous antiman stories

Your finger don get ring, say na man or woman

@ahnie life story. Most stories here on Nairaland are one-sided, but if this your life story is true then your husband or should I call him ex, is a useless man, an enemy of progress.

MadamVanessa:




I can't be emotional now and start hauling abuses and insults on the man, even though I know that majority of men are useless. I will have my opinion on this when I hear the man side of the story. There must be a reason for every action. Don't be fóolish to take side ,not untill you hear from the both side and then you judge it objectively.

Just as the women are too

Mimicle101:
my question is....


Why do people hastly right off an individual when an individual errs?

especially when it comes to money.

money is good and important. But have we tried to understand what could have lead to such behaviour?

these is why i never take serious many human anymore.

when they hear He commit suicide.... same people will still call him names.

my point is people are going through allot in these life. let love lead.

That man might be more better person than most of us who has stoned him to death already.

Please people life first before money.

money can always be made as long there is life.

That i why our wifes leave when there is no more money.

it only shows money is first in our lifes

Money runs all things in nigeria

The oyinbos avoided this mistake

Lovemeharder:
That man is worst than an infidel. Gosh! Wicked man!

He doesn't deserve to live. His offence is treason bcoz his intention was to kill the wife. If not, why would you go behind to withdraw life savings of your spouse? He intend to kill her and bcoz of that, he too doesn't deserve to live.

the lesson here be say: keep anything of value away from untrusted people.
the woman did not know the husband has bad character
i suspect she knew but decided to ignore it.

tundebasic:
Well, I'm a content creator cum creative writer, so every story is important to me (there's always something to learn).

money runs everything in oyinboland too

soccerlite:



Money runs all things in nigeria

The oyinbos avoided this mistake

Fountainofyouth:



So all men wey dey thief na yahoo dem dey do? They ones wey dey rob at night, come home and tell their wives say na night security jobs or another excuse dem dey do, na yahoo be that? And you went to school

Well, women and accountability are opposite.

Everyone is responsible for the choices they made.

If the choice turns out to be fine, okay.

If the choice turns out to be bad, we accept responsibility, learn and move on and not blame the other party.

Shifting blame for bad choices made is one of the things women do

What mumu woman would produce four pikens for a lazy non bread winning grown boy? Can't call him a man.
And why would she allow the broke bum of a husband to have access to her assets?
Story sounds fake.🤔

Fountainofyouth:



You are defining my reality for me? Are you okay at all?

Keep twisting and twisting things to suit your narrative, it further shows that you men are useless without women in your lives.

It’s the other way round, men are not the one making fp news every time praying for husbands, men are still not the one making videos of being single and lonely and wanting husband

oweniwe:


Well, women and accountability are opposite.

Everyone is responsible for the choices they made.

If the choice turns out to be fine, okay.

If the choice turns out to be bad, we accept responsibility, learn and move on and not blame the other party.

Shifting blame for bad choices made is one of the things women do

So the man's evil behaviour is the wife's fault, but if reverse was the case this thread would have been on its 12th page filled with insults of women generally, continue to excuse the wickedness of a grown asś man as usual, the rest of you are no different.