1TrippleCee:



Go and have your own boy in Europe without maternal care and see what turns out of him. Hypocrites

membranus:


I have my own boy in America without maternal care and he is doing well.

Mr. Bigger Hypocrite.

1TrippleCee:



Lol. Did you state the guardianship care he is under? Place a boy without quality character mentorship and reap the rewards in their later years. Full

membranus:


He is under the guardianship of GOD, as well as many like him over there who are equally doing well, and thanking the same GOD who give them the opportunity to escape this living hell called Nigeria.

Mr. Bigger Fool, are you now satisfied.

1TrippleCee:



Ofcourse, hypocrites cant come out clean. Uou think i expect less. About Nigeria being hell, parents and kids grow and bond through growth process. You are not God to determine the boys destiny would amount to nothing being in Nigeria or that he cant relocate from Nigeria much later.

membranus:


You seize opportunity as it comes to you, this is the boy's opportunity, let him make use of it. Once an opportunity is lost, it can never be regained.

1TrippleCee:




Are you God to determine that if he doesnt travel now he can never amount to anything ever again?

Is it not in this same Nigeria, peple like Davido, Ayra Starr, Tems made it ?


If that is the case, fine, no sane human being likes a bad thing. He should process the guardian being the mothers visa. And if they are in the same terrain if he likes he can have the kid 70% of times. If this woman were your sister, would you give the same counsel? Knowing fully well if the child crosses he will take advantage that she cant and up to 25-30 years she wont hear from the boy again. What do you people stand to gain from supporting lies and hypocrisies?

membranus:


What makes think the boy will forget his mother just by travelling abroad with his father? How many of our children have have forgotten their mothers by going overseas? The bond of motherhood is greater than the bond of fatherhood. For example, my boy who has gone abroad years ago calls and rewards his mother more than me, even though I was the financer of his journey abroad.

So, it is good to allow the boy to go.

Besides, what are we arguing about, the decision to go or not lies not with us, and the argument is already stale.

And it is Sunday, I will rather spend this time with my GOD.

Goodbye.

1TrippleCee:




Since you lack discernment, go and find where to get it from

BlackfyreRebell:
Please advice me
My ex husband and I are divorced 2 years ago. He recently acquired an European citizenship, he also wants to extend the citizenship to our son. Though I thought it a good idea but I can't shake the feeling that he is trying to use that to take him away from me.
He told me our son will need to come over there to finish the process of his citizenship. But when I went to submit the "application" what I saw on it is different from what he told me. The paper read that I am consenting to my son to go and reunite with his father. Or is that the way they process it?
Please those that have gone through same should please come to my aid, this is my only child and I can't afford to lose my child this way.

1TrippleCee:
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Kids. Its not a out cutting the boy off the father and father from son. The dad in this scenario is the one playing games that as usual never ends well

1TrippleCee:



You are an hypocritical chauvinist and extreme woman hater. If it is about all the good for the son, he should relocate the guardian with the boy, blind bat

saintnegroid:
you are bittered. Probably you must have had some hard times because of your bad manners and you want another person to fall into your pit. Note this... That woman will never take your advice.... She has already seen how bittered you are, hence she knows that your advice is borne out of hatred. A wise word says.. manners makes a man. Change to a better person and God will bless you. That's all I can say

lawrenzooo:


My Dad's friend who is Canadian wanted to take me to Canada after secondary school for studies after asking if I would be interested and I answered in the affirmative.

All of a sudden the man went mute, after about 3 months I asked the man and he said my parent didn't consent, when i eventually asked my parent i realized it was my dad that refused, its been 18 years now and our relationship never remained the same.

Whatever decision you make put the child's interest first.

1TrippleCee:
Lawyers are not as expensive as people assume. Find and speak with a lawyer. Moreso, your son needs you, not an European visa. If he wants to get his son a visa, he should begin with the guardian first, in this case, you the mother.


You are a woman and a mother. Trust your guts, you are your prophet

BlackfyreRebell:

What of a motherly influence? he just under 10.
The fact that he is being deceitful is what I dont understand. What if he takes him there and cut all communication with me? what if he fills his head with things he resent about me and I lose my son's love and affection?

olayinka63:
@BlackfyreRebell has the Son's father providing child support and upkeep before this recent travel plan? Since the child is 10 years old. Has he been providing regular support for the last 10 years? If yes, you can allow the child to go but with a well spelt out plan of how to communicate with the child and how the child will visit you or you visit him. This plan should be endorsed by a court of law or lawyer.

If he has not been regularly providing child support for the last 10 years, I advise not sending the child across. Let him also work on court or lawyer process on how to get across to his child. This process will give you the chance to claim all the support cost for the last 10 years.

Regards.

Sanchez01:

BlackfyreRebell:
Please advice me
My ex husband and I are divorced 2 years ago. He recently acquired an European citizenship, he also wants to extend the citizenship to our son. Though I thought it a good idea but I can't shake the feeling that he is trying to use that to take him away from me.
He told me our son will need to come over there to finish the process of his citizenship. But when I went to submit the "application" what I saw on it is different from what he told me. The paper read that I am consenting to my son to go and reunite with his father. Or is that the way they process it?
Please those that have gone through same should please come to my aid, this is my only child and I can't afford to lose my child this way.