hell no, not  my guy  

godman01:

This depends on different relationship. It shouldn't be generalized.

^^^^Thank u pls don't generalize because my guy is different

i need a girl to spend on me, can you imagine a girl asking her Bf for school fee na him send am go school? him no get papa ni abegi

^^^^ egbon which levels na?

wat is this poster talking about?

When i have seen girls that say we r spending too much. . . ur lost ooo

cynthiafred67:



^^^^Thank u pls don't generalize because my guy is different

Dont repeat this next time, so u wont come underfire

@op

I think female empowerment should be instilled on ladies so that ish like this would not be an issue. Or what do you think? Its a man's money so he has a right to use it as he chooses, you know why? Cos he worked for it and earned it. So the lady should do the same.

Though its not an avenue for a man to be stingy or not to do his role but there is not much a man can do as all men are not the same, its best for a lady to be prepared to make her money in case her man is d stingy type or he looses his money later on in the relationship.

iyatrustee:

^^^^ egbon which levels na?

iya i dey ooo i have been where you ask me to be since oo

So Silly. Many women don't like to spend on guys and expect guys to do all the spending. Its only a selfish person that would bring up such topic,

odiaero:

Dont repeat this next time, so u wont come underfire

Who do u mean?

Well I once personally told a girl "I will like to be you mugu" ,  I didn't care if she saw me as one or if her friends or my friends did,  I'm spending and dont want anything back because I'm happy spending.

And now that I have kids , I'm super mugu to them. You can tell when they request for unnecessary things or just trying to scope you. But I've been there; done that

Yes, you be mugu.

First of all, nigerian men want to eat their cake and have it. Some do not want to spend on their girls but expect her love, commitment, body, faithfulness etc. A man will tahe care of you if he really cares about you. Yes more african women are educated these days and are independent but no matter who she is she will be a woman in the relationship and therefore under her husband. Women are made (by nature) to 'receive' - at least that's what one of my client told me a while ago. Personally I am give gifts to my man only when I have been receiving from him. I have a good job and I'm lucky that my man is generous to me as well. I can't stand a selfish man at all and I don't that any woman should tolerate such a man.

your client

how makete

jenny2007:

First of all, nigerian men want to eat their cake and have it. Some do not want to spend on their girls but expect her love, commitment, body, faithfulness etc. A man will tahe care of you if he really cares about you. Yes more african women are educated these days and are independent but no matter who she is she will be a woman in the relationship and therefore under her husband. Women are made (by nature) to 'receive' - at least that's what one of my client told me a while ago. Personally I am give gifts to my man only when I have been receiving from him. I have a good job and I'm lucky that my man is generous to me as well. I can't stand a selfish man at all and I don't that any woman should tolerate such a man.

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foo, why should a man take care of you ? cant you take care of yourself?. women r not made by nature to rcv but the selfish ones are the ones that want to receive