₦airaland Forum

Henitan24:
Baby is this you?

Rilwayne001:
Are you having a mental disorder?

TheManofTomorrow:
They only difference between African and white ladies is that when you chat with a white lady, you chat with them as a friend and not not trying to woo them.

I have tried wooing white girls and succeeded in some

At least most of the times and there are some lovers topic you can't talk to them about.

I have talked about lovers topic with a lot of white girls and believe me the chat was a bomb


But most guys, when they chat with a lady, they probably wanna woo that lady at the short or long run, if a lady sense that and she's not feeling you, she might take your conversations for granted and reply poo to discourage you. She might even ask you to send her gift, that I don't dispute.

Nigerian ladies shouldn't ask for gift as a means to chase a guy away. No white girl will do that.

A lady that senses you wanna make friends with her will chat on a neutral ground.

Most Nigerian ladies I've chatted with, I don't even woo them. Just normal chat of "Hello how are you" she start acting up.


Have you ever observed your chats with a lady yoy don't feel. I'm sure, the chats aren't gonna be what u aren't proud off.


I have never engaged in a chat with a lady that I don't feel. If I'm not interested in a lady, I open up and tell her that im not in the mood to chat or am not interested in her. She will leave. That's how a mature person should behave and not forming sh!t as if he/she is doing someone a favor by responding to their chats

obowunmi:
Buhari, the BokoHoram terrorist.

Esseite:
THE PRESIDENCY IS STILL WITH THE NORTH 2019, THE COUNTRY JUST NEEDS A BETTER CANDIDATE TO GIVE US SIGNS OF HOPE, THAT IS ALL.

BUHARI HAS FAILED FAR BEYOND REASONABLE DOUBT.

Rilwayne001:
Nigerians deserve better than Buhari indeed, but do we have any "better" On ground? Is it Atiku that's better? Is it Saraki that's better?

I would have voted Osinbajo or Fashola if they were contesting against Buhari, and I think with the hype on Kingsley Morghalu, he's likely to be a visionary leader than Buhari, but do they all stand any chance? No. Does that mean we should now hand over power to the most corrupt political party in the world (PDP) absolutely NO.

OkaNaUbe:
Buhari's failure is visible to the blind and audible to the deaf. We deserve better!

I don't have any political affiliations but I think Donald Duke is the type of leader we need as President.

Lizilicious:
All I know is if Buhari wins 2019 presidential election, I will leave this country..


It's either he leaves or I leave...



I can't take it anymore

chronique:
Anybody who believes buhari can still turn things around, needs an urgent brain transplant. I didn't vote him because I was sure he wouldn't do anything new. But then, I decided I was going to support him if he proved me wrong and performed. Unfortunately, he not only did not fail to perform but also made things worse. Buhari lacks the intellectual capacity to govern a modern day Nigeria and move the country forward. He should just leave and go tend to his cows in daura.

Metuh:
Buhari issa disaster waiting to happen. Never again.

Rilwayne001:
Definitely Donald Duke would make a better president than Buhari, but does he stand a chance?
Besides, is Buhari not better than the corrupt conglomerate in PDP?

cucumbae:
Buhari is a disaster.Under him as president,7million Nigerians lost their jobs.Fuel price was increased from ₦97 to ₦145 per litre.This was an hypocrite who led protest against past president due to increment of fuel price.
Under buhari,price of a bag of garri went up from ₦5k to ₦15k.It managed to go down to ₦8k.Bmc are bragging that inflation has reduced.
Under buhari,a bag of rice went up to ₦20k from ₦8k.They said they would introduced local and cheaper rice.Where is the local rice?
Under buhari,a dollar went up from ₦200 to to ₦360.Fulani herdsmen have gotten licences to carry guns and kill at will.Nepotism and ethnic bigotry are his watchwords.Chai Babarian!

Bullhari007:
Zai Barbar will go down the line as the most useless clueless clumsy lifeless clown idiotic confuse President the world Ever had

Whobedatte:
Enemies of Nigeria have spoken.
Get a life bro.

franchasng:
tell them

crazygod:
ASUU no strike under bubu? Abi book haram no kidnap dapchi girls and killed good soldiers? Abi u get light for ur house now? Abeg no start your fanaticism this early morning

baliyubla:
You dare cast aspersions on their dullard? They are coming for you.

luvinhubby:
Zombie

gasparpisciotta:
This man has hit the nail right on its head. If PDP as the major opposition cannot present a credible alternative to PMB, then there is a problem. Over 50million adults n Nigeria and no one that can be presented on PDP' s platform to counter the Buhari wave except these over recycled, greedy lot. God please end this nightmare on our behalf, you did it during Noah time, please do it again.

