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Romance › Re: Fulani Women Wanna Marry Southern Guys by 7victor(m): 9:15pm On Dec 22, 2020*

Jashub:
OP, most northern damsels are predominantly muslim and most guys down south are Christians. So a relationship will never work because Islam does not permit such

My brother let me tell you the truth, the whole truth and nothing else but the truth:

You don't need to even talk about hausa/Fulani Muslim ladies.

There are so many hausa/Fulani Christians ladies in the core north that you can marry as a southern man.

In fact they are so many that you should not even consider marrying a Muslim.

Where I stay,on a Sunday morning in the school chapel, 99 percent of the hundreds of students who come for fellowship are Fulani Christians.

Then you go to universities, polytechnics and colleges of education chapels and see thousands of young fresh Fulani males and females Christians.

So many of the ladies are single and would readily agree to marry you.

So it is up to anyone who wants a Fulani lady.

Just go up North and marry a sister in Christ and you will not regret it.

I repeat it: You don't need a hausa/Fulani Muslim girl since there are millions of hausa/Fulani Christian girls to pick from.

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Education › Re: "Who We Sent Vs Who They Returned To Us"- Boy Loses Weight In School (Pix) by 7victor(m): 8:41pm On Dec 21, 2020*

The truth is that in boarding schools senior students will be beating and punishing you.

In the dining, you would not get enough food to eat.

There is the compound work and other non academic school work to do.

There is fear always and someone is always on the lookout to avoid being punished by the senior students.

There are some students who do "skipping" to avoid being punished/beaten by senior students or to avoid doing some type of strenous work.

You wake up very early by 5am,bath cold water sometime outside where there is cold air blowing.

Your life in a boarding school is regimented.

If you fail to follow the regimented life and rules of the boarding school, you will be punished.

All these contribute to make a hitherto fat student to become lean.

I was a boarding student so I am in a good position to explain these things.

Although I didn't enjoy the experience until I myself became a senior student,

when I think of the experiences now, I really enjoy the thoughts of it all.

It was an experience that I now look back at with so much pleasure.

I can't stop thinking about those good old days.

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Travel › Re: Can You Believe This is Nigeria? Travelling As A Single Nigerian Lady (Pics) by 7victor(m): 8:55am On Dec 16, 2020*

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Politics › Re: Buhari Takes One-Week Visit To Daura by 7victor(m): 11:36pm On Dec 11, 2020*

Crime › Re: Woman Beaten By Mob In Nasawara For Kidnapping Children by 7victor(m): 1:34pm On Dec 11, 2020

Things are happening in this country.

The other time,a lady gave testimony in church that she entered keke and soon became unconscious.

When she opened her eyes she saw herself in a thick forest.

She saw women's heads that have been cut lying on the floor in the forest.

Some of the heads wore attachments and nice hairs.

Some of the heads were very beautiful with beautiful faces.

God later helped her and she escaped from the place.

Please we need to be very careful and also pray for God's favour and protection as we go about our normal business.

As you are going about your business,there is someone who is planning something against you which you do not know.

They may know you but you may not know them.

Don't think that because you are at peace with everyone that no one will target you.

There could be someone who is planning to use you for rituals,is planning to take your house/land from you or is planning to kidnap you.

So we need to pray.

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Romance › Re: Why Are People So Much Afraid Of Death by 7victor(m): 1:26am On Dec 11, 2020

millionboi2:
Who knows?

Many people always use this slams,"Do You know who I am?

But fears death

Who knows?

Op help me take this to FP,I really need to know.

There are many factors that have contributed to the fear of death.

One is the fear of going to hell.

The second is the fear of leaving behind your loved ones who truly need and cherish you. You wonder what will become of them and how they will feel/cope

The third is the fear of being mocked by those who hate you.They will be happy that you have died.

The fourth is that you and/or your family and some other people believe you would be some one great in the future.
Therefore you fear dying without fulfilling people's expectations concerning you.

The fifth is the fear of what lies ahead after death.The fear of the unknown.

But I read a story of a man who died and went to the other world.

He was asked to come back to the earth because it was not yet his time.

He said fear caught him.

He was afraid of the life of this earth even more than we on the earth fear death.

That means some people when they leave this earth at death, they fear the life of this earth even more than we on earth fear death.

According to the story, the man said he discovered that the life of the earth is actually death.When we die, that is when we actually awake and live.

He said at the cessation of the earthly life,we will discover that this earthly life is not real.The life of this earth is death.

The real life is when we die on earth.

Moreover scientists believe that the consciousness of each of us is an energy.

Since energy cannot be destroyed but can be transformed from one state to another, when we die, the consciousness is released from our bodies into the universe.

That is, you are released into the universe.

That is when we really feel alive,

since life in the body looks unreal due to the limitations our bodies is placing on our consciousness.

But at death, we are free from the body and we feel really alive and connected with everything else.

