by the way, ofc he can pay for my dinner but not brazillian hair. not a fan of such though.

i can pay for my brazillian hair if i want it. when we are married, well, i will be in control of the money so no need for that

but just because you are paying for my dinner and buying me those hair doesn't mean i should start playing full wifey role nah nah.

na wah for expectation from girlfriend sha.

davidylan:

I beg to disagree on the following counts:

1. Women on the web shld stop this pretense pls... stop acting as if you dont do such in your man's house.

2. So you would also agree that a man shld seal up his pockets when it comes to his woman until they are married right? No paying for her dinners, no giving her money for brazilian hair, no helping out with recharge cards once in a while right? Biko pls.

3. There is nothing wrong with the above, it does not mean the woman is a slave and no right thinking dude will treat her as such.



False.

armyofone: by the way, ofc he can pay for my dinner but not brazillian hair. not a fan of such though.

i can pay for my brazillian hair if i want it. when we are married, well, i will be in control of the money so no need for that

but just because you are paying for my dinner and buying me those hair doesn't mean i should start playing full wifey role nah nah.

na wah for expectation from girlfriend sha.

Why should your be in control of the money?

life_style:

There is no universally acceptable definition of LOVE.

For me, Love means what you think it means to you until you are proven wrong.

Then stop referring to it

@armyofone,beta treat ur man right n stop being a feminist.There is so much competition 4 men dis days....Even Abgani Derego is stil unmarried at 29 probably because she talk down on genuine men n refuses to mop or clean theire houses.find out d marital status of oda beuty queens...guys r refusing 2 marry dem cos d luv is broken beyond repairs due to their xter

i'm into accounting plus in our kind of job in the mil, he travels more than i do. satisfied?

luckgames:

Why should your be in control of the money?

luckgames:
You treat women right
Lot of they think that the man is a fool

u r right bro

armyofone: i'm into accounting plus in our kind of job in the mil, he travels more than i do. satisfied?

Yes
Pleas don't go buy a land in your name only
before he get back home

Thank you sir. i will sir
I worship the ground he stands on, dobale all the time, satisfied?

mangbede: @armyofone,beta treat ur man right n stop being a feminist.There is so much competition 4 men dis days....Even Abgani Derego is stil unmarried at 29 probably because she talk down on genuine men n refuses to mop or clean theire houses.find out d marital status of oda beuty queens...guys r refusing 2 marry dem cos d luv is broken beyond repairs due to their xter

who told you i'm a feminist?
Mother of God who gave me label

Just messing with you armyofone

haha, very funny!

luckgames:
Yes
Pleas don't go buy a land in your name only
before he get back home

armyofone: haha, very funny!

You are a good sport
Good luck

sighs! can i start this argument with baba agbo today?

thinking of how to handle this cretinous quote.
i will leave you for another day, man!

Sagamite:

You are a Arrow!

So you have to be his housemaid, cleaning maid, custodial worker blah blah blah before you do all those?

But you expect him to pay when you go on dates? Because he is your caretaker?

You expect him to come and pick you up from the station if you feel it is unsafe? Because he is your bodygaurd?

You expect him to do something romantic for valentine's day? Because he is your father xmas?

You expect him to take your womanly irrational BS? Because he is your psychiatrist?

sauer: I thought that lady had it all twisted when I read that thread. It certainly could be called BS.
If a lady attempted all that with me, I'd be disinterested in no time. Why would anyone want to be worshipped? That beats my imagination!

Gbam!!!! Gbam!!!! Good to hear a man say this.


Many have replaced God with Husband .....only God must be worshipped.
Infact we partner in marriage to both look in adoration to our Creator.
Man can be pampered, cared for many etc things like that but Man or Woman is not God
And the fastest way to get molested by your hubby or wife is to make them into an idol....its unfair on them and they know they ain't got such powers , so you then look the fool and is kicked to the curb.

I tell my man I love to cook for you as a labour of love because I care about your health and want you alive for a very long time but if you act like I was created to cook for you then you ain't getting no food from my kitchen till you apologize.

armyofone: by the way, ofc he can pay for my dinner but not brazillian hair. not a fan of such though.

i can pay for my brazillian hair if i want it. when we are married, well, i will be in control of the money so no need for that

but just because you are paying for my dinner and buying me those hair doesn't mean i should start playing full wifey role nah nah.

na wah for expectation from girlfriend sha.

Another sucker more in love with his gal than she is with him. Hmmn.

A woman in love always wants to do wifey like stuff foe her guy. Even Oyibo babe I once dated that was hard core feminist, when she fell head over heels in love, she started trying to cook for me. Its a natural cumpulsion from a decent woman that loves her guy so long as the guy treats her fine.

So what? They will wave some magic marriage wand and you will become domestic after marriage?

Please all change the word worshiped to appreciate
Will that make a difference?

Sagamite:

I treat ladies like ladies.

I treat women like women.

I treat shytheads like shytheads.

All that is in decreasing order of niceness and class.

Ladies are lovely people and I treat them with love.

Women are selfish people and I treat them with the best of my selfishness and indifference.

Shytheads are .....well...... shytheads. Treat them like worthless dogs.

If you are a lady and you are a nice person but yet a man treats you badly, is your fault, you made the choice. YOU picked him.

^^^well said!!!

