I-man:

That is a major problem

What problem?

I don't know about 'beyond' any reasonable doubt oh, all these feelings based love is crap mostly

people say love is a decision, you can make it, but it may not be beyond doubt.

Imani:

What problem?

"Beyond reasonable doubt".Love is essentially irrational,so its always subject to reasonable doubt.

debosky:

I don't know about 'beyond' any reasonable doubt oh, all these feelings based love is crap mostly

people say love is a decision, you can make it, but it may not be beyond doubt.

You may have a point.

For me, falling in love is the foundation of a relationship. However, one cannot live on just foundation. The foundation needs support.

I may love someone that may not be right for me because the other dimensions of the relationship are not right. I look at the total package (physical, emotional, mental, financial, etc maturity).

While i may not always help who i fall in love with, i can choose who i want to be with. It is all about choice and raking an amount of risk for me at least.

so that means we cannot have 'beyond reasonable doubt' at least not when we use our brains

that is the blind version of love that gets some people into big messes most of the time.

While i will use my God given brain in choosing a patner, It will be someone i know i love without any doubts.


I am surprised at stories of people marrying their spouses only to discover they were never really in love, maybe it was the personality, charm, charisma etc they loved rather than the person themselves.

However, sometimes, the love sometimes "goes away or dies". I keep hearing "true love never dies". But i am sure it is the need for companionship that is still keeping many relationships together rather than feelings of love.

this love thing is just too nebulous for me, who can truly 'know' they are in love? how would you define this so called love?

debosky:

this love thing is just too nebulous for me, who can truly 'know' they are in love? how would you define this so called love?

Please reduce the big grammer abeg.

I have read some of your posts and looks like you are a ladies man, which may be why you have have issues with the love thing

dat one no be big grammar oh, na laywer I-man tish me oh

me ladies man? lai lai, I am innocent of all charges. I need a woman to loff me oh!

Imani:

I have read some of your posts and looks like you are a ladies man, which may be why you have have issues with the love thing

Glad you noticed I have been lecturing him about it.

Seriously,I can't envisage loving without reasonable doubt. To doubt is human

debosky:

that one no be big grammar oh, na laywer I-man tish me oh

me ladies man? lai lai, I am innocent of all charges. I need a woman to loff me oh!

What of all the battles for female nairalanders


Being goodlooking doesn't mean you have to like all the ladies.


If you need a woman to loff you, maybe you should start by loving one and see what happens.

Yes

Imani that is not fair, nairaland females are my sisters, is it wrong to fight for their rights?

I am ready to loff any woman who will loff me in return. in short I should open my own "I need a Girl' thread

@topic
Not sure about ever being in LOVE, but I did fall hopelessly in LUST, twice

If we wine pon de river, you'll fall in lust for the third time mami, Vincentian stylee

debosky:

If we wine pon de river, you'll fall in lust for the third time mami, Vincentian stylee

did i hear something??

Ok, I thought so,

mouth mek fuh talk, but ah hope u have action to bak it up,

I nah just hav mouf. I'm gon wind ya till da dawn a break, just u wait

debosky:

I nah just hav mouth. I'm gon wind ya till da dawn a break, just u wait

lard hav mercy, dis buoy tink me ah weak hart, OK,, me hope wen yo drop from winerism yo nah blame me, coz me did warn yo brethren,


"tremble it and raise it up, raise it up, raise it up" ahhhhh, can't wait to ketch yo pon de highway,

when I raise it up and ya back it up, da wining moves from highway to dancefloor boomba

debosky:

when I raise it up and ya back it up, da wining moves from highway to dancefloor boomba

seems like we are going to have to get a few lessons in before i fly you ah yard. last ting me want is to tek you fo a jammin an u carn jam, what ah stress, rhatid,


anyway we ginne try,, yo go larn, yo must larn buoy,,,,

me ready to larn if yo be good techa, I ginne larn fast fast in na time at all I be wining like machel

Machel is the winer of ALL winers, So let's start small but think even bigger ,

Buy a hollahoop papi, and start to practice the circular motions, trust me they will come in handy later on,,,,

dat nah problem mami, imma buy an practise from tomorrow.

debosky:

that nah problem mami, I'm going to buy an practise from tomorrow.

Dats ma buoy, Now if you need further instructions you know just where to find me, bowing out now, have to knead that dough boy,
nuff luv, respect,,,,

debosky, na here you dey tiff woman abi? Let me catch you. . .

Better find another woman to wine with!

na u get d woman, comot for hia jare!

debosky:

na u get d woman, comot for hia jare!

e be like say na you go comot for hia o! Abeg leave my sugar alone o! Go and buy another for ur tea.

david na wa oh, you can't wine while I can so the matter is settled, go and look for a yoruba girl to dance fuji with you

who tell you say na winer the chic want? Leave my pasture shooooo! Go and find another girl to wine!

@debosky,


Sorry if my posts implied that you are a serial, chronic womaniser.

apology accepted, I just like wining with my islander ladies, no more

debosky:

apology accepted, I just like wining with my islander ladies, no more

I guess it is in the blood