We lost our individuality which living in the body gives us.

Consequently,we exist every where and we become part of everything that exist.

That is, we are no longer an individual but we are everything,we know everything and we exist every where.

You will have the greatest joy and peace imaginable.

That is according to latest proposition by scientists.

Whether that is true or not, one thing is sure,

If you are the son of God through faith in Jesus Christ, your life after death is going to be glorious.

You will enjoy the greatest love,joy, peace and pleasure imaginable when you die in Jesus Christ.

Romance › Re: Why Are People So Much Afraid Of Death by 7victor(m): 1:10am On Dec 11, 2020*

There are many factors that have contributed to the fear of death.

One is the fear of going to hell.

The second is the fear of leaving behind your loved ones who truly need and cherish you. You wonder what will become of them and how they will feel/cope.

The third is the fear of being mocked by those who hate you.They will be happy that you have died.

The fourth is that you and/or your family and some other people believe you would be some one great in the future.
Therefore you fear dying without fulfilling people's expectations concerning you.

The fifth is the fear of what lies ahead after death.The fear of the unknown.

But I read a story of a man who died and went to the other world.

He was asked to come back to the earth because it was not yet his time.

He said fear caught him.

He was afraid of the life of this earth even more than we on the earth fear death.

That means some people when they leave this earth at death, they fear the life of this earth even more than we on earth fear death.

According to the story, the man said he discovered that the life of the earth is actually death.When we die, that is when we actually awake and live.

He said at the cessation of the earthly life,we will discover that this earthly life is not real.The life of this earth is death.

The real life is when we die on earth.

Moreover scientists believe that the consciousness of each of us is an energy.

Since energy cannot be destroyed but can be transformed from one state to another, when we die, the consciousness is released from our bodies into the universe.

That is, you are released into the universe.

That is when we really feel alive,

since life in the body looks unreal due to the limitations our bodies is placing on our consciousness.

But at death, we are free from the body and we feel really alive and connected with everything else.

We lost our individuality which living in the body gives us.

Consequently,we exist every where and we become part of everything that exist.

That is, we are no longer an individual but we are everything,we know everything and we exist every where.

You will have the greatest joy and peace imaginable.

That is according to latest proposition by scientists.

Whether that is true or not, one thing is sure,

If you are the son of God through faith in Jesus Christ, your life after death is going to be glorious.

You will enjoy the greatest love,joy, peace and pleasure imaginable when you die in Jesus Christ.

Career › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 6:05pm On Dec 08, 2020

Ibfpleasant:
Best of luck!

Career › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 6:04pm On Dec 08, 2020

koyyes:
Keep it short and precise next time.

Thanks.

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Career › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 6:04pm On Dec 08, 2020

citypeer:
Amen brother. Amen .

Career › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 3:44pm On Dec 08, 2020

A305:
Oh Bob - I salute your level of patience.

In that 2011 - 2018: I had gone to the University, Graduated, Made a little bit of money, Got a car, Became relatively stable with cash flow and all the while, you were still teaching?!?!

Goodness. I hate Nigeria -- Nigeria is truly dysfunctional and a failed country for the youths.

Congratulations.

Although there are people who are also making it in Nigeria.

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Education › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 3:33pm On Dec 08, 2020

Angelacruz:
Wow

Career › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 3:33pm On Dec 08, 2020

free2ryhme:
Stop this nonsense. Must you post it on every page

This is the only thread I have posted it.

Because I saw this topic in Education and Carrer sections, I decided to post it in the two sections in case the op decides to delete one and focus on one section which he thinks is the best section for this thread.

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Career › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 3:31pm On Dec 08, 2020

saasala:
There was actually no need telling us about the ladies who called you from Nairaland as it has nothing to do with the topic. How long did you wait to get a job after graduation? Simple.

Okay sir.

Noted.

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Career › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 3:30pm On Dec 08, 2020

Seyzcham91:
Glory be to God and thank God for your life, i'm happy for you

then a part i gotta talk about where you wrote "the ladies said you were the type every woman would wanna marry but your income is too small"

That statement alone already tell that those ones are gold digger bro. Thank God they left you quickly

Like i used to tell my fellow guys, beware of all these blood sucking Parasites masquerading as Ladies around street, city and Town Taking a relationship/marriage as some sort of burden relief institution

one can hardly get a lady that loves genuinely these days
Guys watch out anyway! me no kuku carry woman for head like dreadlock. i no even remember the last time i decided to call a lady, asking out or calling to come greet me cuz after everything na my pocket and account go suffer am so whats the fucking point?

Ok.

Career › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 3:28pm On Dec 08, 2020

arsenal444:
Na dat one dem ask u?

You know when I was typing, I suddenly remembered that other one also.

I believed that I recalled it so I could share it.

I tried not to share it but I found out that I had already started writing about it.

