because half the time the girl isnt all she cracked herself up to be.

buzzgonz:

Sorry re you with us?

i don't see any sense u've written

i think its just a guy thing!
                  because sometimes the the girl is not
                    boaring at all,
                      infact she now wants to see him all the time
                        if she has cash she wants to spend on him ,
                          she wants love attention and all that
                            she sends him SMS always, he just reads it and no repplies
                              he gives the excuse that he has no credit
                                she rechages his fone after one or two times call he stops
                          so u see that its really not the girls fult here.





                            expirience has shown that the chasing piriod
                                 other wise known as the toastting time
                                    is the best time a lady can really have
                                       because at that time the guy is really her
                                         toybox then , she calls the short then
                                           but wen the guy johny begging choup sweet potato
                                               then he just stops calling and expects the girl to do all the
                                                   dirty job





                          so chicks hold ur potato 4 long
                             if he wants u he would keep doing the dirty job
                                4 u, hahahahahheehehhe
 
                 
    i think i should be a councelor to ladies
       i no say mo lenu gon

jkpretty - Try Again your IQ rate is 50 you should sell, . .

@EFOSA VAL

You Again

Can't you post straight?

buzzgonz:

jkpretty - Try Again your IQ rate is 50 you should sell, . .

@EFOSA VAL

You Again

Can't you post straight?

NO, I CANT

cos i am different

iyeme! Ok continue!!

The calling should not be a one sided thing.
I dated a girl that calls me whenever she thinks i suppose to call but did not. Atimes, she call me with her last credit. I will then buy credit and send to her to pay her back.
Before her, i dated one girl that only flash whenever she want to hear from me. Atime she will not even flash for 2 months.
The call, text is also a good assessment for the man to determine your level of care for him.

Soundmind:

The calling should not be a one sided thing.
I dated a girl that calls me whenever she thinks i suppose to call but did not. Atimes, she call me with her last credit. I will then buy credit and send to her to pay her back.
Before her, i dated one girl that only flash whenever she want to hear from me. Atime she will not even flash for 2 months.
The call, text is also a good assessment for the man to determine your level of care for him.

I hope you flashed her back , haba !

@ the poster many have said it already,if a man loses interest in a girl after the chase,could be all he needed from her was sex and he got it or is getting it.
why buy the cow when the milk is free?

Most girls dont realise it but more often than not,when a guy chops and starts going,its not because he's got what he wants,have u thought whether that all that is available on the plate?i mean it,many girls really have nothing else to offer?!They find it hard to pass through the discipline of developing thier minds.they just develop THEIR LOOKS ,THEIR BODIES , and thats all that will be on offer if dats d case!!!!!!

Nwando i dont think so. Chasing a girl sometimes is not just because of sex.

I'd suggest that guys tend to lose in a relationship based on the following reasons: while chasing/trying to woo the lady it's always a new experience to him, he is always prepared cos she might be unpredictable and act funny cos life is an adventure. So the lady believes that since she'd accepts the guy's proposal the guy should live up to billing.

Top_Kin, you will definitely live a long prosperous and fruitful life, ur contribution is what i may call "Epitome of Wisdom".

Like Top_Kin said 'its a law' at a point in time people get tired of the status quo, it is left for the duo in a relationship to always spice it and keep it alive.
by the way have u ever thought of calling him. there might be a possibilty that the whole fault is urs.
No human can stand showering love on some one that doesnt show appreciation through reciprocation.
LOOK WITHIN, Good luck

I think most of our naija babes take it too far perhaps due to cultural thing. A lady doesn't have to throw herself at a guy on the first approach I agree hundred percent.  But why lead the guy on when you don't want him in the first place?, why keep pushing him just to find out how far he can take it?. Why let him commit his time, money and emotion for so long?. We (men) are like little children sometimes, you push us too far we become rebelious, you buy us beautiful toy you get our attention (I'm nottalking about materialism here), you show us love we become our love, you are friendly to us u have us to yourself. There is this saying that "we (men) are like hardwood floor if you lay us down right the first time you walk on us forever".

As for me, I only owe you 3 unreturned calls within 3 weeks period. If you are too busy to return 3 consecutives calls, it could be you're too busy for me, you are out of town, you are currently in a relationship, or God forbid you are sick. Who want to waste his time anyway.  By the way why do u ladies always want to see us suffer like that?.

4Him:

Nwando i don't think so. Chasing a girl sometimes is not just because of sex.

I didn't say all the time dear.

I've heard men say there are 2 types of girls.

1.The ones you only want in your bed
2.The ones you want to bear your children and name

so it depends on where the girl fits.

@nwando
dear,like i said,those dat have developed only thier looks are for the mattress,those that have developed other things like thier minds,(cos its primarily about companionship,which is a thing of d mind)will end up being companions for life!!!

Cue:

@nwando
dear,like i said,those that have developed only their looks are for the mattress,those that have developed other things like their minds,(because its primarily about companionship,which is a thing of d mind)will end up being companions for life!!!

My sisters on nairaland,una don hear am!

If you make yourself udala (agbalumo) men will lick you and throway the remains

lol@nwando

wonder what mr osisi will have to say about this

D-reloaded:

wonder what mr osisi will have to say about this

LOL
That is eh!
I'll have my ghana must go on the next locomotive back to Okija junction

lol!no worry,i'm @ a safe distance

Interesting,

Simplest answer is once a man knows something belongs to him, the chase is over. It doesn't mean he doesn't love or care anymore, it only reflects a change in the order of priorities.

Life is afterall about the last big thing you did,, so always make sure you man/woman is the last big thing you did.

Q - Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?

A - because they aint worth it plain and simple

If a lady is not interested in a guy or starting a relationship, she should tell him in no uncertain terms and mean it.

And you guys will listen?

In my opinion, I think it depends on what the guy was chasing. If a guy chases a lady or girl for sex, when he gets that, he has won and every game ends when there's a winner.


You ve spoken my mind terrysoft.i was wondering when the guys in the house will let the cat out of the bag.And u can see the trend has changed.guys are talking in this regard now.i guess the ladies are waiting for this too

Oya!!!! ROUND TWO, GBAGAM!!!

How i wish there was gsm when i was 'chaseable' lol

maybe it wasnt just ment to be ,

do all of you understand the meaning of TERMS AND CONDITION APPLY

Many guys see chasing ladies as a game. Acceptance of the proposal means they have won the game.They begin to play another game(chase another lady). Only few guys chase a lady because of genuine love.

stillwater:

And you guys will listen?

We always listen. If you think we dont its because you people are never plain.

as if ladies dont _{abeg leave matter}

The answer is this: For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction

Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?

Guys cannot disobey the simple laws of nature.
The novelty surrounding a new relationship wanes after a while. . . .
It's just like getting a new car. . . . .in the 1st few weeks, one can't take their hands/eyes off it but after a while the schitzo fades out.