@Pendo
in my world WHORES are treated like WHORES and broke ass begging biatches are used and abused.
if a man meets a woman with CLASS who respects herself (and him), then equal respect will be handed to her, whether she is your future GF or just a friend........the problem is that many women dont know when to give up. if a man clearly shows you that he is NOT interested in you, then this lady should simply WALK AWAY, rather than lower herself to entice him with stoopid tricks that would make her look like a desperate woman (like many do).

the problem with what you/the guy wrote is that he will even go as far as licking a woman's feet to please her.......aba God forbid. what he wrote just shows us all how some men are ready and willing to lower themselves just to be with someone. NOBODY should do that because r/ship are about being EQUAL, and not the king/queen and their servants. whats next on his list? licking her bootay hole?!

Mynd_44:
Then stop referring to it

You don't know why i ask the op the question so stay out of this and go to bed, ok ?

life_style:

You don't know why i ask the op the question so stay out of this and go to bed, ok ?

Sorry
It might be your bed time but just lunch time for some people

armyofone: sighs! can i start this argument with baba agbo today?

thinking of how to handle this cretinous quote.
i will leave you for another day, man!

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Girl are theif. Short fat a.s.s thing. Money is what the what nothing more. Jumping from one guy to another.
And by the way i can love a used-product. Men done enter many time. Waiting for love girl. Hahahaha not me.

Vikin: My short answer.

A MAN CAN ONLY TREAT A LADY NICE/RIGHT IF SHE TREATS HER SELF NICE/RIGHT + RESPECTS HERSELF!!

FULLSTOP

Me likey Vikin!

[quote ajavascript:void(0);uthor=cowgurl] Me likey Vikin! [/quote]
You have start you mess ?
You need to go play with yourself
I am done with you

Sagamite:
If you are a lady and you are a nice person but yet a man treats you badly, is your fault, you made the choice. YOU picked him.

Finding it hard to digest that.We have many sheep in wolves clothing.

horny4u:
And the fastest way to get molested by your hubby or wife is to make them into an idol....its unfair on them and they know they ain't got such powers , so you then look the fool and is kicked to the curb.

mmh.I think ur right dear.

luckgames:
Sorry
It might be your bed time but just lunch time for some people

Are you trying to tell me indirectly that you live abroad ?

life_style:

Are you trying to tell me indirectly that you live abroad ?

No I live in ikeja

pendo89:
Finding it hard to digest that.We have many sheep in wolves clothing.

Normally girls, including good ones, like to pick bad boys.

They shouldn't whine when he is bad.

armyofone: by the way, ofc he can pay for my dinner but not brazillian hair. not a fan of such though.

i can pay for my brazillian hair if i want it. when we are married, well, i will be in control of the money so no need for that

but just because you are paying for my dinner and buying me those hair doesn't mean i should start playing full wifey role nah nah.

na wah for expectation from girlfriend sha.

nonsense. But you expect him to start playing husband roles before marriage right?
Ladies and their hypocritical tricks.
Like Sagamite rightly said - Is it ok if he ignores vals day, your birthday and gets you no gifts at christmas since afterall he is not your father?
You do expect him to be there to listen to your rantings when you need someone to vent to right? Is he your mother?
You dont have to be a slave to do a man's laundry, clean his home or cook for him. I for one cannot marry a woman who thinks all those things are above her until she gets a ring.

pendo89:
"Finding it hard to digest that.We have many sheep in wolves clothing."
Guess what?
You are one

luckgames: pendo89:
"Finding it hard to digest that.We have many sheep in wolves clothing."
Guess what?
You are one

Ok lets just say ur right. I could even be a bear.

So, if my love for you is evident in my actions, and my actions are evidence of my love,

true

In my opinion a man treating u right is a function of his person; that he doesn't treat u like trash does not mean he loves, he just may not be the brash type. That u do all d right things can't make him love u, it can only endear him to u. But if he makes d decision to love u( cos love is a decision)

I think many of us misunderstand and interpret it to mean love

The secret lies within you. The key word is SIMPLICITY

yeah just be who you are and let him decide.

he will only treat you right if he was raised right, the way he treats people is a reflection of how he will treat you. You cannot make a man out of a dog.

heavy stuff but makes sense.Difficult to mold a grown up.

You treat women right
Lot of they think that the man is a fool

Did you read the thread a 20 year old opened complaining about his sister's wayward behaviour? yet the husbands treats her plus her entire family well?
Her case is exceptional but hey treat women right cz they are not all equal.

And the fastest way to get molested by your hubby or wife is to make them into an idol....its unfair on them and they know they ain't got such powers , so you then look the fool and is kicked to the curb.

I think so too. I think one loses herself in the process??

A woman in love always wants to do wifey like stuff foe her guy.

Really? I guess it's natural but not all women would.Besides some men wont allow that.

the problem is that many women dont know when to give up. if a man clearly shows you that he is NOT interested in you, then this lady should simply WALK AWAY, rather than lower herself to entice him with stoopid tricks that would make her look like a desperate woman (like many do).

Are you able to differentiate the two? genuine love and tricks?

If a lady attempted all that with me, I'd be disinterested in no time. Why would anyone want to be worshipped? That beats my imagination!

Well some want their ego boosted first to get them into action.

Mynd_44: Boring

really boring.