Career › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 3:24pm On Dec 08, 2020

Onyi22:
What about marriage, am interested

Career › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 3:23pm On Dec 08, 2020

capitalR:
[b][/b][i][/i]wonderful, this is a testimony and I key into it IN Jesus name

Amen.

Career › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 3:22pm On Dec 08, 2020

slydog:
I love this. Similar to mine.
I left nysc in Feb 2011, started looking for job and immediately enrolled for a master's degree, when I was about completing my msc, got a job in a bank in December 2012 and I've been working since then. I'm eight years in the banking industry this year and completed my PhD two years ago. I intend leaving the industry next year March to anything field outstanding banking.

Congrats sir.

I pray that the same way you finished your PhD, I will finish mine next year.

With God all things are possible.

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Career › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 3:19pm On Dec 08, 2020

Ibfpleasant:
Were you able to meet a lady who approached you first and finally got married ?

One lady has a big provision store.

She said she loved me because I have a gentle nature.

She asked me to marry her and I have accepted.

She said she is willing to close her provision store and join me in the state I am lecturing.

But I have told her not to do so because the shop brings in good money for her.

We are still discussing and soon anything can happen.

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Education › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 8:05pm On Dec 07, 2020

paulemmy19:
e go shock them to see your wedding card

Education › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 6:45pm On Dec 07, 2020

paulemmy19:
are the girls back? congrats that you now got a job. live long to enjoy your labor's fruits

Thanks.

The girls don't know I have got job although we do communicate.

I mean platonic communication like How are you.How is family etc.

Education › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 6:40pm On Dec 07, 2020

bukas15:
pls which grade did u graduate with

For BSc I had second class upper.

For MSc, I also have second class upper although they don't write the grade on the certificate for MSc.

Career › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 6:37pm On Dec 07, 2020

kalu61:
Wow, congratulations.

I tap into your blessing.

I'm going the lecturing too.

5 years down. I was supposed to M.Sc in March before strike and lockdown. I hope to land my dream job next year if things plays out fine.

Academic career is dam time consuming in this part of the world.

Amen.It will work out according to your expectations.

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Education › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 2:36pm On Dec 07, 2020

Ekemeze:
Perfect response to a senseless being

Education › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 2:33pm On Dec 07, 2020

Sandypearl:
congrats dear. I hope to get a job soon too. Not easy at all

Thank you.

God will make it easy.

Amen.

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Education › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 2:32pm On Dec 07, 2020

Ohthinktwice:
Thanks for sharing.

You are welcome.

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Career › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 8:09am On Dec 07, 2020

Kenneygirl:
wowww

Thank you.

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Education › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 8:08am On Dec 07, 2020

heykims:
Who send u story, wetin concern us about the tale of fleeing two sensible ladies?
Just answer when u got job, shikena.

Thanks.

Education › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 8:07am On Dec 07, 2020

lincsnuel:
Mehn you really went into details...

Yes.

Education › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 8:06am On Dec 07, 2020

obyrich:
Congrats. Women and short-sightedness. I don't blame them, I blame their pastors and motivational speakers who teach them nonsense about life. They teach them to aim high without teaching them discernment.

Thanks.

Career › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Get A Job After You Graduated From The University? by 7victor(m): 12:16am On Dec 07, 2020

Immediately I finished my NYSC in 2010,I was given an appointment letter to start working in a bank with a salary of N2,200,000 CTC which translated to about N183,000 per month.

I did the documentation in the bank but at the nick of starting the job fully, the job was stopped by CBN.

That is how I lost the opportunity.

I started teaching in private schools from 2011 to 2018.

During that time, I came to nairaland and wrote that I needed a tall,slim,dark, beautiful girl for marriage.

I wrote my number in case a lady wanted to call because I have discovered that I love a lady more if she is the one who first approach me for relationship.

If I first approach a lady, I can easily leave her without thinking twice.

But if she is the one that first comes to me, I use to find it hard to leave her and even if she leaves me, I use to find it hard to forget her.

That is my discovery about myself.

So I wanted a situation where I will be able to love my woman so much and hold onto her forever.

That was why I wanted a lady to first call me and indicate her interest in me.

So I wrote my number in case a lady would have the presence of mind to call me for marriage so that I could marry her.

Two girls actually called but when I wanted to get serious with them,they backed out because what I was earning in private schools was peanut.

Although they didn't just leave me suddenly, but they were playing hide and seek and didn't want to immediately get married.

They said I was the kind of man a woman would love to marry but that my income was too small.

These two girls were in their early twenties so they were not under pressure to marry.

They were still taking their time.

I said no problem.

Then last year,God answered my prayers and gave me a lecturing job.

So I waited 9 years after NYSC to get a lecturing job.

During those 9 years,I got a Master and I am currently running a PhD.

Glory be to God.

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