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| Men/is It Love Or Acts? by pendo89(f): 1:12pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
In response to the thread 'How to make a man worship you,one man replied and said If u like treat me like a king,like ur boss or ur best friend if I don't wanna be nice ,there is nothing u can do to change me.but if I am in luv,I will even lick ur feet to make u happy .its beta to be in a relationship with a guy dat trully luvs u It got me thinking. What would really make a man adore and treat you right? Some men no matter what you do for them will treat you like trash. Others will treat you right regardless. which between love and actions carries most weight? |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by radar5(m): 1:28pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
Whether love or action,all depends on maker of individual. Whosoever is coarse can't be fine. It is our inbuilt traits that control us. You can't force yourself on a person or force him to love you. 1 Like |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
I thought that lady had it all twisted when I read that thread. It certainly could be called BS. If a lady attempted all that with me, I'd be disinterested in no time. Why would anyone want to be worshipped? That beats my imagination! 3 Likes |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Nobody: 5:14pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
Love and action are inter-twined. Love is a verb. A verb is a action word. Which means that love is evident from your actions. If a man dislikes a woman to the point of hatred, nothing she does would make him love her. If he loves her on the other hand, it's evident from the way he treats her and the way he reciprocates that love. So, if my love for you is evident in my actions, and my actions are evidence of my love, I'll say Love is weighter. 2 Likes |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Nobody: 6:26pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
My short answer. A MAN CAN ONLY TREAT A LADY NICE IF SHE TREATS HER SELF NICE!! FULLSTOP 10 Likes |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Nobody: 6:30pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
Treat a man like a king (i.e. give him his respect as the man in your relationship), shower him with attention (dont suffocate him though), show that you care in the little ways (the occassional card to say you love him, popping over once in a while to fix a meal, give him a massage or clean his house)... A REAL man will love such a woman and treat her like precious gold. 3 Likes |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by 9zeros(m): 6:37pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
act right, i'll treat u right. act like a bi.tch, i'll treat u like a snitch. #believedat 2 Likes |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by luckgames(m): 6:48pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
davidylan: Treat a man like a king (i.e. give him his respect as the man in your relationship), shower him with attention (dont suffocate him though), show that you care in the little ways (the occassional card to say you love him, popping over once in a while to fix a meal, give him a massage or clean his house)...Yes If I give your gift learn to say thanks Take care of my needs and I will take care of your needs Fight bring it on Be a B  |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Mynd44: 6:50pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
Boring |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by blumail: 6:52pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
In my opinion a man treating u right is a function of his person; that he doesn't treat u like trash does not mean he loves, he just may not be the brash type. That u do all d right things can't make him love u, it can only endear him to u. But if he makes d decision to love u( cos love is a decision) then...  1 Like |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by luckgames(m): 6:54pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
blumail: In my opinion a man treating u right is a function of his person; that he doesn't treat u like trash does not mean he loves, he just may not be the brash type. That u do all d right things can't make him love u, it can only endear him to u. But if he makes d decision to love u( cos love is a decision) then...You treat women right Lot of they think that the man is a fool 1 Like |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Smallville4live(m): 6:55pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
Behave well and you will be treated like a queen. Mostly if there is love in that relationship. |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by armyofone(m): 6:58pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
says who? what is she?  pop in to clean his house? is she his housemaid, cleaning maid, custodial worker? is he going to do the same at her house? when you are not married yet, biko careful what you do for 'him' married, okay. not married, eh puhlease abeg, a real man will still love a lady even if she doesn't do those things you listed. davidylan: Treat a man like a king (i.e. give him his respect as the man in your relationship), shower him with attention (dont suffocate him though), show that you care in the little ways (the occassional card to say you love him, popping over once in a while to fix a meal, give him a massage or clean his house)... true thing is Naija men will love you if you have kudi fala fala. 1 Like |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by lifestyle1(m): 6:59pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
@ OP, Do you believe in "Love" ? |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Yorisb: 7:03pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Boring Lol. I thought I was the only one who..... #Lovegbakwaoku |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Mynd44: 7:05pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
life_style: @ OP, Do you believe in "Love" ?Define "love" |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Nobody: 7:08pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
armyofone: says who? what is she? I beg to disagree on the following counts: 1. Women on the web shld stop this pretense pls... stop acting as if you dont do such in your man's house. 2. So you would also agree that a man shld seal up his pockets when it comes to his woman until they are married right? No paying for her dinners, no giving her money for brazilian hair, no helping out with recharge cards once in a while right? Biko pls. 3. There is nothing wrong with the above, it does not mean the woman is a slave and no right thinking dude will treat her as such. armyofone: False. 1 Like |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by DramsQ: 7:10pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
| @ vikin true talk abeg ure so on point. |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by lifestyle1(m): 7:15pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
Mynd_44: There is no universally acceptable definition of LOVE. For me, Love means what you think it means to you until you are proven wrong. |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Orikinla(m): 7:17pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
Faith, love and mutual respect. |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Koolking(m): 7:22pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
Pendo89 you have the answer to your query. The secret lies within you. The key word is SIMPLICITY 1 Like
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| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Koolking(m): 7:31pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
^excuse my blunder. I was hasty in tying those words together. . . .but pack it nicely and beautifully . . .you can love me or not, I won't change |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Pakavy(m): 7:32pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Boringthen go 2 bed |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Sagamite(m): 7:40pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
pendo89: In response to the thread 'How to make a man worship you,one man replied and said I treat ladies like ladies. I treat women like women. I treat shytheads like shytheads. All that is in decreasing order of niceness and class. Ladies are lovely people and I treat them with love. Women are selfish people and I treat them with the best of my selfishness and indifference. Shytheads are .....well...... shytheads. Treat them like worthless dogs. If you are a lady and you are a nice person but yet a man treats you badly, it is your fault, you made the choice. YOU picked him. 2 Likes |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by armyofone(m): 7:44pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
@ davidylan: I didnt do all those things and prince charming popped the surprise question with huge diamond  david, you will get your iv  in the mail. anyway, the truth is there is more to who you are than meet the eyes. no one size fit all. to each their own bros. |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Sagamite(m): 7:44pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
davidylan: Treat a man like a king (i.e. give him his respect as the man in your relationship), shower him with attention (dont suffocate him though), show that you care in the little ways (the occassional card to say you love him, popping over once in a while to fix a meal, give him a massage or clean his house)... You forgot to add at the end: ....if she is attractive and he is attracted to her. There are few things more disheartening for some not attractive girl to think personality alone will get her a man like me. |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by queensmith: 7:45pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
he will only treat you right if he was raised right, the way he treats people is a reflection of how he will treat you. You cannot make a man out of a dog. sauer: I thought that lady had it all twisted when I read that thread. It certainly could be called BS. GBAM! |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by blumail: 7:46pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
luckgames:True & u shldnt waste ur effort on such women. But then it shldnt change u cos by that u'll no longer fit with d right person who'll appreciate u for U. |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Nuzo1(m): 7:48pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
"There is an old law of physics that you can only get out of a thing as much as you put in it" - Ronald Regan Letter to his son on the eve of his marriage. |
| Re: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by Sagamite(m): 7:50pm On Jun 20, 2012 |
armyofone: says who? what is she? You are a Arrow!  So you have to be his housemaid, cleaning maid, custodial worker blah blah blah before you do all those? But you expect him to pay when you go on dates? Because he is your caretaker? You expect him to come and pick you up from the station if you feel it is unsafe? Because he is your bodygaurd? You expect him to do something romantic for valentine's day? Because he is your father xmas? You expect him to take your womanly irrational BS? Because he is your psychiatrist? 5 Likes |
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