Esseite:
THE PRESIDENCY IS STILL WITH THE NORTH 2019, THE COUNTRY JUST NEEDS A BETTER CANDIDATE TO GIVE US SIGNS OF HOPE, THAT IS ALL.

BUHARI HAS FAILED FAR BEYOND REASONABLE DOUBT.

madridsta007:
Nigeria, a country of 160 million to 180 million people, deserve better.

Nation-building is a task for serious, competent, full-of-life nationalist. Not unrepentant, lifeless, clueless, incompetent, dull bigots. Not people who accommodate incompetent and forgery-certificate fellows in their cabinent.

Quietly everyone knows this. Even this poster.

Esseite:
THE PRESIDENCY IS STILL WITH THE NORTH 2019, THE COUNTRY JUST NEEDS A BETTER CANDIDATE TO GIVE US SIGNS OF HOPE, THAT IS ALL.

BUHARI HAS FAILED FAR BEYOND REASONABLE DOUBT.

kingthreat:
True. Personally, I think Buhari should retire, become an elder statesman like Gowon and play with his grandkids. We need someone more vibrant.
But with his contestants like the extremely corrupt Atiku, Saraki, Lamido and more useless ex-Northern governors, I prefer him to go on. I dont want to talk about that ambitious pro-homosexual Donald Duke, who is presently bringing light to the rumors about him.
People like Kingsley Moghalu and Fela Durotoye are good candidiates but it is not our faults that they did not align themselves politically all these while.
My Igbo brothers, don't keep on hating. Buhari has been blessed with the support of the people. 2023 is an opportunity to clinch the presidency. You all better start your groundwork.
So, the stance remains the same Nigerians.
SAI BABA TILL 2023.

FiftyFifty:
You've every right to express ur opinion but well meaning Nigerians have resolved... Sai Baba!

QuotaSystem:
If Nigerians could withstand 16 whole years of PDP destruction, looting, poor leadership & infrastructural decay, 4 more years of recovery and rebuilding is a piece of cake. Just ask the tens of thousands of N Power and TraderMoni beneficiaries.

We know Buhari is not Pope Benedict but who does Mosh expect Nigerians to vote? PDP? Lmao.

PDP's 16 years of FAILURE to provide basics like stable power, roads, ports, quality education etc. must never be repeated in this Nation's history.

Never again will we allow the ASUU strike & Boko Haram party lead us again.

From North to South, West to 5%...

Its Sai Baba till 2023 no shaking!

hahahahahaha:
is that really your face? wow

IamPlato:
...

Happy Birthday

And Yes I Need Your Shoulder To Lean On

Tamarapetty:
Some guys are boring too, the one wey dey pain me reach heart is 'HMMM'. Gawd! It's so annoying.

TheManofTomorrow:
[b] I was reading a thread on Nairaland yesternight titled What made you lose interest in someone you were wooing
https://www.nairaland.com/4720314/what-made-lose-interest-someone.
The utmost comment there was about Nigerian Ladies being as boring as Bleep. Some men even went as far a comparing them to Western lasses which to them are great conversationalist.
At this, I thought of chipping this in.


Listen guys, there nothing as being boring, the person is just not interested in you, get that into your skull.
If you notice your chats with a lady is boring, its simple meaning is just the lady is just not feeling you. You don't go about ranting all around the cyber space just because of that. Do you?
Have you ever chatted with a lady you're uninterested in? There won't always be ur bright side of the chat innit? That's the rule of life, priority.
If you chat with a lady for some weeks and the chat can be termed boring, stop messaging her, its is that simple. Rather than trying to force words from her mouth. Its not destined for you to flow with every lady in ur chatbox.

FYI, a lady u term boring is somewhere chatting with a another guy and they are having a good time. That's life bro. Learn to live with it.

