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White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Wislet(f): 10:42am On Jan 14, 2012 |
White Woman's Opinion of Black Women & a brother's response. Please take a moment and read this. Pretty Deep! Thumbs up to this black man. Enjoy. It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine by a Caucasian woman who requested a response from black men. I'm so glad she got what she asked for (and more) !!! Dear Jamie: I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers. I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male- good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black female's attit udes about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jo nes, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius , Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes, I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know. Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA RESPONSE Dear Jamie: I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl. Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta , Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job a t a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful black men. I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy. The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls. Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white , women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful b lack men date white women. Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth 'Babyface' Edmonds , Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women. And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women.Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed. Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt , you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your history! It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during slavery. It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise! It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could> never> date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them. Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black women. I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the black woman has. BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately, you do not and CANN OT fit the bill. No offense taken, none given. Signed, Black Royalty 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Claus(m): 3:01pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
DAYUM!!! That'll teach her. |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Wislet(f): 6:40pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
Lol. Hope u ain't one of dem? De ones dat put down their women? |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Mynd44: 6:42pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
Sad |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Wislet(f): 6:46pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
wat's sad in particular? |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Mynd44: 7:20pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
The fact that I was too lazy to read what you typed up there |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by drnoel: 8:13pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
thats hot |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Arosa(m): 8:32pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
I just could not resist this, the first guy that replied the oyinbo woman said that michael jordan is married to a black woman. Michael Jordan of the USA Team walks with his girlfriend Yvette Prieto to the closing cermonies during the Final Round Singles Matches of The Presidents Cup at Harding Park Golf Course on October 11, 2009 in San Francisco, California.
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Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Wislet(f): 8:40pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
Mynd_44:awww. Giving my swthrt a good knock |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
Arosa: unfortunately for your "point" this article/response is [size=18pt]YEARS old[/size] and was published back when Jordan was still married to Simone. @wislet stop misleading folks. @topic: i said it back then and i'll say it now big ups to the man who wrote that. |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Wislet(f): 8:45pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
mislead ke? # drawing out her tongue# |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Mynd44: 8:50pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
Wislet:That hurts |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Nobody: 8:51pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
Wislet: |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Wislet(f): 9:05pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
Mynd_44: MsDarkSkin:rofl |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by ronkebp(f): 9:07pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
That reply is just the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and come to think of it, majority of Naija 'boys' that date all these white chicks either do that because of ''green card'' or because they are ''easy'', ''less stress babes''. Isn't that something? |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Arosa(m): 9:09pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
MsDarkSkin: The time deference is besides the point, what i am drawing attention to is the fact that those black men married to the so called strong black women can't wait for the slightest opportunity to switch boat. |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by MrsChima1(f): 10:02pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
Arosa: Then those dumb arse men shouldn't have married the women they aren't happy with. A woman being strong has nothing to do with their sadness nor happiness. They are looking for the 20% they didn't need but only a dumb arse will think 20% is greater than 80%. |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Mynd44: 10:46pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
I just took time to read that and as much as I don'y like putting people in order of their color and race, that dude really nailed it. That was smart defending his own that's the thing with black women (Nigerian included) they don't take it when you are lazy they will nag that laziness outta you. They don't mind if ther suffer for you as long as you know what you are doing and they trust you. They are faithful until you treat them like crap and they are proud. Proud of their strenght they are smart and I love them |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Amya(f): 11:32pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
Nice reply from the guy. I'm a proud black woman! |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by freecocoa(f): 11:41pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
Choi see reply,walahi that white woman go think about her life tire. Good one bro. |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Mynd44: 11:43pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
That guy is good |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Nobody: 11:48pm On Jan 18, 2012 |
ronkebp: Gbam. Can someone send this to Lefulefu, i think it'll make an interesting read for him |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by IbroSaunks(m): 12:10am On Jan 19, 2012 |
so the lady generalized, and the guy decided to generalize too, stylishly insulting white women in the process! so there r no virtuous white women 1 Like |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Nobody: 12:13am On Jan 19, 2012 |
1 Like |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Nobody: 3:13am On Jan 19, 2012 |
Arosa: why does that bother you? this is what i am talking about though. YES it's VERY annoying when black men try to literally piss us off when dating white women. Smiling when they walk with them and making eye contact with us to make sure that we are mad, but what annoys me the most is when black women GIVE them the satisfaction. For every black man who prefers other women there are more who prefer sisters. Who is Michael Jordan? lol i love his shoes and he is a legend but his relationship does NOT affect me. I still want my black men and that's what I go for. |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Njgirl1: 3:41am On Jan 19, 2012 |
Mynd_44:touching piece, after all d 9ja gal bashing on nl, it feels good to know brothers like u still exist. Thumbs up bro naijababe:@msdarkskin u nailed it there, some brothers see dating outside their race as something special. Imagine brothers dissing sisters like we are not all black again.This section now feels more like racist section,white this black dat and d MODS are doing nothing, i think its left to us to start ignoring racist posts. |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Nobody: 3:45am On Jan 19, 2012 |
Nj girl: I'm definitely down with that. And the mods are definitely on vacation it seems. |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Njgirl1: 4:07am On Jan 19, 2012 |
MsDarkSkin:lol lmao @ d mods being on vacation. |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Mynd44: 8:52am On Jan 19, 2012 |
Mods on vacation. I wonder where the venues is |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Wislet(f): 9:56am On Jan 19, 2012 |
Mynd_44:# congratulating myself# naijababe:I can literally see him spitting fire. Dnt worry he's still on treatment Nj girl:I'm doing a good job on my bobo |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by 2kurupt(m): 4:42pm On Jan 19, 2012 |
Being racist no matter how you put it is still RACISM, Sad we can't just see all human beings without prejudice |
Re: White Woman And A Black Man's Response by Wislet(f): 5:15pm On Jan 19, 2012 |
^ hey dear, dnt take it serious ok? No one is being racist here. Everyone is the same. |
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