We keep blaming the government but our parents is the cause of 90% of the problems we face today.
As a man, you know you can't even feed three square a meal or pay your rents yet you still go ahead and get married.
Start giving birth to kids you can't cater for yet you keep blaming the government.
You are worse than the devil himself.

E go better...


Naim cos am!

bbff

The society as whole is to be blamed.

Africa mentality

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Let the Poor Married FoOooLs breathe

Sirchiboy:
We keep blaming the government but our parents is the cause of 90% of the problems we face today.
As a man, you know you can't even feed three square a meal or pay your rents yet you still go ahead and get married.
Start giving birth to kids you can't cater for yet you keep blaming the government.
You are worse than the devil himself.

How e take concern you

Children blame parent
Parents blames government
Who this government go blame like this sef

Societal pressure

The north is guilty of this the most..

Why did u go to school knowing fully well that ur degree won't earn u a job?

I hope that answers ur question

Very annoying habit thereby constituting nuisance to the society.

Don't allow any evening newspaper to tell you things will get better, marriage is a blessing, poverty go kill you scatter

I know of someone that married because her husband is an errand boy to a politician. Presently they're no longer in power, hunger dun finish her and husband

Birth control should be considered in this contemporaneous era

Single mothers are not left out as well. Imagine having 10 children for 5 different fathers and you want the father to be responsible for those step children ?

Marriage is not a taboo for a poor man but having too many children when things is not getting better is a sin as God is not against pregnancy control but detest abortion.

Anyway, i think the mentality is changing rapidly

Pressure

Sirchiboy:
We keep blaming the government but our parents is the cause of 90% of the problems we face today.
As a man, you know you can't even feed three square a meal or pay your rents yet you still go ahead and get married.
Start giving birth to kids you can't cater for yet you keep blaming the government.
You are worse than the devil himself.

I am very sure that you are still not of age and your level of immaturity is alarmingly extreme.

Mtcheeeeeeew!

"God will provide" is always their anthem

Government is the problem. People must marry.

So what! You want such person to die childless?

Societal pressure.
The kind of pressure society put on single guys sometimes is unbearable.

People will look down on you, deny you opportunities, call you gay/impotent/irresponsible, constantly frustrate you, question you in every family gathering, sideline you, cut half the benefits apportioned for you just because you are not a family man.

You know the answer already. It's the society we're in. If you're unmarried at a certain age (even if you have nothing) people will keep encouraging you to get married . Your family will talk and talk, your pastor will want to recommend someone (and tell you to start from where you are), you'll even get referrals and matchmaking opportunities.
So people who are not even financially capable will also yield to this societal pressure. After all, there are many in similar conditions and them they "rough am" too

Life is full of uncertainty

Kingray10:
The north is guilty of this the most..

Die this talk, this daughters of eve will tell you I will support you. If you hear this '' run for your life ''


Flee oOoOO, you will die because of poverty

Hope!....
Hope for a better tommorow cum livelihood.

Even those who can cater for theirs still rely on "hope" that they will continue being able to supply their family's needs as job loss can shatter that "I can cater" status.

May God help us all

You won't let them rest when they don't marry.
They marry and you won't let them rest still.
They marry rich ancestors, wahala.
They build career before marriage, wahala.
They marry for papers, double wahala.

I hope people can see that world people must talk? Last last only you go bear the outcome of your decisions. Use your head. 🤝