Sometimes ago, a Lady friend of mine showed me her fb chats recently, and I was like WTF, some men still do this.
A man(full blown one at that) messaging a girl 10unreplied times and still not relenting. That's the height of it. I was just weeping for such guys in my mind. Must you keep a convo with every lady you meet?
After going through the ladies chat that day, I lost respect for some men. Gross content I must say and yet the accuse ladies of being boring.
Take a cue and get get the Bleep out of her chat if shez not chatting the way you like.

I once messaged a lady sometimes ago. She was the kind that drools chat with guys, tho she is pretty. Guess what, I stopped messaging her altogether until we met proper in school.
We talked, and she had an hint of my personality. She messaged me herself that night, come see our chats now, its the bomb, you will be wondering sef if she is the same girl. It's not by "Hello", " Hi"

And again, must you always be the one to start a conversation. I have a few ladies on my chatlist that messages me first when they need to talk and I lead them on like a pro. That's how it should be.

If you chat with a lady and its isn't a promising one. Move on. Shez not boring. Go see see her convo with some other guys. That's just the way it should be

See what a Nairalander has to say on that say thread below and I agree with him 150%
https://www.nairaland.com/4720314/what-made-lose-interest-someone/13#71000103

A word is enough for the wise. My piece[/b]
Cc: ilegendd

Tolex4real9:
I agree with some of the things you said above but still most Nigerian ladies are boring AF. They can't hold intelligent conversation . They are only good at celebrity talk and chifchat. Ask them the name of the senators in their states and you will be shocked

TheManofTomorrow:
[b] I was reading a thread on Nairaland yesternight titled What made you lose interest in someone you were wooing
https://www.nairaland.com/4720314/what-made-lose-interest-someone.
The utmost comment there was about Nigerian Ladies being as boring as Bleep. Some men even went as far a comparing them to Western lasses which to them are great conversationalist.
At this, I thought of chipping this in.


Listen guys, there nothing as being boring, the person is just not interested in you, get that into your skull.
If you notice your chats with a lady is boring, its simple meaning is just the lady is just not feeling you. You don't go about ranting all around the cyber space just because of that. Do you?
Have you ever chatted with a lady you're uninterested in? There won't always be ur bright side of the chat innit? That's the rule of life, priority.
If you chat with a lady for some weeks and the chat can be termed boring, stop messaging her, its is that simple. Rather than trying to force words from her mouth. Its not destined for you to flow with every lady in ur chatbox.

FYI, a lady u term boring is somewhere chatting with a another guy and they are having a good time. That's life bro. Learn to live with it.

Sometimes ago, a Lady friend of mine showed me her fb chats recently, and I was like WTF, some men still do this.
A man(full blown one at that) messaging a girl 10unreplied times and still not relenting. That's the height of it. I was just weeping for such guys in my mind. Must you keep a convo with every lady you meet?
After going through the ladies chat that day, I lost respect for some men. Gross content I must say and yet the accuse ladies of being boring.
Take a cue and get get the Bleep out of her chat if shez not chatting the way you like.

I once messaged a lady sometimes ago. She was the kind that drools chat with guys, tho she is pretty. Guess what, I stopped messaging her altogether until we met proper in school.
We talked, and she had an hint of my personality. She messaged me herself that night, come see our chats now, its the bomb, you will be wondering sef if she is the same girl. It's not by "Hello", " Hi"

And again, must you always be the one to start a conversation. I have a few ladies on my chatlist that messages me first when they need to talk and I lead them on like a pro. That's how it should be.

If you chat with a lady and its isn't a promising one. Move on. Shez not boring. Go see see her convo with some other guys. That's just the way it should be

See what a Nairalander has to say on that say thread below and I agree with him 150%
https://www.nairaland.com/4720314/what-made-lose-interest-someone/13#71000103

A word is enough for the wise. My piece[/b]
Cc: ilegendd

Fierce11:
MY NIGGA!
He has used the equilibrium shaker to unbalance their feminism..
But op, biko where the 'fighting-dirty-unclad-pics' na? I want to 'wash' it

Sarahkay:
Hello everyone, it's another day to write about another wonderful topic and this time around I'll be focusing on the girls and the so many things we do wrong while conversing with someone especially on social media.
First, I didn't just wake up to write this. I saw a very captivating post about a guy saying why he would rather chat with a foreign girl than a Nigerian girl (picture below) and it got me wondering..what did we do so wrong?

In my last post, I talked about how to know if you're a boring conversationalist, well, turns out most guys think Nigerian girls are clearly BORING online!
So I did some research and I've been able to put together the different things Nigerian girls do wrong in a conversation.
1.Everyone is a suspect!
This couldn't be more true. To a Nigerian girl, once you say 'hi' and your number isn't saved on her contact list... you're an automatic suspect. For all she knows, you could be a kidnapper or simply someone trying to woo her. Girls, let's calm down. Not everyone who says hi wants to take you to the alter, some just wants to make friends. Funny enough, the very first thing a girl ask when you tell her 'hi' is 'who gave you my number '?... without a reply whatsoever, it doesn't go well with the guys. Settle, be friendly and make them relax, that way, your question will be answered even without you asking. And guys, really, try to be less suspicious. You get a girl's number for the first time and chat her up..cool.. introduce yourself first and do not give her reasons to be someone you'll hate!.

2.Can't keep up conversation.
It's typical of most Nigerian girls to expect the guy to keep the conversation going. To them, if you wanna chat, you have to come up with all chat ideas. That's wrong!. It's a two way thing. I've been opportune to see different chats of Nigerian guys with foreign girls and honestly, it is DIFFERENT!. The girl should put in just as much effort as the guy in a conversation, do not chat like a robot, be lively and bring up interesting topics to talk about. BUT...guys let's be honest, most girls intentionally ignore your chats because you keep talking about perverted things and keep repeating things..see this;
Lol... I have seen this way too much.... For me the fact that I am a lazy texter... I hate small talks actually too... Most times I rather not even chat or start a conversation if we keep asking or talking about the same thing everyday (how you doing and your day?)... Most guys don't even know how to hold a conversation... The talk so dumb...especially does ones that have not even gotten to a limit of closeness with you.... WTF what are you wearing?? Tell me more about yourself... Uncle what exactly do you want to know.. I miss you.. Do you miss me Someone you barely know.. What the you want me to reply Biko..
So the above statement was made by a concerned Nigerian girl over the too much complains about Nigerian girls. Nigerian girls are mostly disciplined and if they sense any act showing you're a pervert, you're off the conversation.

3.Easily look down on a person.
This one is bad... actually, almost everyone does it. You get a chat and the next thing you do is look at the profile picture to see the kind of person it is. If they don't come off as too rich or handsome..it's off. Nigerian girls will automatically ignore someone if they are not too good looking and financially stable...it doesn't speak well.

4. Seem desperate at first chat!
This is done by few actually . I still don't understand if it's a way of testing your capabilities or just pure desperation but asking someone you just met online for help is not a good act to depict. Having the mindset that anybody who comes your way is definitely one to take to the slaughter is a very bad mindset and a total turnoff. And guys really need to stop showing off.

5.you chat like you're doing them a favor.
Lastly, chatting with someone is not doing them a favour, it's a choice and they're not getting paid for it. Don't chat with someone and make them feel like you're doing them a favour by giving your time, they're giving theirs too.

I would go on and on but I intend to make this as short as possible. In conclusion, we should be more accommodating. Give these guys benefit of the doubt and make our conversations something to look forward to not something to dread!
Stop 'k...ng' someone. The 'k' word is annoying and greatly disheartening....
To finish up..on ...
https://www.sarahkaysblog.com/2018/09/everything-nigerian-girls-do-wrong-in.html

amaniro:
What are you saying They have been married for years egbon. That's how is meant to be. If the relationship passes 5yrs end it!

MariaLavina:
I'm what you think I am

amaniro:
I know of a woman she got married 3 moths after meeting the husband. Now they are happily married with kids. My brother you've been dating for 6years!? is it covenant

amaniro:
An EXAMPLE!

amaniro:
An EXAMPLE!

mespusinglez:
MEANING

Dollarship:
If you believe this news that means you will vote for buhari again.....Problem of Nigeria

Issame:
Nigerian singer "wizkid" took to his twitter page to reveal the new project he is working on.

According to the singer, he will be building a school in every countries in Africa.

He Wrote:

I’ll need help from Fans to pick where we start this. �� trying to build a school in every Country in Africa.. Thats my dream. �

Source:
http://nairaplus.com/2018/09/wizkid-to-build-schools-in-every-countries-in-africa-photos/

amaniro:
it's another case then. I mean leaving the party then 5months later you're married, kinda stuff. It's just an example. But it's still not good